Advice for opening a relationship

[BiDave1962]

I’ve had fantasies involving men for 45 years, but have not acted on them. Sad, I know. I know my desires stemmed from childhood experimentation, but were sublimated because of my strong religious upbringing. That said, once I moved away from my parents I had the opportunity to be more open. But only a little. My mother finally passed last fall, so I now feel free to explore my desires. However, I am married. My wife loves me, I love her, we have had a frank discussion of our sex life and we know what each other’s desires are. But she has crippling inferiority and fears that bringing anyone into our bed will result in losing me. She especially fears bring in another woman. Health concerns and social stigma aside, is there anything I could say to her that might get me having sex with a man?