A Weird Experience

[lavender]

 

[celiaKitten]

YES! That happened to me when I was Christmas shopping in '99 with my father.

Yikes, talk about an awkward situation!

 

[Guest]

 

[freakygirl]

Yes, I run into the man I lost my virginity to every other weekend. When he drops off our kids for visitation.

 

[espressolover]

What was it like?

Deja voodoo!

Wow...really wild to run into him after so long.
He is married and has a whole gaggle of kids, but he still asked me out...do you belive that?

I was feeling torn because he was my first love, but no...sigh!!

 

[Xander]

yeah it happend to me about 4 years after the act.

Kinda strange. And it was while I was at work too.

It was strange when we talked.

She looked good though.

 

[Mischka]

"Weird" would not even begin to describe it. I did not encounter him through a chance occurance, but at three in the morning, with him throwing stones at my bedroom window four years later. He had come back to apologize, and then proposed marriage and said he wanted to take me away from "everything and everyone." Hopefully he's moved to another continent by now. Preferably Antarctica.

 

[Summery]

That is a weird experience! I lost my virginity when I was 16. I really liked the guy I was with, but was less than impressed about the sex. At 16 I felt it was overrated. Needless to say him and I never had sex again. We lost touch shortly after (no big surprise)
Ran into him 8 years later. We were both single at the time. Went out to dinner and caught up with what had gone on in our lives. We ended up sleeping together. 8 years made a big difference and the sex was absolutely fantastic........but it wasn't enough to make a relationship work.
It's been almost another 8 years now since I last saw him. Unlikely we will run into each other. We both live in different states.
Life is strange sometimes.

 

[lobito]

Fly just never calls me anymore, I know he's here, i see his posts, but I guess he threw my number away.

Being that I'm so OLD, compared to some of you, I haven't seen the woman (girl then) in MANY MANY years. I thought she loved me, but, I guess not, or we might still be together.

 

[shyybabe]

Luckily (for him) I've only been fortunate enough to have seen him twice in the past five years, one time in front of the judge and the second with a police escort.

Hopefully I won't have to see him for another five years or longer should I win the case (keeping my fingers, toes and every other body part crossed).

 

[Wiggles]

Yes, I ran into the "man" I lost my virginity to about three years after. Let's call him Prick.

He was staying over at a friend of a friends, and my bestfriend and I ended up staying in this apartment for about a week.

We smoked massive amounts of cannabis, went inflata-bed sledding and only ate pizza. This was the best of times....

Until me and Prick decide we want to try to get it on again.... It went really badly, just like the first time, and he tried to brag about it. Luckily, I was half-awake on the living room floor and heard the whole thing. I got up and said something really snotty. Prick was soo pissed, I was so not feeling sorry for him.

This has been another useless inane story from Wiggles....

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Okay I wanted to answer something... but Lobito threw my thought prossess out of wack.

i think I was going to say.

No nothing like that has ever happened to me, so I honestly don't understand why it's such an awquard thing.

lol, I have no fucking clue what I was going to ask.... thanks lobito

mabey i'll post again later if I can remeber.

 

[lobito]

lol, I have no fucking clue what I was going to ask.... thanks lobito

mabey i'll post again later if I can remeber.

You're OH SO WELCOME lover boy! Thanks for making me laugh, I really need one right now.

Hope you think of what you wanted to say, soon. Oh, and YES, it is and can be for alot of people THE experience to remember, good or bad.

Lo - who is sick, and taking WAY too much medicine for his own good.

 

[Cath!]

I lost mine when I was 15 and I broke up with the guy the next day. He used to follow me home from school (he was 3 years older and obsessed). He would come in after school and schmooze with my mom. She just didnt get it.

I didnt see him after he graduated, but I did see his brother at our 10 yr reunion.

 

[ovalhed]

Got a call from the girl I lost it to two nights before I was getting maried to someone else. We met and talked and drove around and had a nice night. Didn't get to have her again. I wish I had. She died about a year later and my wife was jealous of her for almost 10 years after that. Ended up getting divorced wishing I had married the other girl instead.

Oh well, life goes on..................

 

[TN_Vixen]

O my god

The guy I lost my virginity to at 18 was someone I dated for almost 3 years. We got engaged and then things went poorly from there on out. Turns out that a year after the time we were supposed to get married, on the eve of my wedding night, I ran into him in the store when I went to buy ashtrays for the tables for my reception. He and I hadn't seen one another for almost 2 yrs. but on this fateful night we ran into one another. It was strange, uncomfortable, unsettling and now that I look back on it, probably portentious to the inevitable demise of my marriage.

Signs, signs.. everywhere there's signs.... (humming)

 

[WriterDom]

Haven't seen her in years, but I'm moving back to where I was born and I'm pretty sure she's still there. The town is too small not to bump into her.

 

[miles]

lavender

Wanna fight, then fuck. Again?

 

[Weevil]

Every day. Pretty good.

 

[on_the_verge]

Oh my! I remember meeting my ex from H.S. after we had split up for a year. She still looked wonderful and taller than me, hmptff! We ran into each other because I was still going over to her fathers house to talk about the Navy and she came by to visit. It was odd running into her and her father was looking at me like I was evil, because she lost her virginity to me. My ex ended up talking to me outside later on and asked if we could see a movie at my place. She came over later that night and we watched "Dead Calm." I was ready to put another movie in and she asked if I wanted to do something else. As horny as I was, I respected she was my ex. I said, "Yeah, another movie." But, she reached over turned the VCR off, then the lights and attacked me. After we had sex, she had to leave. I do remember her getting dressed and walking out the door and how calm and lovely she looked. It was almost instrumental as she left. I felt so odd and almost taken like a piece of meet, but she was my ex. I called her the next day and asked why? She just told me that she may never see me, her first again and she wanted to embrace the first time with me again in a sense. I wish all my ex's were like that, eh? Well, maybe some, but it's nice to move on and realize what was then was wonderful and what is now and in the future can be very promissing. After all, relationships hopefully build us to learn, experience and to be better and right for the next…maybe…

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Have you seen the person you lost your virginity to years after the fact? What was it like?

Yes, I have seen the man I lost my virginity too... he is still as sexy and adorable as the last time I saw him. It does not feel weird seeing him @ all ... he is my love.

Maybe because we never stopped seeing one another , that could be why its not so weird.

 

[VanB]

Have you seen the person you lost your virginity to years after the fact? What was it

I met her last year after 20 years of no contact - she's still adorable, there's still chemistry but she's married and pregnant so no future. We've become good friends and I'm having dinner with her next week. It's very cool to be relaxed with each other now.

But what an extremely odd feeling when we first saw each other again.

 

[Ree]

I haven't seen the man who took my "emotional" virginity in 12 years. I tried to get in touch with him when I went back for my 10 year class reunion but it didn't work out. Now, if we see the jerk who took my "physical" virginity. That would be a different story! I do keep in touch with a wonderful man who's virginity I took. We still talking about the "what if's" but we are best friends and although I would love to sleep with him again to see how he has grown, we live on opposite side of the country so I have to be satisfied with some rather racy voice mail and emails.

 

[Tim1]

Yes

I saw the woman (now) girl then in 1992 at our 20th year high school reunion. Of course she had to mention the fact to my wife in passing. That made for a wonderful evening. NOT.

All I heard all night was..."how could you have fucked her?"

Geeeez I was in high school and I was horny and besides she brought the comdom. We broke in the front seat of my 1968 Mustang.....

 

[Calamity Jane]

Even though we compete in the same sport, I haven't seen him in over 9 years. I don't know how we've managed not to run into each other, but here's hoping the trend continues!