All day stimulation...

[Limbhugger]

I'm just curious about stimulation throught our every day lives. Does your dom/domme ever require things of you that place you in a position that if discovered would be quite embarrassing or that create an all day stimulation/reminder?

Such has (male perspective) wearing girls panties to work. A way of reminding you throughout the day that you belong to her. That she can do as she pleases with you. That when you're interacting with friends/coworkers they have no idea. Or perhaps more...anal beads maybe? Have you ever been required to wear them all day in your "every day" life?

I think there is something deliciously wicked and at once decidely comforting in having to fulfill her requests in the "every day" life. It is reassuring, exciting, stimulating, humbling.

Others?

 

[SierraMoon]

He has required me to insert my BenWa Balls, when i go to public places, such as a restaurant or on my walks... i'm not very good with them yet, so they tend to fall out easily, causing me to be embarrassed at times....

 

[catalina_francisco]

Oh yes, deliciously wicked!! Those moments are definately ones which tend to heighten the senses to a new level of appreciation, and often promise a beautiful experience in how you are brought back to earth at day's end.

Catalina

 

[Jessalynvix]

yes though it is more i get little tasks to do for Her while she is away. things that will make it easier for Her when she comes home.

 

[Phoenix Stone]

As usual we are at the subtler end but... for a while he made me wear my hair in a ponytail as a reminder and to make it easier to grab my head back. And we also shaved me, which is something I hadn't wanted to do and did to prove I was sorry about something. It was surprisingly delicious to feel those sensations all day. (And embarrassing to think of my long-time OB seeing.)

I love all day reminders.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I'm just curious about stimulation throught our every day lives. Does your dom/domme ever require things of you that place you in a position that if discovered would be quite embarrassing or that create an all day stimulation/reminder?

Such has (male perspective) wearing girls panties to work. A way of reminding you throughout the day that you belong to her. That she can do as she pleases with you. That when you're interacting with friends/coworkers they have no idea. Or perhaps more...anal beads maybe? Have you ever been required to wear them all day in your "every day" life?

I think there is something deliciously wicked and at once decidely comforting in having to fulfill her requests in the "every day" life. It is reassuring, exciting, stimulating, humbling.

Others?

Yes to everything in your post. There is nothing quite like that gentle, constant reminder of Him/Her during one's day. It's like a little secret one carries around all day and no one else is wise to it.

Something funny... once I was told to wrap my cell phone in cellophane and carry it in my pussy because I was constantly misplacing it when He would try and call me. I think He was joking...

 

[Four_Inch_Heels]

I've had a sub wear panties 24/7, and stockings/pantyhose under his pants occasionally. Also wear a butt plug to do errands, grocery shop, etc.

 

[His54Vintage]

I love those reminders.... going about my errands without panties under my skirt or pants and feeling ever so wide and wet... wearing nipple clamps while fueling the car and feeling the cold chain dangle down against my skin under my shirt..... feeling the bite of little plastic hairclips with multiple teeth on my pubes and breasts while sitting down to dinner with the family.....

mmmmm.... I'm his....

 

[Esclava]

Mistress' favorite all day reminder is a baby carrot lodged between my clit and outer lips. In my job, I have to walk up and down stairs, cross a street several times a day and generally stay on the move most of the day. With every step, I am reminded of what reward awaits me when I am home and can consume the item that has caused such arousal.

The reward is usually having my clit sucked by a plum...

Esclava

 

[Limbhugger]

Wonderful replies! Nothing brings me closer to her than these tiny everyday requirements.

Chores, tasks, tests, what have you, they remind me not only of what and why I am, they remind me of her love.

 

[cutedemon]

Wearing a chainmail choker to work, and having to field the "oh, that is so pretty" comments all day. Little do the people realize what it means.

 

[trodas]

A Desert Rose - nice reminder about you damn cellphone
...however i would like to add boring warning to everyone who want try this out - yes, but turn it off first (even better, remove battery) - the elektromagnetic emisions aren't healty for womans internal organs and can even cause mallfunction

Sorry for breaking up the ideas of reminding she about the cellphone, set on vibration, by calling her

 

[angela146]

We do the reverse sometimes:

Hubby gives me earrings as rewards for doing certain things. Sometimes, when I'm wearing a pair in public, he will remark to a mutual friend, "Don't those earrings look nice on her?" or "Have you seen her new earrings?"

