Advanced sexual techniques

[BrentJW]

This is intended to be a serious thread to share techniques you have learned that are not common knowledge or typically shown in porn. Specific details of the technique or position are appreciated so others can try them.

I’ll start off with one. I enjoy finding ways to extend or heighten the peak of my wife’s orgasms. Her clitoral sensitivity changes immensely during oral stimulation. (I think this is common, but we’re monogamous, so not sure) She likes light stimulation initially but more intensely as she nears climax. She is a screamer so there is no guessing when that is. Nearing the peak I use the tip of my tongue and drum her pearl as quickly as possible. Once her peak hits I immediately switch to lathing the clit with the underside of my tongue and after about ten seconds I put the tip of my tongue and press firmly on the pearl up and in towards her core. For some reason she responds to this as much as a second orgasm. I hold still in this position gradually reducing the firm pressure until her sensitivity increases to the point she can’t tolerate any more, usually a minute or two. I suppose everyone is different and others may hate it, but my wife wishes I had ‘discovered’ this orgasm extender years ago and literally begs for it. Wish I had known. Is this common knowledge and we were ignorant all this time? What else have we been missing?

 

[live4thebj]

How to properly lick a woman's pussy. 98% of the movies where the guy eats the pussy just isn't how it's done. I have seen a handful and I mean only a handful of movies where the guy is doing it right.

How I learned? Well from trial and error but the funny thing is I really don't have any real talents except when it comes to eating pussy. I never followed what I saw in the movies, I just went on pure instinct and observing the reactions I get when I do this and that with my tongue. Tip for all your guys and ladies:
Slow
Gentle
And this is a big one, circle the clit more than just attacking it. Go around it over and over again then slight left and right moves with a little bit of up and down then go back to circling. Works every time on every single woman I did it to.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

How to properly lick a woman's pussy. 98% of the movies where the guy eats the pussy just isn't how it's done. I have seen a handful and I mean only a handful of movies where the guy is doing it right.

How I learned? Well from trial and error but the funny thing is I really don't have any real talents except when it comes to eating pussy. I never followed what I saw in the movies, I just went on pure instinct and observing the reactions I get when I do this and that with my tongue. Tip for all your guys and ladies:
Slow
Gentle
And this is a big one, circle the clit more than just attacking it. Go around it over and over again then slight left and right moves with a little bit of up and down then go back to circling. Works every time on every single woman I did it to.

To piggyback off live4thebj, I’ve always used the “alphabet” style. After some initial flicking and teasing, and then some fat tongue to get her over any ticklish squirming, start spelling the alphabet on the clit. Start with smaller case then move on to upper, then for the finale, cursive!

 

[FL30]

it depends on the individual; everyone likes different things. You just have to learn what they like and do that. You learn what they like by reading their body language.

 

[StrongMaster7]

I agree that every woman is different and they all like different things. But, it's safest to start out very gently whether it's kissing or touching. If she likes it harder or rougher, she will let you know. But if you maintain a gentle, light touch, you may be surprised by the reaction it gets. Sometimes very, very gentle can get a very, very big reaction.

There is also this. I love it when my wife just gets totally out of her mind (for a few seconds) when we are fucking and I can just plow into her full length and full force and she cums and cums. But after it's over, she will be sore and won't want to fuck again for days. So, even when you can be rougher, you may want to use a little restraint. It's sexy making her beg for what she wants...

 

[NMMountainman]

This is intended to be a serious thread to share techniques you have learned that are not common knowledge or typically shown in porn. Specific details of the technique or position are appreciated so others can try them.

I’ll start off with one. I enjoy finding ways to extend or heighten the peak of my wife’s orgasms. Her clitoral sensitivity changes immensely during oral stimulation. (I think this is common, but we’re monogamous, so not sure) She likes light stimulation initially but more intensely as she nears climax. She is a screamer so there is no guessing when that is. Nearing the peak I use the tip of my tongue and drum her pearl as quickly as possible. Once her peak hits I immediately switch to lathing the clit with the underside of my tongue and after about ten seconds I put the tip of my tongue and press firmly on the pearl up and in towards her core. For some reason she responds to this as much as a second orgasm. I hold still in this position gradually reducing the firm pressure until her sensitivity increases to the point she can’t tolerate any more, usually a minute or two. I suppose everyone is different and others may hate it, but my wife wishes I had ‘discovered’ this orgasm extender years ago and literally begs for it. Wish I had known. Is this common knowledge and we were ignorant all this time? What else have we been missing?

I agree that every woman is different and they all enjoy different things. I don’t know how different my wife is but one of the things I discovered early on in our marriage is that my wife loves for me to suck on one of her toes while I’m finger fucking her. I have pretty much perfected the technique of sucking on one of her toes with the same rhythm as I’m finger fucking her which quickly causes her to have one of those yelling orgasms.

 

[shinybikiniwife]

Whoa whoa whoa... there are ADVANCED ones?!

 

[shinybikiniwife]

this sucks, tbh I’m still working on the intermediate techniques

The heck? Intermediate ones too!?

 

[shinybikiniwife]

Self-help books aren't all they are cracked up to be.

