Describe your most satisfying oral sex experience

[devakama469]

Well, here it goes. I have truly disliked receiving BJ's because for as long as I can remember, I have had a hot spot under the crown of my penis which makes direct stimulation of that area very uncomfortable. I have done my best to cope with the discomfort as several women I have dated truly enjoy giving BJs and I know that I would be very upset if they wouldn't let me give them oral pleasure. (Thankfully I never had discomfort during penetration.) I never climaxed from oral until four months ago.

Somehow, I injured my frenulum and sought medical attention. My doc prescribed a cream which when applied also covered the hotspot adjacent to my frenulum. The cream was effective, and I no longer have that super sensitive spot and incredibly and most thankfully I can truly enjoy receiving BJs to completion. When I had my first BJ to completion, I swear that my soul left my body.

So many thoughts have crossed my mind. I think about prior relationships and how those may have been different because one or two of the gals I dated prided themselves on giving BJs. I think about all the times I felt less than, because I didn't enjoy BJs when nearly every guy in the world lives for them. I am mad at myself for not sharing this issue with a doc before all these decades have passed. So don't let something that isn't normal go without checking it in with a doc, they just might be able to help.

This is a good message, and I think it applies not only to with having the courage to seek medical help to hopefully resolve some issue you may be facing, no matter how small or big, no matter how simple or embarrassing you may think it is.

But, also, to having the courage to approach sensitive topics with your partner, e.g. fantasies you might have and/or experiences you might want to live, because depending on your personal situation they may indeed never materialize, but if you don't ever broach the subject you are by very definition guaranteeing that exact outcome. And, at the end of the day, a lack of communication is absolutely never ever conductive to a productive and fulfilling relationship, and that is especially true on the sexual aspect.

 

[Gator66]

This is a good message, and I think it applies not only to with having the courage to seek medical help to hopefully resolve some issue you may be facing, no matter how small or big, no matter how simple or embarrassing you may think it is.

But, also, to having the courage to approach sensitive topics with your partner, e.g. fantasies you might have and/or experiences you might want to live, because depending on your personal situation they may indeed never materialize, but if you don't ever broach the subject you are by very definition guaranteeing that exact outcome. And, at the end of the day, a lack of communication is absolutely never ever conductive to a productive and fulfilling relationship, and that is especially true on the sexual aspect.

Very true, communication is essential. Even if the result of the conversation is not what one would have hoped, at least there is clarity and then one can either accept the conclusion or make changes accordingly. Thx

 

[devakama469]

Very true, communication is essential. Even if the result of the conversation is not what one would have hoped, at least there is clarity and then one can either accept the conclusion or make changes accordingly. Thx

Spot on!