Advice Please!!

[Guest]

Hello!! I have posted here once before and got some good responses, so I thought I would throw another out and see what happens.

~ Ok, my dh and I can't find my g-spot, at all. We have tried and even printed a how to guide on finding the g-spot from this site. Is this something that just takes time or am I destined to never experience a vaginal orgasm? Does that fact that I have had two kids play any role in this? Since my husband is my first and only lover, and I am his, we both have no prior experience to help guide us through this. I have been able to have a clit orgasm, but only with the aid of a vibrator. My dh takes the time to try and find that special spot, but I just get so frustrated and just give up. I also have another question for you all. We have tried doing anal sex, but it hurts alot once the head of his dick is inside, even using great amounts of lubrication. Is this normal and will soon go away? Or maybe we should try something smaller at first and gradually work our way up to his dick? Any advice is appreciated and will be most welcome!! Thanks!

 

[MidnightAngel]

In my experience: Yes, finding the right spot just takes time. It's my experience that it's much easier to hit "just the right spot" if I'm on top. You didn't say how long you've been married. Don't give up; don't get frustrated. Hell.....if you have to practice something, I can't think of anything more fun!!

Anal sex does hurt initially. The lube does help. but it doesn't completely stop the "hurt" when he enters. Usually after a few minutes of relaxing and getting accustomed to the size/feeling, it will get *much* better.

 

[mixelplix]

Also take a look at this thread it may help

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=62340