An Exhibitionist

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Mr.L.J.M

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... i dont really think i am...

but last night my girl came over and we had a great night together.. i cooked her dinner... and we hung out... it was great. as usual she was looking absolutly amazing... and i couldnt get my eyes off her... anyway.. we had a bath together which was magical... and by tghis stage i think i was unbearable hot for her... we got onto my bed and touched for a while... now the thing is she is in a bit of a rutt at the moment and she isnt really horny and doesnt want to have sex ( OOhhh I know ! ) ... but it became to much for me... so i started touching myself while she watched... it was a wierd feeling... but exciting at the same time... and whne i came it was wicked.. a different feeling to usual... obviously not as good as sex, but alot better then your average wank.

i never considered myself an exhibitionist, but this was fun. maybe i am.. who knows...

anyone else enjoy this sort of thing? how can we make it more fun in the future? share your stories or what ever.
cheers
 
Mr.L.J.M said:
i never considered myself an exhibitionist, but this was fun. maybe i am.. who knows...

anyone else enjoy this sort of thing? how can we make it more fun in the future? share your stories or what ever.
cheers
My ex-husband masturbated for me once, right after we were married. I thought it was incredibly hot. He, on the other hand, was SO ashamed that he never did it again. Well, not in front of me, anyway. :(

My husband and I love to masturbate for each other. Not only is it fun, but it's also a great way to learn about what the other person likes.

Don't worry about the label unless it really concerns you. Just run with it and have fun! :p
 
Eilan said:
My ex-husband masturbated for me once, right after we were married. I thought it was incredibly hot. He, on the other hand, was SO ashamed that he never did it again. Well, not in front of me, anyway. :(

My husband and I love to masturbate for each other. Not only is it fun, but it's also a great way to learn about what the other person likes.

Don't worry about the label unless it really concerns you. Just run with it and have fun! :p


wow, thanks! its posters like you that make lit a wicked place to post!
 
Awww. . .

And here I thought I was being all condescending and stuff! :eek:

Just kidding--I think that being in a relationship where you trust each other enough to do something that you'd normally do when you're alone is really amazing!

After the episode with my ex, I was a bit shy about this at first, but my hubby enjoys masturbating for me so much that I had no problem returning the favor.
 
My husband loves to have me masturbate for him. Recently while we were on a trip alone. I waited for him to come back to our room, and I was dressed in a very sexy outfit and he waled in and caught me with several different vibrators and he got so hard so fast watching me get off that he also started to jack off. It was very hot.
 
SallyIsHere said:
I LOVE watching a guy masturbate. One of my favorite things.

Hear, hear! It's a bit of a fetish of mine. :eek: My husband has done it for me numerous times and it always gets me hotter than hot. He is an exhibitionist, so he rather enjoys doing it, as well. I've masturbated for him a few times and found that to be thrilling as well.
 
Mr.L.J.M said:
... but it became to much for me... so i started touching myself while she watched...


That's so sweet! I am wondering what her reaction was...? I think it is very sexy but it also would have me getting horny after all. And even if I did not want sex for myself I know for a fact that if my BF would do that I would certainly have helped him a hand (or mouth ;) ) ....

My BF and I masturbate for each other regularly. Why? It is sexy for one, but also sometimes we get really close to an orgasm but it just doesn't happen. Happens to him, happens to me sometimes. So that could be the reason as well. Also I think it can be very informative... :D I've seen him do it enough to know exactly how to get him off that way. He's still learning ;) but I know I'm 'wired' more difficult :p

Plus I don't know if this one counts but some time ago we were talking on IM... he was at work and I was at home. We were telling each other how great sex had been that night and then he asked me if I was horny at that moment. I said I was. From there on he gave me directions by telling me how to maturbate by myself. When he came home from work later that day he made me show him what I had done. He needed not a lot of persuation I can tell you! Damn, that was sexy!
 
This is a new-found fetish of mine also... I just love to watch my fiance masturbate and I love to do it for him! Sometimes he'll even do it while he looks at my pics, which is SOOO hot!
 
I've masturbated in front of my gf a few times and I must admit, I did have a better orgasm from it than when I'm alone.

I think it might be the thrill of sharing something with someone that is usually considered to be private.

