A Question for Doms?

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Doms, what do you like to see your subs wearing---when you are in public together... Do like stockings or bare legs, and what are your thoughts on panties....to wear or not to wear???
 
I actually like women in general who dress fairly conservative.

For whatever reason, I'm partial to one piece sundresses. Overall Skirts will always look nicer than pants. Stockings always make all but the most perfect legs look smoother and nicer.

As for panties or not, I'd have to go with panties for everyday use, but pantyless once in a while. I feel that if you do anything all the time, that becomes the norm and looses something.
 
Do quasi-lesbo femdoms count?

I like to see things that really feel quintissentially "that person" to me and then fuck with them. Making a butch wear pink panties under her dickies is as much fun as doing the same to a guy. Even something that subtle on a not especially butch/not especially femme jeans wearing casual-mostly girl can be pushing a button.

I like panties, no-panties under a skirt just seemed trashy to me whereas a pair of panties that says "porn star" or "meow" or "angel" is slutty.

Making a femme pack under her dress can be hot, embarrassing, and lewd.

I like the neck bare, accessible, collarbones out.
 
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Netzach said:
Do quasi-lesbo femdoms count?

I like to see things that really feel quintissentially "that person" to me and then fuck with them. Making a butch wear pink panties under her dickies is as much fun as doing the same to a guy. Even something that subtle on a not especially butch/not especially femme jeans wearing casual-mostly girl can be pushing a button.

I like panties, no-panties under a skirt just seemed trashy to me whereas a pair of panties that says "porn star" or "meow" or "angel" is slutty.

Making a femme pack under her dress can be hot, embarrassing, and lewd.

I like the neck bare, accessible, collarbones out.


I had to comment ont he slogan panties.. i keep hoping t-shirt hell would make panties or pants or something that say "fatass" or "i like it here." or something otherwise horribly lude and mocking...
I'm a cynic sometimes.
 
Sir's Plaything said:
Doms, what do you like to see your subs wearing---when you are in public together... Do like stockings or bare legs, and what are your thoughts on panties....to wear or not to wear???

Generally I like a woman "dressed for display". In public, toned down, sure. But showing off legs, high heels (they do great things for legs), short skirts with no panties (so easily accessable), plenty of clevage.

Of course, there's this thing called "winter" that often interferes with my nefarious little plans. But generally with a submissive, I make it a rule for her to be accessable at all times.
 
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FungiUg said:
... Of course, there's this thing called "winter" that often interferes with my nefarious little plans. But generally with a submissive, I make it a rule for her to be accessable at all times.

LOL

I love those Dom-ly thoughts of yours.
 
LOL!!!! I think Fungi and Sir have some things in common.......even as I type I am begging for a little more "warming up" time before we do the ---skirt and no panties thing---. In the summer it is my favorite task!!
 
Well, stockings are a kind of requirement for winter here... and we don't even get snow!
 
Originally posted by Sir's Plaything
Doms, what do you like to see your subs wearing---when you are in public together... Anything sexy so long as she is covered.

Do like stockings or bare legs, I prefer bare but it really depends on the mood. The tantalizing delay of having to take off the stockings can be exciting.

and what are your thoughts on panties....to wear or not to wear??? Around the house, none. Sometimes when we go out to dinner, a movie, or a trip.
 
To the no panties or pants ever people...

are your subs all post menopausal?

Because I like clean upholstery, to be totally rude and blunt.
 
Those times are given some latitude. Either those times are skipped or a nice thick towel(s) are good to use. Yes, at those times it depends on the situation.
 
Netzach said:
To the no panties or pants ever people...

are your subs all post menopausal?

Because I like clean upholstery, to be totally rude and blunt.

As do I. I generally make it a rule that ALL other rules go out the window during a woman's period as well -- kind of "time out". Real life tends to have a direct impact on what is practical and what is not.
 
Stockings.. no.. Unless they're thigh highs.. (being I love to wear them myself when going out to the bars or club).. Bare skin makes most women I know feel nakid even if they are wearing panties. Though the exception is to wear stockings of any shape under plain old jeans. One just can't escape the fact that they are there even if everyone else can't see them.

Skirts are always adored.. I'm not fond of tight short lil' numbers. lets be honest most women can't pull it off and still look.. "attractive".. it leans more towards slutty.. Though nothing catches my eye like a slightly hiked skirt with thigh highs and garters peaking out.. panties or no panties underneath.

And of course heels.. Partial to leather knee highs myself with a pointed toe and stilleto heel.

Though in the end it's not so much what they are wearing.. but how they wear it.. a woman who's slightly uncomfortable in her dress but looks sexy or as I like to put it "Kittenish" can be a myrid of things from low slung jeans that show off a nice tummy.. a skirt that flatters her legs.. or a shirt that shows just enough to show off a nice set of tits..

It all boils down to what my sub 'n I are doing.. or where we're going.. When I go to a club or bar I enjoy my sub being the center of attention by the males and the females jelouse.

But of course my greatest delight is in the dressing up of both sides.:devil:

For me it's all about strutting the line of being Sexy and Trashy.

when I'm sub.. Well nothing gets me more riled up then wearing stockings..garter and corset underneath well worn jeans and a plain old tee-shirt. And of course a short skirt with no panties.. He use to enjoy unwrapping me after telling me to dress sexy under plain clothes...Nice surprize..
 
As far as everyday life, most of the time I have no opinion and she should dress functionally as appropriate for the occasion. Count me as someone who is not too concerned about what a woman wears in public.

Thinking back over past partners, I see a succession of women with a conservative exterior who conducted themselves otherwise in private. I am not much of an exhibitionist so I do not get excited by panties vs. no panties. Yes, sometimes I make special requests but that sort of stuff stays in the privacy of a bedroom.
 
Some great and interesting contributions! Its always interesting to find out what turns people on.

I never thought of wearing stockings,etc. under jeans--that sounds uncomfortable to me.

Stockings and high heels seem to win out---but how to tread the line and be sexy but definitely NOT slutty?
 
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