A quandary

[Dapperguy]

How do you break the will of a stubborn submissive who still displays autonomous and critical thinking? I think I've tried everything, but nothing seems to work. Do you have any tips, hints or strategies? Any help would be gratefully received.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

Sadly, in a normal (Safe, Sane, Consensual) relationship, there is no way to compel a sub to do anything. One can lead, direct, guide, encourage, but not compel. Regrettably, if they ain't into what you're selling, then it might be time to move on. Sorry.

 

[jehoram]

Try posting the question in the BDSM forum. You'll probably get better answers from them.

 

[Lady2020]

I'm not sure if breaking the will of anyone is the optimal way to look at things. Unless that is what you and your sub expressly agreed to.

 

[lil_jenni]

How do you break the will of a stubborn submissive who still displays autonomous and critical thinking? I think I've tried everything, but nothing seems to work. Do you have any tips, hints or strategies? Any help would be gratefully received.

I'm a submissive. If anyone ever tried to "break" me of my intelligence and my humanity, I would do whatever I could to make it take everything they had so we were both left broken. But the right Dom/Domme would have me subverting myself to earn just a little praise or avoid even the most minor displeasure/punishment. That's the key for many subs -- you have to lead them to want to give you everything they have and are.

Unless of course your sub wants to be broken. Then just map out the limits first and work within them. For me, edging me and then denying me orgasm over and over will have me begging to serve. Someone else may prefer pain. So, find out limits and likes/dislikes before committing to a course of action.

 

[lil_jenni]

I imagine I would grow bored pretty quickly if I had a totally obedient sub, I'm happy if she does what she is told about half of the time

I used to like trying to be totally obedient, but it never worked. I have accepted since that I have a real bratty streak.

 

[SissySalina]

How do you break the will of a stubborn submissive who still displays autonomous and critical thinking? I think I've tried everything, but nothing seems to work. Do you have any tips, hints or strategies? Any help would be gratefully received.

Are you asking about "will" or about "autonomous and critical thinking"? A big part of "will" is survival instinct built into a person where "thinking" is a learned trait. You can modify the thinking called brain washing which is replacing one learned thing for another. The will goes much deeper and is reactions not just learned things but instinct which is absorbed over a life time.

A sissy's opinion.

 

[ericalauren]

My understanding of BDSM is that it must be consensual and that it is supposed to be fun. Breaking someone's will is unethical. Also, it doesn't sound fun for anyone involved, anyway.

 

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

My understanding of BDSM is that it must be consensual and that it is supposed to be fun. Breaking someone's will is unethical. Also, it doesn't sound fun for anyone involved, anyway.

Yeah I'm pretty sure people like this end up on the news eventually with the lady from next door telling the 6 o'clock anchor that "He always seemed kind of strange. But when we heard the screaming from the basement window we had to call the cops"

Seriously creepy vibe just reading this dude's post

 

[ToPleaseHim]

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Right, you fuckpig, get your pussy out and start finger fucking it, you're just a pustule of purified semen. If I get you your humiliation will be apocalyptic. Remember, you're just meat with three functioning holes, one of which is a stinking rotten semen dump and the other is a semen repository. PM now!

Here’s a shining example of this guy’s “domliness.” This is not directed at a person who has consented to this from him. This is his tantrum in a personal ad because she didn’t select him and send him a PM. Oh, he’s so very domly, the domliest.

There’s a reason he doesn’t post threads like this one in the BDSM Forum.

 

[KatieDoes]

You’re not a Dom. You’re a dumbass.

Get help, and leave women alone.

ForFuckSake