The only thing that I can reccomend to make it "better" is to ask her to play with your ass with her finger or a toy while you do it... But, only if you're both game for that sort of thing.
 
phoenix1224 said:
I've masturbated in front of my gf a few times and I must admit, I did have a better orgasm from it than when I'm alone.

I think it might be the thrill of sharing something with someone that is usually considered to be private.

The only thing that I can reccomend to make it "better" is to ask her to play with your ass with her finger or a toy while you do it... But, only if you're both game for that sort of thing.


It is totally awesome to watch, although I have the hardest time keeping my hands to myself (I doubt he minds that much). The whole event of watching him is just so erotic and sexy to me. Just sitting back some and watching the looks on his face while he's thoroughly enjoying himself is just amazing. I like to watch sometimes, just to see how his body reacts when I can fully pay attention to him.

I'm not much for masturbation myself. I find that if I wait until I get to have sex, the sex is like a zillion times better. So of course, he doesnt get to just watch me. Then again, the couple of times that I did try to get my hands involved while his were busy, he kinda pushed me out and wouldnt let me join in the fun, so I havent really tried to do the masturbation thing while he watched because of that.
 
I have reached the age where erection is a bit iffy and ejaculation takes real work, this interferes with my wifes desire for me to do so in her mouth. Often, lately, I will let her do her thing until she is tiring, then do a fast jerk off and just before I cum, give it back to her to finish.

Some times she begins to finger herself while watching porn and I hold my hand over hers while she gets off. This is a big tern-on for both of us.
 
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I just envision the following scene:

Guy: Ok...competition time, last person to come has to do the dishes....and no faking it has to be real!

Girl: What about toys?

Guy: Fair enough... Ready? GO! fap fap fap fap fap fap :nana:
 
umchick5 said:
This is a new-found fetish of mine also... I just love to watch my fiance masturbate and I love to do it for him! Sometimes he'll even do it while he looks at my pics, which is SOOO hot!

Oooooh that's a really good idea. I would LOOOOVE to see someone masturbate while looking at pictures of me
 
But what about her?

Mr.L.J.M said:
... i dont really think i am...

but last night my girl came over and we had a great night together.. i cooked her dinner... and we hung out... it was great. as usual she was looking absolutly amazing... and i couldnt get my eyes off her... anyway.. we had a bath together which was magical... and by tghis stage i think i was unbearable hot for her... we got onto my bed and touched for a while... now the thing is she is in a bit of a rutt at the moment and she isnt really horny and doesnt want to have sex ( OOhhh I know ! ) ... but it became to much for me... so i started touching myself while she watched... it was a wierd feeling... but exciting at the same time... and whne i came it was wicked.. a different feeling to usual... obviously not as good as sex, but alot better then your average wank.

i never considered myself an exhibitionist, but this was fun. maybe i am.. who knows...

anyone else enjoy this sort of thing? how can we make it more fun in the future? share your stories or what ever.
cheers
I can understand how it would be a turnon for you. It would be for me too, and has been the few times I've done that.
But what did SHE think or do about it? If she liked it too, now that would be even more exciting.

OK, taolanes, where are your pics? :D
 
i had the true life story of being accross an apartement with 4 young, nice looking ladies who shared the apartment - i purposesly left my bedroom door cracked & lights on, layed on the floor & placed a mirror along the back wall, so i could see if they were in front of their window - well..... i saw one & laid my trap, lotion in hand and horny as hell, i gave it a whirl (only after several weeks of smiles between us of course :), anyway..... they could not see my upper half, only the key zone & i could eventually see alll their faces pressed to the window (they turned their lights down for the show), it was an incredible turnon to know they were so intent to watch it through. well.... it became a bit of a routine, after they started to get flashy in undies and full frontals (i had the lights low in my apartment, but they knew i was watching), anyway...... i reciprocated many a times & always found it incredibly hot. i have been "caught" a few times in hotels by the maids as well, where they walked in and i was in the bathroom, cracked the door & made some very wet/lubricated sounds, moans & groans, a couple times the door would close, but a few times they carried on making the bed & lurked around, there was no doubt they knew i was there & left the door cracked for viewing pleasure. be careful though, you should only do a show when you know the viewer wants to watch!
 
throbbin bob said:
...... Be careful though, you should only do a show when you know the viewer wants to watch!

I would say so! Yes... But other than that it sounds rather exciting. Is there more to this story? Did you ever meet up with these girls, is it still going on?
 
