Abject Sex: The New & Disgusting Frontier?

[Guest]

I'll chew on Sarah, then. And lick, and suck, and fondle and...

I really love how that sounds.

Minus the rats and maggots and stuff.

 

[NoJo]

I really love how that sounds.

Minus the rats and maggots and stuff.

A childhood fact I got from some science book: A lion's tongue is so raspy that it draws blood just from licking you. Mmmm

 

[Guest]

A childhood fact I got from some science book: A lion's tongue is so raspy that it draws blood just from licking you. Mmmm

And some women can suck the chrome off a trailer hitch.

 

[The_Fool]

And some women can suck the chrome off a trailer hitch.

It's not the chrome I want sucked off, it's the rust. Makes it harder to get a good connection and get the lights to work.

 

[Guest]

It's not the chrome I want sucked off, it's the rust. Makes it harder to get a good connection and get the lights to work.

Talk to Joe.

He's got the maggots and the Lion and a shark.

 

[The_Fool]

Talk to Joe.

He's got the maggots and the Lion and a shark.

Joe is just being a sicko....and a flirt. He was flirting with Carson the other day. I saw him do it....

 

[Guest]

Joe is just being a sicko....and a flirt. He was flirting with Carson the other day. I saw him do it....

How can you not flirt with carson?

 

[Stella_Omega]

How can you not flirt with carson?

Yeah, what's sick about that?

 

[dr_mabeuse]

On Topic - Adult Baby

Okay - I might be doing a little Abjectionable Sex writing. Someone wants a fictional description of the experience of an Adult Baby fetishist and I agreed to give it a try. This fits my definition of abject sex because I find the whole adult baby thing to be quite unsettling and, not to put too fine a point on it, disgusting.

I also don't know much about it at all, so I'm going to have to get some information on the whole how and what and why of AB. I know that it's usually conducted by a Domme experienced in such things, that it's a variant of BDSM, that it involves wearing giant diapers and baby paraphanalia, and I'm assuming that there's a lot of fondling and oral gratification and infantile pleasures like that. I'm afraid there's going to be some waste play too.

I can do this because I'm a writer, but I won't enjoy it, and I don't think I'll learn anything positive from it. I don't know if I can make it erotic, either, because I don't find it erotic. Playing around with the idea, I'm thinking the erotic payoff is the feeling of unconditional love I'm going to get from my Domme, and all the touching and fondling, the total lack of responsibility on my AB's part. The rest of it kind of makes me queasy.

I told this person I'd try it though, so if they give me the factual information, I will. But this is not the kind of thing I'd be likely to undertake on my own, nor would it be something I'd especially want to read. I don't think I'll sign my name to it either, no matter how it comes out. I just don't want to be officially associated with it.

So that kind of summarizes my attitude towards this particular facet of abject sex. Queasy

 

[Guest]

Wow.

I saw a special on this once. "Real Sex" I think, on HBO?

The lady diapered her adult baby man. She used powders and lotions. She spoke to him as you would a baby and then she rocked him on her lap while she fed him a big bottle.

He was completely passive the entire time. Minimal movement, minimal anything. She stuffed a pacifier in his mouth after the bottle and then he slept in a huge crib.

They didn't cover serious bladder/bowel issues, nor did they go into sexual details, but the entire thing left me baffled.

It's like a submissive thing, yet not. A sub is an active participant in the situation whereas this seemed to be complete passivity by the baby man. In fact, the less involvement the better.

Good luck with this, Zoot.

 

[NoJo]

It must be a British thing because it's pretty well-known here. I don't find it particularly icky, and it takes not much imagination to understand it. I mean, what the hell is lover's baby-talk except a sort of infantilism?

 

[shereads]

As someone whose writing is primarily done to help leering land developers sell filled wetlands to golfers, I've always envied you Lit authors the luxury of writing for pleasure - your own, and your readers'.

Why write erotica on a topic that you don't find erotic? For the challenge?

From a reader's perspective - even one whose 'fetishes' are fairly mainstream - I'm not sure how I'd feel if I read a D/s story by a writer who couldn't quite hide his revulsion. I think I might feel that my trust had been violated.

That said, the German latex fetish sites have some bonnets that are to die for.

 

[dr_mabeuse]

As someone whose writing is primarily done to help leering land developers sell filled wetlands to golfers, I've always envied you Lit authors the luxury of writing for pleasure - your own, and your readers'.

Why write erotica on a topic that you don't find erotic? For the challenge?

From a reader's perspective - even one whose 'fetishes' are fairly mainstream - I'm not sure how I'd feel if I read a D/s story by a writer who couldn't quite hide his revulsion. I think I might feel that my trust had been violated.

That said, the German latex fetish sites have some bonnets that are to die for.

Part of it is showing off - virtuoso work, like playing a piano while lying underneath it. I'll bet I can do the Adult Baby so that I might not get anyone hard or wet, but I'll get some people entranced. I'll bet I can enter into the AB's mind and really get into that blissed out state of lying there as an adult and being touched and fondled and having things put in my mouth and describe it in such a way where I can communicate the appeal, and that's what writing is about for me - opening doors of experience that are normally closed or that didn't exist before I made them.

The challenge in this for me would be to make that blissed out state sexual, but I think I can do that. I think I can make almost anything sexual, although the waste play really, really gives me pause. I might have to skip that.

After I do this, I want to do this other fetish, the Adult Grown-Up Fetish, where people dress like Grown-Ups and sit on each other's laps and are touched and fondled and spoken to in "adult-talk" like, "Well, well, my man!" and "Say, there, lady!" and they have "mature sex" where they feel guilty and inadequate afterwards.

 

[Stella_Omega]

After I do this, I want to do this other fetish, the Adult Grown-Up Fetish, where people dress like Grown-Ups and sit on each other's laps and are touched and fondled and spoken to in "adult-talk" like, "Well, well, my man!" and "Say, there, lady!" and they have "mature sex" where they feel guilty and inadequate afterwards.

Now you're squicking me out.