A question for the men....

[cheekychic]

In my opinion, it does matter if you're solo or with someone. Another big factor...age.

It takes me a little longer to get hard enough to go again, I'd have to guess at least 15 minutes if my lover either takes me in her mouth or hands. If left to my own with just more foreplay, maybe 30 minutes to an hour. And it also depends on how often you're having sex.

It's one of those things I've come to accept and work around. My lover has no complaints though.

She's a very lucky woman then! I think an "older" man as you refer to has some issues with getting hard again so quickly. You don't seem like the "average" older guy.

Oral always gets my lover hard after he's cum once. )

 

[DrRickMarshall]

Just reading some of the other threads, and wanted to do a little survey.

How quickly can you get hard again after orgasming?

Does it differ if you're having sex, or flying solo?

It usually ranges from just a few minutes to a few seconds, depends on how turned on I am. I'm HUGE on kissing during and after an orgasm and can stay hard as a rock as long as I'm kissing, almost like being multi-orgasmic, but it only seems to work while kissing.

 

[muddafugga]

I don't really know. A couple hours i guess, I can't really tell cause I pass out after... hehe.

But really, depending on the situation, and if she is ready for more, it usually takes a few minutes, all the while I'm keeping her satisfied in other ways

 

[ffdan]

I can stay hard after cumming. However, it takes much longer to cum second, third time. there have been times when i've kept fucking and cum twice, but for most part need a break. The feeling is way too sensitive. But if wife wants it, i'll give her too loads before stopping.

 

[just4friends]

not sure...

Just reading some of the other threads, and wanted to do a little survey.

How quickly can you get hard again after orgasming?

Does it differ if you're having sex, or flying solo?

If you want to help, I'd be happy to experiment!!

If there's pressure to perform it could take longer. If really wonderful technique is used perhaps faster recovery is possible.

Alone... it can happen fast with the right stimulus.

I'd prefer to wait on my orgasm until my partner has has a good number. Perhaps with edging a few times. After I do succomb, I would hope to find activities for keeping her happy that would awaken my desires to please her with my cock again. Would that be so bad? There's the chance that my orgasm would put me off wanting more..... in which case... I'm sure there are ways she could make use of me that would be fun for her..... not that I'd have to be forced to take part in face sitting or pegging..... but my cock would certainly not be the focus for her pleasure with those activities (and I'd certainly be getting back into the mood to return her favors in spades)

 

[chuckhoke]

Just reading some of the other threads, and wanted to do a little survey.

How quickly can you get hard again after orgasming?

Does it differ if you're having sex, or flying solo?

looking at your avatar, i'd bounce back like a racquetball...

 

[TheLM]

looking at your avatar, i'd bounce back like a racquetball...

I was thinking the same thing!

Honestly though, in the times when it's taken me longer if my partner wants to go again i'll happily go down, finger or use toys so it really should be a non-issue if everyone communicates and works around things.

 

[hardguy_ed1984]

If I'm with someone it normally takes no time to get hard again. I'll normally ask her to suck my cock till it's hard again. From there I can last a super long time and I focus on making her very happy till my next orgasm. Also my 2nd orgasms are always far more intense than the first.

I've never really paid much attention to it going solo. It depends on the situation I guess. There have been nights that I'll rub one out, then start doing somthing else for awhile, then get horny again and rub out another one a half hour later.

so there ya go

 

[Salamander10]

5 minutes for sure. Less possibly.

 

[cliteatingman]

Yesterday morning I just continued fucking after cumming. Never got soft!

 

[NiteOwl_]

Just reading some of the other threads, and wanted to do a little survey.

How quickly can you get hard again after orgasming?

Does it differ if you're having sex, or flying solo?

Varies pretty significantly on the circumstances. How many orgasms have I had lately, am I with someone, etc. In general, if I'm with someone, pretty damn quick. After my first orgasm, a couple of minutes at the most, if I even lose it in the first place. Of course, it takes longer from there. By myself, it takes significantly longer. In that case, several minutes is usually the best case scenario.

 

[umbrella75]

On average maybe 2-3 minutes

 

[r_baby]

Well, there are some impressive stories here, and thanks for sharing, you've all done a great job of answering my questions!

