An apology.

[BlkPnthr]

I am man enough to admit my mistakes, and faults. I have one apology that I will make. This apology goes out to the person behind the nick Cheyenne. I am apologising because I made a very personal attack against her in a PM. Yes, I meant to cut her, hurt her, and make it sting. I didn't think of the impact it'd have though. I threw a very personal thing back in her face and laughed at her. For this I am most regretful for.

I refuse however to apologise for the rest of the crap that's flown around here. Everyone else is as guilty as I am and that cannot be denied.

Thank you debbiexxx for helping me see that.

Cory

 

[Samuari]

You're a better man than I thought. Congratulations, it's a step in the right direction.

 

[riff]

Ever listen to NEVERMIND THE BOLLOCKS HERE COME THE SEX PISTOLS? They got a songs on it.

Chose one:

Berlin Wall
Bodies
God Save The Queen
Anarchy In The UK
EMI
Liar
Submission

Which one do you like?

 

[Siren]

Well you almost did it right Pantherboy

 

[riff]

Re: Well you almost did it right Pantherboy

you started out good.
middle was okay.
ending was self serving and whiny.

overall, a piss poor apology colored in a overdramatized thread title for attention once again.

Just take responsibility for your part in the shitfest and leave it at that............
let the others involved act as they will regarding this matter.
If they continue to act like as they have after your apology, then they look like assholes and you look better.

this way, you left the door open......and acted as if pushed to apologize, and noone wants an apology from someone in an arm lock.

you dont get it do ya?

I would just get a whole new face and start over again.

 

[BlkPnthr]

Re: Well you almost did it right Pantherboy

you started out good.
middle was okay.
ending was self serving and whiny.

overall, a piss poor apology colored in a overdramatized thread title for attention once again.

Just take responsibility for your part in the shitfest and leave it at that............
let the others involved act as they will regarding this matter.
If they continue to act like as they have after your apology, then they look like assholes and you look better.

this way, you left the door open......and acted as if pushed to apologize, and noone wants an apology from someone in an arm lock.

you dont get it do ya?

Kiss my ass Siren. You're just jealous cause I didn't apologise to your whining ass. I had a really good talk with debbie and I assure everyone that my apology was not forced. In fact she was the one who was shocked because I was the one who saw that it was needed. So blow me you cow.

 

[SweetBrat73]

Well I for one thought that the apology was a good one. Said what you were apologizing for and so nobody was confused about what you weren't sorry for.

Think I would have left out the "Everyone else is as guilty as I am and that cannot be denied. " part though.


Brat

 

[Siren]

You cant help those that wont listen

 

[riff]

Re: You cant help those that wont listen

lets see, that contrition lasted a whole..........

um,,,,,,,,,,,,,


5 seconds.


You cant stop letting your true bitter angry mean disrespectful persona come out now can ya?

LMAO

 

[BlkPnthr]

Well I for one thought that the apology was a good one. Said what you were apologizing for and so nobody was confused about what you weren't sorry for.

Think I would have left out the "Everyone else is as guilty as I am and that cannot be denied. " part though.


Brat

Agreed Brat, I could have, but I want no misconceptions here. I am not apologising to make friends. I am apologising because Cheyenne, or the person behind the nick truely deserves one from me. I still hate the nick and what the persona of the nick stands for, but the real person behind it deserved the apology from the bottom of my heart.

On a personal note, I am sick of following the "polite" rules that my most recent debating has been, and will resort to what everyone else has been doing. I'll fight just as dirty as they do. I've reached a point which brought me to this apology. I realised that everyone here is a real person yes, but it's the nick everyone sees and talks to unless you choose to get to know the nick, or the person behind it better. Well, I've cleared my conscience of the personal attack on the real person behind Cheyenne, and now I can attack the nick who attacks my nick without feeling a damn thing.

Cheyenne, if you choose to not accept my apology, I'll understand as it was very harsh on my behalf. In time though I guess I do hope that it sinks in and if nothing else can be done, you at least take the apology for what it's worth.



P.S

If you were a true friend of Cheyenne, you would not take something that is meant for her and completely destroy it Siren. Some friend you are.

 

[*bratcat*]

If what I think counts towards anything...

 

[Problem Child]

Re: Re: Well you almost did it right Pantherboy

Kiss my ass Siren. You're just jealous cause I didn't apologise to your whining ass. I had a really good talk with debbie and I assure everyone that my apology was not forced. In fact she was the one who was shocked because I was the one who saw that it was needed. So blow me you cow.

If I had a pet rat like you, I'd put blue eye shadow on it's little rateyes, and put pink lipstick on it's little ratlips, and dress it up in a little rat evening dress.

Then, I'd put a little rat tiara on it's head and help it fix it's rat coiffure.

Then I'd help it put it's little rat sash on...you know the one that says:

BIGGEST FUCKING DRAMA QUEEN IN THE KNOWN UNIVERSE

and I'd carry it out into the driveway and set it down. Then, I'd blow it a kiss and back over it in my truck.

After all, who wants a goddamn rat around the house?

 

[freakygirl]

and yet another thread gone to shit..






some people never learn...

 

[BlondGirl]

I have been just half assed following the events that spurred this thread. Let me see if I "get it".

1.) The thread originator assumes that the "nicks" that we use are simply characters that are immune to the rules of society, even though some are certainly going to be assholes--he assumes that is the goal here.

2.) An apology is only good if you can throw in some more shit into the stew with it. The true purpose of the apology is to self-validate and then to brag about one's self validation. The apology is not to be made privately or even discussed with that person, instead it is simply more stuff to spew from a stage to restart another battle in the war of the mudslinging.

3.) After "apologizing" and then bragging about how good it really makes you to be doing the ritual behavior, it is appropriate to attack the person you have just "tried to make amends with".