 

[BrentJW]

I agree that every woman is different and they all enjoy different things. I don’t know how different my wife is but one of the things I discovered early on in our marriage is that my wife loves for me to suck on one of her toes while I’m finger fucking her. I have pretty much perfected the technique of sucking on one of her toes with the same rhythm as I’m finger fucking her which quickly causes her to have one of those yelling orgasms.

Not sure I’m understanding completely. So you suck on just one of her toes? Any particular one, or will any one do, or do you rotate? Does she have a foot fetish or specifically just a subset of that, the toe fetish? Can she get off with just a toe sucking or must it be combined with the finger fucking? Is the finger fucking focusing on the g-spot or the clit? Any particular body position for either of you? Is this like foreplay or the main event? Does she reciprocate with anything for you simultaneously like say fellatio or hand job? Are the toes more erotic to her than breast or ass or pussy stimulation? Are the feet always clean? Dirty feet could be worse than a clean rim job.

 

[NMMountainman]

Not sure I’m understanding completely. So you suck on just one of her toes? Any particular one, or will any one do, or do you rotate? Does she have a foot fetish or specifically just a subset of that, the toe fetish? Can she get off with just a toe sucking or must it be combined with the finger fucking? Is the finger fucking focusing on the g-spot or the clit? Any particular body position for either of you? Is this like foreplay or the main event? Does she reciprocate with anything for you simultaneously like say fellatio or hand job? Are the toes more erotic to her than breast or ass or pussy stimulation? Are the feet always clean? Dirty feet could be worse than a clean rim job.

To answer your questions, yes I usually just suck on one of her toes and it's usually the one on her right foot as she is facing me on her back, this gives me unobstructed access with my right hand since I'm right handed. No she does not get off with just a toe sucking, it is a combination of the two. Yes, this is part of foreplay and there is lots of reciprocity. No I would not say her toes are more erotic than her breasts or pussy stimulation, just one aspect in love making. And yes my wife's feet are usually clean since she is a stickler for being bathed or showered since it's a guarantee that I will feast on her pussy during love making unless it's a spur of the moment thing.

 

[BrentJW]

Here‘s another that I rarely see in porn. My wife is fairly reserved, but has been open to exploring further over the years as I’ve pushed her boundaries, so I’m happy for that. She is also somewhat submissive sexually, so I think she justifies it to herself as keeping me happy, as long as I don’t go too far too fast, and enjoys herself more if it makes her a ‘good’ wife by pleasing me. Anyway, she says she has never masturbated herself to orgasm in her life, and I believe her. It took me a good while to find a combination of foreplay that would let her experience the joy of her own orgasms. Recently, during missionary position, I’ve convinced her to reach down and grab my balls with her fingertips and pull my cock into her when I’m into the long strokes. This helps trip my trigger in two ways. I love having my ball massaged this way, plus, when I look down and see her helping fuck herself with my cock, it reminds me how sexual she can be and enjoy her body. She has sometimes been embarrassed by how wonton it is, but she continues to do it. Life is good! Is this more common than porn shows? I realize having hands in the way of the action is a drawback.

 

[live4thebj]

Self-help books aren't all they are cracked up to be.

Well you know what they say. Those that can’t do teach.

 

[shinybikiniwife]

Well you know what they say. Those that can’t do teach.

HAhahaha... calling all students!

 

[ThinkWrite]

How to properly lick a woman's pussy. 98% of the movies where the guy eats the pussy just isn't how it's done. I have seen a handful and I mean only a handful of movies where the guy is doing it right.

How I learned? Well from trial and error but the funny thing is I really don't have any real talents except when it comes to eating pussy. I never followed what I saw in the movies, I just went on pure instinct and observing the reactions I get when I do this and that with my tongue. Tip for all your guys and ladies:
Slow
Gentle
And this is a big one, circle the clit more than just attacking it. Go around it over and over again then slight left and right moves with a little bit of up and down then go back to circling. Works every time on every single woman I did it to.

Very well described. Also: as her orgasm approaches resist the temptation to go faster or use more pressure. If slow and gentle is working for her with your mouth and tongue, don’t change what you’re doing.

 

[live4thebj]

Very well described. Also: as her orgasm approaches resist the temptation to go faster or use more pressure. If slow and gentle is working for her with your mouth and tongue, don’t change what you’re doing.

Yup. I saw a video of a porn star giving sex advice and they clearly said when they start cumming DON'T STOP!

 

[Ellies_adventures]

I agree that every woman is different and they all enjoy different things. I don’t know how different my wife is but one of the things I discovered early on in our marriage is that my wife loves for me to suck on one of her toes while I’m finger fucking her. I have pretty much perfected the technique of sucking on one of her toes with the same rhythm as I’m finger fucking her which quickly causes her to have one of those yelling orgasms.

I love sucking wifeys toes, and it took a little while for her to get over the gross factor and enjoy the sensation, however I have not made her cum by sucking her toes/ licking her feet. I will have to try the combined technique whi h you mentioned.
By far the strongest organisation I have given my wife have been a combo act of licking her clit and lips while fingering her gspot with one hand and tickling then fingering her ass at the same time. Best if she is straddling over the top of my face