Advise on younger woman

[LMWM321]

Well guess what, young women and older men are happening daily

I have no doubts that there are younger women who fall in love with an older man. And of course I have no problem with it; age gaps are fine and there are many such healthy relationships.

What I'm rejecting here, is the notion that a large percentage of young women have a sexual kink for significantly older men - eg., over twice their age as in the case of the OP's story. And that they will pursue him whether he's married or not. Ridiculous.

On many occasions I have been out with older guys who've misconstrued a much younger woman's humor and friendliness for sexual interest and it's hilarious, gross, and kinda sad.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I have decided it is best to keep the thoughts of her in my head. There is way to much risk to act on it even if she came on strong. She for sure was trying last week when we went on a trip and she went with us. I actually pulled back significantly and didn’t even give her hugs which I usually always do to kind of set healthy boundaries.

My son’s current actions are depressing for sure. My wife and I have tried everything we know and a bunch of other people have as well. He has decided this is the life he wants and has trashed every relationship he had up to this point.

I wish you luck. Sorry.

 

[Doughboy48]

The thing that make this different than most situations is I have known this girl for years. I know her personality and how she acts around men. Yea she is friendly, loving and all those things but how she acts around me is totally different than she did before or how she acts around the other older men she is around. I also totally agree I am sure there are plenty of times that older men think younger women are hitting on them when they are not. I am also not naive enough to think this is normal or that nothing bad would ever happen. If that was the case I would have made my move long ago when she first started throwing hints my way. Is it morally wrong, absolutely but that doesn’t mean that it can’t turn me on or make me fantasize about what it would be like to be with her. I think some people on here are so self righteous to throw the first stone when if the show was on their foot they would do the same damn thing.

 

[LMWM321]

I think some people on here are so self righteous to throw the first stone when if the show was on their foot they would do the same damn thing.

I'm sorry, but you're wrong. The guys who are saying they would never consider having sex with someone half their age who is the daughter of a close friend and the ex-girlfriend of their Son are not being "self-righteous", they are merely showing a modicum of discretion and decency.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I have no doubts that there are younger women who fall in love with an older man. And of course I have no problem with it; age gaps are fine and there are many such healthy relationships.

What I'm rejecting here, is the notion that a large percentage of young women have a sexual kink for significantly older men - eg., over twice their age as in the case of the OP's story. And that they are so overcome with desire for such men that they will pursue him regardless of his relationship status. Ridiculous.

On many occasions I have been with guys who've misconstrued a much younger woman's humor and friendliness for sexual interest and it's hilarious, gross, and kinda sad. No to mention the irony of believing the girl is only interested in a persons deeper qualities when all he's interested in is her younger, tight body.

I tend too agree that it's not a large percentage. It's happened to me that younger women are interested in fact one just flat out told me are you just not interested or that blind to the fact I want to have sex with you?
I told her I had no idea and she said well open your eyes and pay attention. When we are out women check you out constantly and you don't even acknowledge them.

 

[Treeview]

Ok all here is the general idea of what is going. We have one of our friends 21 year old daughter that has become a very big part of our family. She dated my son briefly but then he cheated on her and has become a bum with no job, home or car and no desire to better himself. Anyway the last 2-3 weeks she has been over a lot. Last week we were playing cards and I was sitting next to her. She kept scooting closer and bumping my leg with her leg. She was sitting Indian style so when she bumped my leg it naturally drew my eyes down to between her legs. I didn’t think much of it at the time till this week. Once again she was over and we were playing cards. This time she was clearly rubbing my foot with hers. It was like we were in elementary school. Lastly the other day at church I was talking about watching movies this week when my wife and daughter went out of town for a wedding and I sensed she wanted to ask if she could come over. She has also came and sat down right next to me. I’ll be honest if she wanted some dick I would gladly give it to her. She seems to be wanting it but I’m curious if anyone else has ever dealt with this and what your experience was like.

This is a good start on the script for a DD/lg porno.

This is a bad start for antything in RL

Fake story

 

[Waiter519123]

My advice is to date only older men.