I have done it in front of the wife a couple of times and it IS sexy. ;)
I have also done it on cam and that is very exiting i can assure you. I have a dear friend whom i do it with, she is confided to a wheelchair and has no sensation in her lower regions, which means she cannot have an orgas'm in traditional style but she claims that being "sexy" with me gives her an "internal orgasm". It certainly gives me a good one.
 
throbbin bob said:
i had the true life story of being accross an apartement with 4 young, nice looking ladies who shared the apartment - i purposesly left my bedroom door cracked & lights on, layed on the floor & placed a mirror along the back wall, so i could see if they were in front of their window - well..... i saw one & laid my trap, lotion in hand and horny as hell, i gave it a whirl (only after several weeks of smiles between us of course :), anyway..... they could not see my upper half, only the key zone & i could eventually see alll their faces pressed to the window (they turned their lights down for the show), it was an incredible turnon to know they were so intent to watch it through. well.... it became a bit of a routine, after they started to get flashy in undies and full frontals (i had the lights low in my apartment, but they knew i was watching), anyway...... i reciprocated many a times & always found it incredibly hot. i have been "caught" a few times in hotels by the maids as well, where they walked in and i was in the bathroom, cracked the door & made some very wet/lubricated sounds, moans & groans, a couple times the door would close, but a few times they carried on making the bed & lurked around, there was no doubt they knew i was there & left the door cracked for viewing pleasure. be careful though, you should only do a show when you know the viewer wants to watch!

that sounds like lot of fun!
 
umchick5 said:
This is a new-found fetish of mine also... I just love to watch my fiance masturbate and I love to do it for him! Sometimes he'll even do it while he looks at my pics, which is SOOO hot!


I live for this kind of situation.
 
throbbin bob said:
i had the true life story of being accross an apartement with 4 young, nice looking ladies who shared the apartment - i purposesly left my bedroom door cracked & lights on, layed on the floor & placed a mirror along the back wall, so i could see if they were in front of their window - well..... i saw one & laid my trap, lotion in hand and horny as hell, i gave it a whirl (only after several weeks of smiles between us of course :), anyway..... they could not see my upper half, only the key zone & i could eventually see alll their faces pressed to the window (they turned their lights down for the show), it was an incredible turnon to know they were so intent to watch it through. well.... it became a bit of a routine, after they started to get flashy in undies and full frontals (i had the lights low in my apartment, but they knew i was watching), anyway...... i reciprocated many a times & always found it incredibly hot. i have been "caught" a few times in hotels by the maids as well, where they walked in and i was in the bathroom, cracked the door & made some very wet/lubricated sounds, moans & groans, a couple times the door would close, but a few times they carried on making the bed & lurked around, there was no doubt they knew i was there & left the door cracked for viewing pleasure. be careful though, you should only do a show when you know the viewer wants to watch!

Oh hell yes. This is my biggest turn on.
 
I love to masturbate for my wife. I love to watch her too. I love to put my hand on hers while she doing it. These are all good things.
 
I love to masturbate for my husband, and he loves seeing it! It's part of our standard sex play, and we do it 2 or 3 times a week! I find the intensity and hunger of his stare for me such an added turnon, that I generally have at least one, if not two orgasms before he even touches (and even more after!)

In fact, now one of my biggest turnons is showing off my pussy and masturbating for him. I love to hear him ask me to show my clit, or to see "more pink", or to use a certain toy, or see my pussy from behind. And I love to see him stroke himself while I put on my display!

And I've adored putting on such performances for the occasional other folks who have joined us in play! The other guys seem to get soooooo into it! As have a couple of the other women. Seeing other guys stroke themselves because of me is an enormous compliment, and seeing the other gals stroke their guys or play with themselves while they watch is a real trip!

I admit it took a while for me to get comfortable with this. I was raised to believe that it was nasty as all hell for a woman to open up her legs and show off her pussy so blatantly. But I'm pretty much past that guilt/shame stuff now.

I wouldn't want to do it where strangers might see, though. Well, in fantasy I might, but not in reality. :)
 
That was a great post, Linda L. I love to jack off for women...especially strangers. I like the semi dom/humiliation aspect of a women teasing me and telling me to jack off for her instead of her giving my sex. A past GF used to tell me to give her oral sex, which for us meant me on my back and her fucking my face...so hot. After she came, she would sit back and tell me to jack off if I wanted an orgasm.
 
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