A serious Question about online relationships

[FallenAngel2]

Okay, I am a male, and I have had an online relationship with another male for the past 7 years (perhaps longer). Our relationship involves flirting and phone sex, also the exchange of naked and compromising photos.

Sometimes we just email and chat, other times it’s flirting and phone sex. He is an out of the closet homosexual; I am straight, yet have fantasies. We have never met, we talked about meeting once or twice but I just couldn’t do it. I think finally he gave up on ever meeting me and currently he has a boyfriend.

Do you think this is bizarre? Do you think this makes me gay? Do you think, if it feels good, just do it?

Curious about your feedback.

 

[binary1980]

Do you think, if it feels good, just do it?

there ya go. theres your answer right there. so long as you arent hurting anyone else just go with it. best of luck to ya fallen. i hope you find whatever it is youre lookin for

 

[rjp44]

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Fallen, don't worry about labels. I think we would be suprised if we knew the percentage of men who have fantasies of sex with other men. What you are doing is talking with a friend at times, and at other time releasing pent up feelings. Online or phone call, it's not actually doing anything, you've hurt no one and as long as you both enjoy it, go for it.

 

[Wolfman1982]

Fallen, don't worry about labels. I think we would be suprised if we knew the percentage of men who have fantasies of sex with other men. What you are doing is talking with a friend at times, and at other time releasing pent up feelings. Online or phone call, it's not actually doing anything, you've hurt no one and as long as you both enjoy it, go for it.

Amen, and de ja vu, I have gotten the same message from a person, who was very wise too in that area. And I couldn´t have said it better myself.

 

[Roxanne Appleby]

A lot that is relevent in this thread: https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=438729

 

[FallenAngel2]

Fallen, don't worry about labels. I think we would be suprised if we knew the percentage of men who have fantasies of sex with other men. What you are doing is talking with a friend at times, and at other time releasing pent up feelings. Online or phone call, it's not actually doing anything, you've hurt no one and as long as you both enjoy it, go for it.

awesome advice!