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hint: she's a woman, too.
http://www.advicegoddess.com/ag-column-archives/2016/07/unzipping-your.html
http://www.advicegoddess.com/ag-column-archives/2016/07/unzipping-your.html
So, the women whose children survived to pass on their genes to us were those who vetted men for the ability and willingness to "provide." There was no "wealth" in ancestral times -- no National Bank of the Stone Age. However, evolutionary psychologists believe a modern man's high earnings act as a cue for what women evolved to go for in a man -- high status, meaning high social standing and the ability to bring home the wildebeest steaks for Mommy and the twins.
You, however, claim that a man's status does nothing for you. Now, studies reveal how most people are, not individual differences, so you may be right. However, cognitive neuroscientist Michael Gazzaniga explains that 98 percent of our brain's activity is unconscious -- including some of our decision-making -- but we invent reasons for our choices afterward (typically those that make us seem rational, consistent, and admirable). And research keeps reflecting that women subconsciously prioritize status. In a study by evolutionary psychologist Michael Dunn, women found the exact same man hotter when he was driving a Bentley than when he was driving a Ford Fiesta. Men? They found a woman equally attractive in either car, and frankly, a woman who's hot can probably get dates while "driving" a donkey with bumper stickers on the back.
Next, there's your claim that you and other women are "very aroused" by "gorgeous naked men." Um, sorry, but that's not what the vagina monitor says. Sex researcher Meredith Chivers hooked some ladies up to a machine that measures arousal through blood flow in their ladyparts. Though the women were aroused by footage of sex acts, she also showed them footage of a hot dude exercising naked. The vaginal response: "Yeah, whatevs."
And finally, for the perfect example of how sex differences play out, if a man flashes a woman on the street, it's "You pervert! I'm calling the cops." If a woman does it to a man, it's probably one of the best days he's had in forever: "Wow...it's not even my birthday! How 'bout some yoga poses? Downward-facing dog? Shoulder stand?...Wait. Where are you going? Come back! I think you dropped an earring."