I've been thinking about all this online Domme stuff and how perhaps that is super hard to actually find someone and also as a newbie to be adopted into the Sub clan sans learning the ropes as they say.
It seems based on limited experience that nobody 'wants' to teach or train or are fairly non committed to the sides of the relationship that need to be managed. But hey why should this be different than any other r.ship issue eh!
So I decided to book a session with a for fee/tribute person for 2 hours for next week. And another with another Domme for 3 hours the week after.
Its going to be expensive, but I think of this like a language immersive experience. I'm hoping this will clarify what I am capable of doing to serve a D well, and please her vs frustrate her.
I'm hoping to understand, explore and define my kinks more clearly.
The two ladies in question have both agreed to after some discussion, structure sessions that feed most of what I hope to understand about myself, while being schooled by them in proper or more appropriate behaviour. While also understanding if I can actually be less willful, and broken in to boot.
Am I crazy?
It seems based on limited experience that nobody 'wants' to teach or train or are fairly non committed to the sides of the relationship that need to be managed. But hey why should this be different than any other r.ship issue eh!
So I decided to book a session with a for fee/tribute person for 2 hours for next week. And another with another Domme for 3 hours the week after.
Its going to be expensive, but I think of this like a language immersive experience. I'm hoping this will clarify what I am capable of doing to serve a D well, and please her vs frustrate her.
I'm hoping to understand, explore and define my kinks more clearly.
The two ladies in question have both agreed to after some discussion, structure sessions that feed most of what I hope to understand about myself, while being schooled by them in proper or more appropriate behaviour. While also understanding if I can actually be less willful, and broken in to boot.
Am I crazy?