A few pointers.. er I need some, rather.
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Red Menace
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Hello and welcome to the Forum, Gorath.
There's a ton of good threads and links and links to links in the library thingie at the top of the page. That's probably the best place to start...
There's a ton of good threads and links and links to links in the library thingie at the top of the page. That's probably the best place to start...
Red Menace
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lovetoread
hello daddy
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Rednecks are not a bad thing.
Thankyouverymuch.
Welcome.
Thankyouverymuch.
Welcome.
H piltdown
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Hi Gorath.
How serious are you?
You said that you are a sub. Does that mean that you are only interested in being a sexual bottom, or do you fantasize about being trained by a Dom/me, and serving? Are you interested in bondage, and/or do you have a tendency toward masochism? Or, are you just into role play online?
I really don't want to know the answers, but you must know. If you are sure that you want to play, go to the following web sight, and read all you can. Then, think about what you want, again.
http://www.sexuality.org/bdsm.html
Plus, do a web search for more informative sites.
If you're still interested. Get in touch with real lifestyle people. Try to get involved with the BDSM community. Attend a couple of munches. Maybe do a party. here's some clubs in Ga.
http://www.steelskys.com/tndrsurrender/Georgia.htm
http://www.fetishscene.com/fetishscene/
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/Resources/bdsm_orgs_.htm
Remember, if you are serious, always be open, honest and respectful. If you are, even though male subs are common in the club scene, you will get noticed. Plus, remember that many of us have experienced everything from simple intolerance from assholes in the scene, to real legal problems involving police. So, if some people don't trust you right away, there's probably a damned good reason.
You may have to drive a ways to attend an interview, a munch or a party. Nobody advertises the location of a lifestyle club. You must be invited, after you've properly introduced yourself.
Finally, if you think BDSM is an easy way to get laid--Don't count on it! You'd be lucky to be allowed to masterbate when you get home! In other words, if you want to be a sub, be prepared to serve - completely.
How serious are you?
You said that you are a sub. Does that mean that you are only interested in being a sexual bottom, or do you fantasize about being trained by a Dom/me, and serving? Are you interested in bondage, and/or do you have a tendency toward masochism? Or, are you just into role play online?
I really don't want to know the answers, but you must know. If you are sure that you want to play, go to the following web sight, and read all you can. Then, think about what you want, again.
http://www.sexuality.org/bdsm.html
Plus, do a web search for more informative sites.
If you're still interested. Get in touch with real lifestyle people. Try to get involved with the BDSM community. Attend a couple of munches. Maybe do a party. here's some clubs in Ga.
http://www.steelskys.com/tndrsurrender/Georgia.htm
http://www.fetishscene.com/fetishscene/
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/Resources/bdsm_orgs_.htm
Remember, if you are serious, always be open, honest and respectful. If you are, even though male subs are common in the club scene, you will get noticed. Plus, remember that many of us have experienced everything from simple intolerance from assholes in the scene, to real legal problems involving police. So, if some people don't trust you right away, there's probably a damned good reason.
You may have to drive a ways to attend an interview, a munch or a party. Nobody advertises the location of a lifestyle club. You must be invited, after you've properly introduced yourself.
Finally, if you think BDSM is an easy way to get laid--Don't count on it! You'd be lucky to be allowed to masterbate when you get home! In other words, if you want to be a sub, be prepared to serve - completely.
In response, thank you, for sending me those links
Very, very serious. Thank you alot for those links. They are going to help me alot!
lol.. would like to squeel like a piggy for someone.. nobody, to my knowledge, with interest way out here lol
Very, very serious. Thank you alot for those links. They are going to help me alot!
lol.. would like to squeel like a piggy for someone.. nobody, to my knowledge, with interest way out here lol
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H piltdown
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Oh, Eb. You seem to be a lady that knows what she wants, and how to take it. You make me consider stepping over into permanent sub status. I like your confidence....