Am I getting it?

Should I add a number 4? Oh, what the hell...

4.) Maturity and responsibility are only for life off of Literotica.

Might as well add a number 5 too:

5.)The fact that there is a vast difference between debate and mudslinging is a foreign concept.

 

[Siren]

I have given you suggestion after suggestion here and all you do in return is

 

[Problem Child]

You know why your apology sucks, Baby Huey? It's because you apologized to Cheyenne, which is great, but which could and should have been done privately, and the rest of the post was just a vehicle to tell everyone to fuck off.

But you are too socially retarded to get that. You're just going for drama points, and those are the cheapest points to go for. The fact that the former head drama queen came out of her self-imposed isolation to give your suck-ass apology her stamp of approval doesn't help your sorry ass either.

You're a tapeworm hanging out Lit's ass.

 

[BlkPnthr]

Re: I have given you suggestion after suggestion here and all you do in return is

.....act disrespectful and throw insults. I have not insulted you. But you are so personally paranoid that you feel you must attack back like a bull in a china closet destroying everything around you.

My friendship with Cheyenne has no bearing on anything you post to her. Dont be so self absorbed please.
If I destroyed your half assed apology, it effects you and not her.

Really pathetic.

After rereading your first post.....*Opening my mouth and inserting foot*

Now I need to make another apology. God I hope this is not contageous. I read your original post wrong to some degree. I apologise for misreading the first part of your post, but as you said....the end was piss poor. You assumed my arm was twisted to make it when in fact it was not. The original apology was all my doing, and nobody elses. Debbie was a sounding board during my talk with her. All she really did was listen to what I had to say, and in doing so it dawned on me that I had made a very personal attack on her. I took real life into lit and I shouldn't have.

So, I am sorry for misreading your post, and responding so harshly

 

[riff]

I apologized to Cheyenne on another post because I can't stand her and I I made a poorly worrded post that suggested that the had sent me a nasty PM, which she did not, and is probably why I can't stand her.

No, it's just that she keeps confusing Madagascar with Seychelles and Madagascar is just to damned close to Africa for comfort.

And she likes the President who I insist is an organgrinders monkey and you can go back to the old threads and see how I bashed her.

And I hated the whole Republican born Republican bred thing too.

She knows all that and she can live with it. I just apologised for my poor grammar, really.

She tried to cut my dick off in a thread. Came after me with a pair of lawn clippers. Talk about Elliot's "castrating maliciousness."

She knows what I mean. I am like furniture to her.

 

[BlkPnthr]

Bump

 

[Siren]

Pantherboy

 

[riff]

I think you would have picked "Submission" panther. You need to be true to your nature. Don't give up.

These threads are hilarious to me.

 

[BlondGirl]

Another hint:

Having over 1000 posts a month of being here probably means you are doing more of the "spewing" and wayyyyyyy less of the taking of time to understand what is really going on here.

I can't help but think of the kid this morning during the children's portion of the main service that kept talking and interrupting and not letting the lesson even be stated. The youth minister was discussing loyalty of cowboys (it's rodeo season here in Houston) and that very immature child kept talking about killing Indians.

In other words, he was completely oblivious to what was going on with everyone else because he would not shut up and listen. The youth pastor finally offerred him the mike and told him to get it out of his system. Of course, after so many posts in such a short time, I have to wonder how much you can possibly have to say.

 

[BlkPnthr]

Re: Pantherboy

I appreciate your apology.

I am sure it will go a long way in helping you get on the right track here at literotica.

This place is what you make of it,
make it a battle and it will be war.

Make it fun,
and people will play with you.

Hopefully things will be different here.

No one enjoys a shit fest.

I've made the two apologies I feel are just and that's all I am going to do. Now I leave this thread to you all to do with as you will. Tear it down, flame it, whatever pleases you. I've done what I felt I needed to do, and that's the end of it. I am not looking for redemption or a pat on the back. I am not looking for attention or PC's label of drama queen bullshit. Mind you I think he's obsessed with drama.

I now walk away from this thread. SO any flame posts really will be dumb to post.

 

[Cheyenne]

I am apologising because Cheyenne, or the person behind the nick truely deserves one from me. I still hate the nick and what the persona of the nick stands for, but the real person behind it deserved the apology from the bottom of my heart.

...Well, I've cleared my conscience of the personal attack on the real person behind Cheyenne, and now I can attack the nick who attacks my nick without feeling a damn thing.

If you had stopped after the opening post, I would have been surprised that you finally "got it" and I would have typed "Thank you, apology accepted." But then you added the post above.

What you don't understand, because you haven't been here very long, is that Cheyenne the nick, the "persona" is the same as Cheyenne the real person. I am no different in RL than I am here on the bb. The Cheyenne you see is the real me. I play no roles here. If you attack my nick, you attack ME. That may be a foreign concept to you if you look at this place as someplace where you can role play a different personality than your real one. We have role play boards at Lit, the general bb isn't one of them and I don't use it as such.

The reason that your PM was an attack on me personally is because the real Cheyenne posts here. If anyone in my RL actually found me here, they'd recognize me in a heart beat from the content of my posts. I'm "hidden" behind the name Cheyenne, but not hidden well from anyone who really knows me. In other words, there is no such thing as an apology to the "real" person while adding that you "still hate the nick and what the persona of the nick stands for." Can you understand that?

 

[KillerMuffin]

The important thing in any apology is sincerity. The first apology started out wonderfully. It defined exactly what had been done that the apologizer felt was wrong. It apologized for that act. There was even a hint of contrition. Then the apology was qualified, excuses made, and thereby demeaned the whole thing.

The second apology, though. Now that one was very good. I actually believe he meant it. That takes courage and some personal accountability. Good job.