It makes me blush because he's reminding me of the blow job I gave him the night before or the spanking I took for a particular pair of earrings.

I don't think our friends know the significance but they probably suspect that there's something interesting going on.

 

[Singularity]

Day-Long Assignments

I love assignng long-duration or repetitive tasks to a submissive. By the time she is at the end of her day, she is at the end of her rope as well...

Things I enjoy include:

Requiring her to masturbate every hour, on the hour, for an entire day when she is out shopping and doing errands, but never to bring herself to orgasm. When they do this with complete dedication - like telling her hairdresser she has to get up and go to the restroom right in the middle of her haircutting session - lets you know that she is very dedicated and committed to her submission.

Insisting that every time she goes to the restroom, she must masturbate while she is peeing.

Having her wear her vibrator inside her while she is out of the house, and turning it on and off repeatedly while is going about her day. One amazing woman (with a very well-engineered toy) had the ability to turn it on and off while it was inside her simply by squeezing it. Now that made for some amazing opportunities!

Wearning her clit-clip/clit-hugger under her skirt - with no panties to save her from embarrassment if it slipped off.

And an especially nice one is to have her write something on her skin - on the inside of her thigh or above her mons, like "Owned by Sin". Simply knowing that her flesh is marked with a declaration of her submission can be hugely arousing.



Singularity

 

[ImmortaleAmante]

I enjoy giving reminders and commands to my submissives, especially if it results in strange behaviour, it is a real thrill to know they will do so for me, no matter what the consequences. I also enjoy marking in a partly visable place, the throat or wrist for example.

Yet of all the tasks i may give the reminder that gives the most pleasure is him wearing a collar which is always slightly visable.

 

[Esclava]

Great thread! It's amazing what occurs in the mind of a Dom when choosing an everyday task for Their submissive.

Esclava

 

[BlazerBeliever]

What a great thread as I sit here at work today wearing panties. It was ordered by my Mistress this morning. I am also recently shaved so the silk rubbing on my bare skin has kept me aroused all day. What a lovely feeling. Also when I am made to wear them I know there will be "playing" tonight. I have the feeling of the panties as well as the anticipation of what is going to happen tonight. It makes for a great day.

 

[Telafio]

What a very hot thread.

It just emphisises the fun I'm missing out on.

Please God send me Kinky Domme with such imagination.

Please God just send me a Domme.

 

[Esclava]

Reward for service which pleases Master:

Wearing crotchless panties all day at work and completing an act of obedience every hour - unable to utter a sound. One hour it is rubbing my bare nipples on the tile in the bathroom, another it is masturbating until cum drips from me into the water below me. Each hour brings another reward with the best reserved for when I arrive at home. He surprises me by sending an email each hour to inform me of the required act of obedience.

Esclava

 

[BooksNblooms]

Required tasks

I have been asked to repeatedly dip my pen into my cunt (a PhD) throughout my twelve-hour shift so that my scent drifts to my nose while recording medications and notes on the chart.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

You have no idea ...

Great thread! It's amazing what occurs in the mind of a Dom when choosing an everyday task for Their submissive.

Esclava

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[Phoenix Stone]

Re: You have no idea ...

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And What have You been up to?

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Re: Re: You have no idea ...

And What have You been up to?

Absolutely nothing.
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[welshman]

great thread, what stimulating ideas you have

 

[Vixandra]

Re: Required tasks

I have been asked to repeatedly dip my pen into my cunt (a PhD) throughout my twelve-hour shift so that my scent drifts to my nose while recording medications and notes on the chart.

While I'm all for daily acts of obedience, isn't that a tad unhygenic?
You touch the pen, the chart, the patient... the sheer ewwww of it's sending shudders up my spine.
Stuff travels from you to the patient and back again. Personally that is not a place I'd like to get MRSA (I believe is the accronyme) or anything else from a patient.

Can ya tell I'm a Med Tech yet? LOL