A question to all those straight people (you know who you are).

[Never]

Would you let a member of the same sex go down on you?
That's a blowjob from another man.
Or cunnilingus from another woman.

The asshole (my ex-friend) used to tell me stories of 'straight' men who wouldn't touch another man but would let him suck them off.. I've also gone to several websites and had many gay guy and gals say that regular, straight people do seem to mind this sort of attention - even if they would never have 'real' sex with someone of their gender.

I'm just wondering.

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And wandering.

 

[PacificBlue]

hmmmm...

It's a wonderful fantasy to think about... another woman going down on me or me on her but honestly, I think that's where it will stay...just a fantasy. I like men way to much, now if I could only find a willing one! hee, hee, hee

 

[Laurel]

"all those straight people"?

Why do I picture you wrinkling your nose while you say that?


tee hee

 

[doctor_insanus]

Nope...

Well... not knowingly, anyway!

 

[Never]

Laurel:
""all those straight people"?

Why do I picture you wrinkling your nose while you say that?


tee hee "

All those.. those.. straight people. You know what they're like.
Hey, at least I don't go 'tee hee'.

Oh - and I notice you didn't answer the question.
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Ohhh waka - waka

 

[Laurel]

Oh yeah, those straight people. Yeah, they're totally whacked.


Hey Never, in the spirit of the thread, would you let a guy go down on you?

 

[Problem Child]

If I was into male-inflicted blowjobs, I'd pretty much be something other than straight by definition, wouldn't I?

 

[Stonedagger]

ah

NO!!
not really homophobic - but really woulnd't want a guy that close to my dick EVER!

 

[Weird Harold]

Would you let a member of the same sex go down on you?
That's a blowjob from another man.

Not when I was sober I wouldn't, and I quit drinking twenty years ago.

 

[lavender]

 

[Never]

Hmmm.
In all honesty, if I had a guy down there I don't think it would turn me on, it wouldn't disgust me or anything though. I keep on wondering if I could give a blowjob - I mean, penises aren't horrible, they're cute in an ugly sort of way. You know, like a baby mole rat.

 

[Mischka]

I was thinking about this on the drive home today (listening to Ani DiFranco inspired me). A lot has been said about the spectrum of human sexuality, but I think there's an intersecting spectrum (or plane? Geometry was over a decade ago) of intimacy as well. I think a lot of people may be willing to have sexual encounters with people of the same gender, but to be truly bi-sexual, I believe that person would also have to be willing to have an emotional connection or some sort of relationship with their partner.

 

[Laurel]

*mulls WH's answer over*


Hmmm...

 

[Svedish_Chef]

I think a lot of people may be willing to have sexual encounters with people of the same gender, but to be truly bi-sexual, I believe that person would also have to be willing to have an emotional connection or some sort of relationship with their partner.

yup... smart woman... thats the way it is

 

[Weird Harold]

*mulls WH's answer over*


Hmmm...

I quit drinking because there were large periods of time disappearing from my life. I have no idea what I did or with whom during those periods.

 

[Laurel]

Oh, those don't count, WH. If you don't remember, it doesn't count. Like if you eat ice cream without reading the label, those calories don't count either.

 

[Never]

Laurel:
"Like if you eat ice cream without reading the label, those calories don't count either."

Laurel, do you want to be my diet guru?

 

[Never]

Sooo.
What I'm getting mostly is.. No.

I thought so but what the hey.

 

[Anon_persona]

I was thinking about this on the drive home today (listening to Ani DiFranco inspired me). A lot has been said about the spectrum of human sexuality, but I think there's an intersecting spectrum (or plane? Geometry was over a decade ago) of intimacy as well. I think a lot of people may be willing to have sexual encounters with people of the same gender, but to be truly bi-sexual, I believe that person would also have to be willing to have an emotional connection or some sort of relationship with their partner.

I believe I heard that the average gay male has 6 partners at any one time. With the logic above (no offense intended) there are NO gay men (and probably all women are lesbians, but that's another story). Would I take a male hummer? I wouldn't let a man's face come within three feet of my crotch. Forgive me for being hooked up right. And remember, there is a difference between homophobes and homophobics, myself being the former.

 

[Styphon]

Hello All

No, never in a million years - the idea makes me heave...

Styphon

 

[RisiaSkye]

Yeah, I would. And have.

I consider myself straight, but I've given oral sex to a woman, and received. Once in a while, I'm really attracted to someone of the same sex. But it's not as frequent as I'm attracted to men, so I call myself straight.

 

[Laurel]

Laurel:
"Like if you eat ice cream without reading the label, those calories don't count either."

Laurel, do you want to be my diet guru?

Sure! I don't make any weight loss guarantees, or any other health guarantees for that matter. I do promise that you'll have fun, though...

 

[Cheyenne]

Someone asked me this question about 6 months ago in a theory discussion. I came up with the answer that being kissed by a woman would gag me. I have no desire to taste another woman's pussy, so that is definitely out for me. But, depending on the situation (which has never come up) I don't know what I'd say for sure if another woman wanted to go down on me. There are a lot of variables, but I tend to think my answer would be "no" because I wouldn't be comfortable with the idea of it.

 

[Nicole]

What a time to be asked this (LOL) ... sorry thinking out loud.

I've never actually been attracted to a woman, but I met someone here and although we have never met physically, we know enough about each other and have seen enough of each other for me to know that I would Definitely think about being with her. She is about the only woman that I have felt this close to, and the only woman I have been able to say "I love you" too, because she is my closet friend and I do love her.

This is the first time in my life I've had this feeling, and truthfully it scares the living daylights out of me. I guess the feeling is quite overwhelming but one that I am accepting.

So for that one "special" girl then yes I would, but as far as anyone else of the same sex, sorry but I couldn't bring myself to do it.

 

[Andra_Jenny]

I roomed with a gay couple...

and the queen used to troll for married men. He'd bring them home all the time. They'd call him. He was so proud of him/herself.