Affair

So I have been looking for an outlet to talk about this. My wife and I went through a rough patch and she was having a cyber affair. I think maybe even a physical one. I went through her phone and saw the nudes she was sending the other guys and even found a masturbation video she sent our wedding photographer.

It hurt me to find out she did that but it also turned me on a lot! I saved most of what I could to include the video. I jerk off to it ever once in a while. I want to have a cyber affair and feel what it is like but don't want to hurt her as things have gotten better between us.

Is it wrong that what she did turns me on?

She's made you her bitch.
 
I would talk to her about cyber sex, see what she says.
I would also see how she feels being recorded.
 
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You could be upfront with her and role play maybe?
 
I think posting the video here would go a long way toward promoting your emotional healing process.
Glad to help.
 
Has anyone in the history of the World ever taken our advice?
 
Has anyone in the history of the World ever taken our advice?

I get pms from people all the time who have taken my advice, not usually men who want to cheat but there is always a first time...
 
Hmm. I think my pm'er is broken. Probably for the best. My advice tends to be nihilistic.
 
Toss a brick through the front window of the wedding photographers studio.

You will be amazed at how much better you will feel about the hole situation.
 
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