 

[Noor]

Ok all here is the general idea of what is going. We have one of our friends 21 year old daughter that has become a very big part of our family. She dated my son briefly but then he cheated on her and has become a bum with no job, home or car and no desire to better himself. Anyway the last 2-3 weeks she has been over a lot. Last week we were playing cards and I was sitting next to her. She kept scooting closer and bumping my leg with her leg. She was sitting Indian style so when she bumped my leg it naturally drew my eyes down to between her legs. I didn’t think much of it at the time till this week. Once again she was over and we were playing cards. This time she was clearly rubbing my foot with hers. It was like we were in elementary school. Lastly the other day at church I was talking about watching movies this week when my wife and daughter went out of town for a wedding and I sensed she wanted to ask if she could come over. She has also came and sat down right next to me. I’ll be honest if she wanted some dick I would gladly give it to her. She seems to be wanting it but I’m curious if anyone else has ever dealt with this and what your experience was like.

All these things probably mean nothing to her. She thinks you are a safe person, you are her parents friends, and you are trusted by your wife to be alone with her. She’s probably treating you like her dad and her own house.
You are probably reading way too much into her actions. Girls of her age are not shy, if she was interested, she would have verbally told you.
Why would she want the father of a guy who cheated on her anyway?

 

[KatieDoes]

I tend to agree with as many people here that talk about multiple partners, fucking the neighbor or guy or gal at work they sure can become hypocrites when someone else considers it.
It's risk reward my friend are you willing to get caught, lose her because she isn't staying, lose your wife, family, friends along the way?
i had sonewhat the same scenario, sons girlfriend would grab a blanket and lay her head in my lap while watching tv. She would go to get up and grab my package on the way up. Climb into bed with me univited and so on.
I wasn't going to hurt my son, told my wife and she shrugged her shoulders about it saying it's nothing don't worry about it.
But my wife enjoys it when women are attracted to me, flirt and then when they get too close she slams the door on it.
Be ready to lose at minimum half of everything and most all of your friends.

People are ok with young women having the hots for older men. BUT older men are pigs for doing them. The old double standard is alive and well.

Good luck

It is normal for young people to develop crushes on older people.

It is normal for older people who witness someone their child’s age, or the children of their friends, engaging in self destructive behavior, to feel protective of them.

It is exploitative for a 40+ year old adult to see the child of his friend, someone he witnessed growing up, behaving in ways that leave her vulnerable, and whip his dick out and use it to gratify himself sexually.

It is not a ‘double standard’ to acknowledge the power imbalance between this fully grown adult married man and this incredibly young woman.

Any fully grown adult who targets those 20 years younger whose brains are not fully developed, for sexual exploitation, is a predator. Anyone who says ‘ it’s ok as long as they’re legal’ is admitting that they would fuck children if they could legally get away with it.

No wonder his son is struggling with life. His dad is a piece of shit.


Jesus Christ. Do better.

 

[live4thebj]

Ok all here is the general idea of what is going. We have one of our friends 21 year old daughter that has become a very big part of our family. She dated my son briefly but then he cheated on her and has become a bum with no job, home or car and no desire to better himself. Anyway the last 2-3 weeks she has been over a lot. Last week we were playing cards and I was sitting next to her. She kept scooting closer and bumping my leg with her leg. She was sitting Indian style so when she bumped my leg it naturally drew my eyes down to between her legs. I didn’t think much of it at the time till this week. Once again she was over and we were playing cards. This time she was clearly rubbing my foot with hers. It was like we were in elementary school. Lastly the other day at church I was talking about watching movies this week when my wife and daughter went out of town for a wedding and I sensed she wanted to ask if she could come over. She has also came and sat down right next to me. I’ll be honest if she wanted some dick I would gladly give it to her. She seems to be wanting it but I’m curious if anyone else has ever dealt with this and what your experience was like.

I am not there and even I can tell she wants to fuck.

 

[Fazer600]

Why don’t you ask her shat she wants? Let her be honest and stop playing.

 

[LMWM321]

A few days ago I was at an affluent retirement home and chuckled to myself as I saw the young women who worked there interact with the 65+ year-old men who lived there. These much younger women were cheerful and pleasant and were quite generous with compliments like "I like your shirt..," "Ooh, great haircut!" "I like your sports coat!" etc.. etc.. It was clear to any objective observer that they were being nice to these much older guys because it's what's expected of them and because making other people feel good about themselves is what kind and considerate people do, especially those in care-giver roles.