 

[Miles Long]

In general, I can get hard again in a couple minutes without any trouble. But there have been some occasions where she had me so turned on that I just stayed hard even after having an orgasm. I was a little freaked out the first time it happened because I didn't realize that was possible. I thought even if you recover quickly you have to go soft and then get hard again. Staying completely hard hasn't happened a lot, but it has happened. And I love to see the look on her face as I stay inside her, fucking her, and she realizes that I had an orgasm and stayed rock hard. It's definitely a testament to how horny she's making me, and probably somewhat a reflection of my blood circulation that day LOL.

 

[GoodOmen]

Like many others have said, it's situational and depends on my level of arousal. Usually when I'm on my own, it's a "one shot" deal. On rare occasions there might be a quick rebound, but not normally. When I'm with a woman, I can be ready within minutes most of the time. An interesting caveat is that I have been able to get hard again more quickly when she talks to me rather than when she touches me. Something about having her breath in my ear telling me how much she wants it again really helps gets me going again.

 

[hatsoff]

For some reason, I can stay hard after I cum. However, the head of my cock does become sensitive. I usually end up slowing down my strokes a little for a minute before I can go back to fucking hard and fast. My last ex loved it because she had this 'milking' fetish. On some weekends, we would have sex until I was only shooting blanks. We went bareback, so all of my cum ended up deep in her pussy. I miss that woman sometimes.

 

[removed021712]

General consensus so far is, it depends who you're with and how hot it is....

Though I know this isn't the case for everyone

I mostly agree with this consensus that it does depend on the situation but, I can say from experience that age also matters. When I was younger, i would frequently come as many as five or more times in a night and my recovery time was almost nothing at all. As I have gotten older and that is simply not possible anymore, three is likely my current limit, I have gotten MUCH better at making each time last. I am now to the point where I can essentially goi for as long as I want (within reason) so, recovery time is less of an issue. However, it is also true that the longer I go, the longer my recovery time. The bright side is that my partner is less likely to need or want a fast recovery if we have already been active for a an extended time. On other occasions when I cum more quickly (never quickly, just more quickly, at this point), I just stay inside, kissing and touching and talking until things come back to life.....You CAN fuck with a semi-hard cock. In fact, I have known women who LOVED "Mr. Softy" inside of them until it stiffened up.

Sorry for the long post. I thought I could say this in 15 words. LOL

 

[RedHeadRedWolf]

Each day is different.

I've been known to explode, stay inside her, and keep going with it almost as hard as before. Other times, I'll take a break — get a drink and a smoke — and return ready to give her more. Sometimes, I'm one and done then replay the session in my mind and relieve myself.

 

[JonDav]

I think it depends mainly on the stimulation available. When with someone who is very hot, horny and turned on it can be just minutes - never just seconds though. When young, I could stay semi hard and carry on fucking after a cum and get hard again, but not now!

 

[QSco]

Does it differ if you're having sex, or flying solo? It does for me.

How quickly can you get hard again after orgasming? During sex I don't necessarily stop being hard in between orgasms. Solo it takes a few minutes, but usually no more than 10 or 15.

 

[XpersiusX]

Directly affected by 2 things:

1. How long, hot, awesome and dirty the sex was that resulted in said sex wee.
2. Hot hot, awesome and dirty the girl is that wants round two.

Best case - 5 mins.
Worst case - next day.

 

[Saucychick]

Like many others have said, it's situational and depends on my level of arousal. Usually when I'm on my own, it's a "one shot" deal. On rare occasions there might be a quick rebound, but not normally. When I'm with a woman, I can be ready within minutes most of the time. An interesting caveat is that I have been able to get hard again more quickly when she talks to me rather than when she touches me. Something about having her breath in my ear telling me how much she wants it again really helps gets me going again.

Hmmm, i've found that too. A good bit of filthy talk works everytime....;0) x

 

[JoeCool001]

I agree with most people on here, it totally depends on the situation, watching the girl pleasure herself usually gets me going again pretty quickly

 

[Miles Long]

We're probably not a very representative sample of society as a whole, though. It sounds like most guys here can have very quick recovery time given the right circumstances, but I'm guessing most guys here also have above average sex drives.

 

[RedheadedHaze]

I just should NOT be reading this thread.

It's way too much of an instigator in my mind.