A friend asked this question....

[KRCummings]

Some days you're off, some days you're on.

Today you're on like parmesan.

Yeah, I hate to admit it but he's right. We save that shit like gold.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

Not every woman racks up everything wrong her partner did to use against him. Personally, I have learnt that doing that to my husband just makes him feel like shit and I really don't like making him feel like shit.

To the question at hand, I can't think of anything that my husband could do that would make me leave instantly. I know he would never physically harm me. If he cheated, I'd want to work on the relationship and find out why. He's a good husband, good father, and my best friend. I can't see me leaving.

 

[gardenia19]

See? That's the sort of thing that really pisses me off!

I see what you did there. Har har har. =p

 

[unregistered]

 

[warrior queen]

I've had shit come back to me that happened 10, 12 years before. And of course don't remember one damned thing, but she can detail the day, time, weather during the event, and what the fuck I was wearing.


Christ.

I don't get this.
Once something haa happened/been done, I deal with it and move on.
And by 'deal with it', I mean I decide right there and then if I need to say somethimg, I ignore it, or I need to do something.
I don't keep on about things because it's a wasted emotion/effort to go back and rehash something that's in the past.
Tomorrow is always a great day

 

[tactful]

I've had shit come back to me that happened 10, 12 years before. And of course don't remember one damned thing, but she can detail the day, time, weather during the event, and what the fuck I was wearing.


Christ.

Women, one must choose their words very carefully around them, especially if you're going to be around them for a very long time,

Note: some guy said that a long time ago, I think his name was Adam.

 

[KRCummings]

I don't get this.
Once something haa happened/been done, I deal with it and move on.
And by 'deal with it', I mean I decide right there and then if I need to say somethimg, I ignore it, or I need to do something.
I don't keep on about things because it's a wasted emotion/effort to go back and rehash something that's in the past.
Tomorrow is always a great day

 

[unregistered]

 

[CHNOPS]

I don't get this.
Once something haa happened/been done, I deal with it and move on.
And by 'deal with it', I mean I decide right there and then if I need to say somethimg, I ignore it, or I need to do something.
I don't keep on about things because it's a wasted emotion/effort to go back and rehash something that's in the past.
Tomorrow is always a great day

How's the bastardex?

 

[Disgustipated]

How's the bastardex?

[RobMode]

But that's different!

[/RobMode]

 

[warrior queen]

You will note, I didn't say I don't do this outside my relationship

 

[warrior queen]

How's the bastardex?

Still alive, sadly. I thought the US, and especially Chicago, had uncontrollable.gun/knife crime?

But to answer your question.... much like KRCunt, the bastardex does the wrong thing constantly, and my response to him is not the 'ignore it' one.
And you see the letters E and X after his name? Quite obviously, I am not in a relationship with him
Having said that - when I was with him, I never brought old shit up either. It's only since we split up and he turned into a wanker who continuously hurts our children.
I'd say he deserves it.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

...but can't remember that she fucked up two weeks ago.

That presupposes she fucked up to begin with. Women don't fart, and they don't fuck up.