A Question Of Protocol

[Guest]

For the record, I do have a registered name but I don't want to post this under it because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings! So I guess that doesn't make me a troll in this instance does it?! I hope not.

Anyway, I have been around the board for a month or two and in that time I have maybe got 3 or 4 PM's from people I don't know trying to engage in online sex or whatever. Now, I'm not a prude and I love to flirt etc with the best of 'em but I'm not to keen in doing it with someone I don't know.

So my question is, what's the protocol here? If I come to Lit (which I enjoy doing) is it the done thing to do the sex thing over PM? I mostly come here because the GB cracks me up and I also like the stories.

I must say, when I have told those that have PM'd me that I'm not interested it has been left at that with no flaming or whatever, so that is a good thing.

 

[Tabby432]

I must say, when I have told those that have PM'd me that I'm not interested it has been left at that with no flaming or whatever, so that is a good thing.

There's your answer.

 

[LukkyKnight]

Protocol

Be yourself. Trust your instincts. Do not succumb to pressure from people you've never met and don't know - why does their forward indication of lust matter in the least?

 

[Siren]

Why dont you forward those PM's to me

 

[Mischka]

I've been here for nine months with nary a PM asking me to cyber. What, my droopy boobs not doing it for you people? What if I switch back to Greg? He has a dazzling smile. Would that interest anyone? Anyone? Hello?

 

[LukkyKnight]

don't feel too bad Mischka

...but the current avatar doesn't exactly scream out "fuck me baby" ya know?

 

[Laurel]

I've been here for nine months with nary a PM asking me to cyber. What, my droopy boobs not doing it for you people? What if I switch back to Greg? He has a dazzling smile. Would that interest anyone? Anyone? Hello?

I'll PM you asking for cyber if you switch back to Greg.

I second what everyone else says. If you're not interested, don't do it. If you are (and it doesn't sound like you are), then don't. It's definitely not required.

 

[Siren]

That's not what you told me Laurel,,,

 

[Pan718]

Yeah, Laurel!

You told me all the guys are required to cyber with you monthly! Not that it hasn't been incredible.... but sheesh!

Irate Pan
(Wink... - just teasing - for you literal-minded readers)

 

[Laurel]

Re: That's not what you told me Laurel,,,

....when you sent me that PM asking about my panties
and what time for our cyber session.

Ssssssh!!!

Don't tell all my secrets!

 

[Mischka]

Re: don't feel too bad Mischka

...but the current avatar doesn't exactly scream out "fuck me baby" ya know?

Wooh, that made me laugh. I was trying to imagine which of my previous avs would get anyone hot and bothered. Oh, except Greg. We all know Laurel has a thing for happy Olympians. Here's a special one just for you Madam:

http://www.louganis.com/images/greg079.jpg

 

[Siren]

damn, you said there were no secrets between friends

 

[LukkyKnight]

laughter

Wooh, that made me laugh. I was trying to imagine which of my previous avs would get anyone hot and bothered. Oh, except Greg. We all know Laurel has a thing for happy Olympians. Here's a special one just for you Madam:

The highest compliment I ever get. I'll kick off a female avatar thread for ya.

 

[p_p_man]

It's definitely not required.

But I thought it was.

That's the only reason I joined in the first place. Sheesh!

 

[Laurel]

Re: Re: don't feel too bad Mischka

We all know Laurel has a thing for happy Olympians. Here's a special one just for you Madam:

http://www.louganis.com/images/greg079.jpg

That Greg...he's such a happy guy! He just oozes gaiety, don't you think?

 

[Siren]

hahaha that was funneeeeeeee

 

[Rubyfruit]

First, a side note. Greg used to train his great danes at the same dog club that I belonged to in W.L.A. He got private sessions behind a fence of shrubs. I, however, had to train my dogs out in the open. Never seemed fair to me.

As far as PMs go, unregistered, I get a lot too. Most of them go unanswered and ignored. I'm much more likely to respond if the sender has something more to say than "great tits, can you send me more pics please?"

In other words, don't feel pressured to respond to every fucking asinine PM you get. BUT, don't let the good ones get away.

Ruby

 

[Guru]

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Anyway, I have been around the board for a month or two and in that time I have maybe got 3 or 4 PM's from people I don't know trying to engage in online sex or whatever. Now, I'm not a prude and I love to flirt etc with the best of 'em but I'm not to keen in doing it with someone I don't know.

Fucking hell, I dont get PM's from ANYONE... let alone this online sex stuff.

Am I that scary?

 

[Guru]

 

[Guru]

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Yes Guru, I think I better ask

So, what would you suggest?

"I hear you give great head, wanna prove it on me?"

I guess she wont answer that one either but its always worth a try

 

[Laurel]

You need a handbook that is issued to all new members. Or at the very least, make one up as you go alon...

Oh, I see how it works!

 

[LukkyKnight]

Re: Re: A Question Of Protocol

Fucking hell, I dont get PM's from ANYONE... let alone this online sex stuff.

Am I that scary?

Nah, Chef, you're just not my type.

 

[Guest]

Well..

To anyone who wonders the right way to write someone an private message.


When approaching another human anywhere in real life..

I'm thinking mentioning that you want to see/fondle her tits..won't be getting you any nookie from her..any time soon.

I've received several pm's..

And always from guys whom say something initially that could be said in broad daylight surrounded by church ladies.

On the whole I've never really received anything cheesy, mean or perverted.

It would be great if everybody understood the interaction it takes to get to the stage where you are talking intimately.

It also gives them a change to learn that I’m married and have never been with another man my entire life. But I’m down for friendships that stand upon many levels…waaay before they show me a pic of their cock or something.

I'd love to *out* all the wonderful people..that have been nothing but kind spirited and wonderful to know..

But that's clearly against the rules..
~grins~