I chuckled because this thread lead me to wonder how many of these 65+ year old men convinced themselves these young women were flirting with them because they sexually desired them.

They weren't flirting with them, of course, but so it goes with the wishful thinking of an aging man. And it made a bit sad because these women didn't know the extent to which their friendliness was being misconstrued.

 

[Sussy2000x]

Ok all here is the general idea of what is going. We have one of our friends 21 year old daughter that has become a very big part of our family. She dated my son briefly but then he cheated on her and has become a bum with no job, home or car and no desire to better himself. Anyway the last 2-3 weeks she has been over a lot. Last week we were playing cards and I was sitting next to her. She kept scooting closer and bumping my leg with her leg. She was sitting Indian style so when she bumped my leg it naturally drew my eyes down to between her legs. I didn’t think much of it at the time till this week. Once again she was over and we were playing cards. This time she was clearly rubbing my foot with hers. It was like we were in elementary school. Lastly the other day at church I was talking about watching movies this week when my wife and daughter went out of town for a wedding and I sensed she wanted to ask if she could come over. She has also came and sat down right next to me. I’ll be honest if she wanted some dick I would gladly give it to her. She seems to be wanting it but I’m curious if anyone else has ever dealt with this and what your experience was like.

Im 20 yo and older married men are most attractive. Yum.

 

[MrAnderson360]

If you're married/have a committed relationship; you should probably bring it up to your wife/girlfriend. See how she feels about the whole thing.

If you're not married/girlfriend? Every piece you turn down is a piece you didn't get. Wear a condom and don't fall in love and don't give her any money. lol

are you out of your mind?! NO! You keep it a secret. Where's the fun in the spouse knowing?!

 

[MrAnderson360]

A few days ago I was at an affluent retirement home and chuckled to myself as I saw the young women who worked there interact with the 65+ year-old men who lived there. These much younger women were cheerful and pleasant and were quite generous with compliments like "I like your shirt..," "Ooh, great haircut!" "I like your sports coat!" etc.. etc.. It was clear to any objective observer that they were being nice to these much older guys because it's what's expected of them and because making other people feel good about themselves is what kind and considerate people do, especially those in care-giver roles.

I chuckled because this thread lead me to wonder how many of these 65+ year old men convinced themselves these young women were flirting with them because they sexually desired them.

They weren't of course, but so it goes with the wishful thinking of an aging man. And it made a bit sad because these women didn't know their friendliness was often being misconstrued.

Yes It's obvious you two are gonna be getting to know each other real close soon. I had a little more obvious situation on my hands one time. I was invited to a family gathering. me and my wife's niece were sitting on the couch. Everyone else was on the back side of the couch doing whatever they were doing. All of a sudden I feel something on my cock. It was her foot! Massaging my gd cock. I don't get how someone is that forward, didn't ask or anything. .. i was busy playing game system on the tv. I asked her wtf she was doing?! told her she couldn't do that there were people right behind us. she just kept doing it.. but i never stopped her. then she jumped over sat right next to me and said "I wanna play too, please can i?" her hand went down my pjs omfg. it was insane.

 

[MrAnderson360]

She is too young for you. Older men should not be chasing after teenage girls or young adult women for romance and/or sex.

I don't see him chasing after her. Seems to be the other way around? He'd be stupid af to not see what she wants

 

[MrAnderson360]

I stopped following your story a bit but I did not see anyone calling this fake. But moving on, I would assume this is real, and I have fully given you my opinion, as have others.

To recap- keep it in your pants, unless you want to fantasize on it WHILE MASTURBATING. She is young and likely dumb or confused. She is your son's ex. Move on from it.

Son's ex makes it even that more better. I think I might get his approval tho. Maybe he can rekindle the son and her relationship. Think positive, jeez.

 

[MrAnderson360]

I have no doubts that there are younger women who fall in love with an older man. And of course I have no problem with it; age gaps are fine and there are many such healthy relationships.

What I'm rejecting here, is the notion that a large percentage of young women have a sexual kink for significantly older men - eg., over twice their age as in the case of the OP's story. And that they will pursue him whether he's married or not. Ridiculous.

On many occasions I have been out with older guys who've misconstrued a much younger woman's humor and friendliness for sexual interest and it's hilarious, gross, and kinda sad.

What he described is not just humor and friendliness. And there's no large percentage of anyone doing anything. Relax

 

[MrAnderson360]

The thing that make this different than most situations is I have known this girl for years. I know her personality and how she acts around men. Yea she is friendly, loving and all those things but how she acts around me is totally different than she did before or how she acts around the other older men she is around. I also totally agree I am sure there are plenty of times that older men think younger women are hitting on them when they are not. I am also not naive enough to think this is normal or that nothing bad would ever happen. If that was the case I would have made my move long ago when she first started throwing hints my way. Is it morally wrong, absolutely but that doesn’t mean that it can’t turn me on or make me fantasize about what it would be like to be with her. I think some people on here are so self righteous to throw the first stone when if the show was on their foot they would do the same damn thing.

I'm with you. Self righteous is exactly how I'd describe it. Others are throwing their own twists and makin shit up. So dumb. The woman obviously wants you, at least it appears that way. Only one way to find out. Ask. Be a gentleman, don't just whip ur johnson out and slap her across the face with it. Reserve that for further into the relationship. The only question you have to ask, is how far is too far being that you're married. If too far exists. Depends on ur marriage. Only you can answer that. Others can fling around their self righteous morally wrong comments around forever all they want. Means nothing, it's your life.

 

[AnomalyLady]

Son's ex makes it even that more better. I think I might get his approval tho. Maybe he can rekindle the son and her relationship. Think positive, jeez.

Are you the OP?

 

[Nellie60]

Yes It's obvious you two are gonna be getting to know each other real close soon. I had a little more obvious situation on my hands one time. I was invited to a family gathering. me and my wife's niece were sitting on the couch. Everyone else was on the back side of the couch doing whatever they were doing. All of a sudden I feel something on my cock. It was her foot! Massaging my gd cock. I don't get how someone is that forward, didn't ask or anything. .. i was busy playing game system on the tv. I asked her wtf she was doing?! told her she couldn't do that there were people right behind us. she just kept doing it.. but i never stopped her. then she jumped over sat right next to me and said "I wanna play too, please can i?" her hand went down my pjs omfg. it was insane. to this day we meet up all the time. she's my fun in life what i look forward to

As a lover of illicit inappropriate relationships given the consent side is tidied up, I enjoy the idea of a young lady coming onto me.

The most pleasure comes from tbe teasing and making out with someone like that. Then feeling her hand on your crotch fucking insane before she holds it.

 

[MrAnderson360]

Ya man, the foot was one thing.. my game score was going down as quickly as my cock was on the rise. when she reached in my pjs and those soft angel hands touched my cock i lost all self control, it was gone, didn't have a clue what was going on around us. thankfully she was keeping an eye on the others, stopped when theyd come close, threw the comforter over us and kept at it when they were just feet away. it didn't last long.. me that is lol Ive never experienced something so bold it was insane

 

[Nellie60]

Ya man, the foot was one thing.. my game score was going down as quickly as my cock was on the rise. when she reached in my pjs and those soft angel hands touched my cock i lost all self control, it was gone, didn't have a clue what was going on around us. thankfully she was keeping an eye on the others, stopped when theyd come close, threw the comforter over us and kept at it when they were just feet away. it didn't last long.. me that is lol Ive never experienced something so bold it was insane

Thats hot. Did she stroke you in earnest or just massaged gently under cover to make you cum quickly.

And did you go further with her later?

 

[MrAnderson360]

Thats hot. Did she stroke you in earnest or just massaged gently under cover to make you cum quickly.

And did you go further with her later?

There was no gentleness about her. Fuck I thought she was gonna rip my dick off. My guess is that she watched too much porn or something lol as far as going further, you'll have to read a story that I write some time. I figured I'll give writing a go. You actually caught me in the middle of writing my first story about my cousin. He's the first that came to mind to write about. I wonder what people will think. I don't think that I'm a great writer, but who knows.

 

[Nellie60]

There was no gentleness about her. Fuck I thought she was gonna rip my dick off. My guess is that she watched too much porn or something lol as far as going further, you'll have to read a story that I write some time. I figured I'll give writing a go. You actually caught me in the middle of writing my first story about my cousin. He's the first that came to mind to write about. I wonder what people will think. I don't think that I'm a great writer, but who knows.

You definitely got my imagination going about her hand on your cock that night ha ha!