A Dom learning how to cry.

[Snoozebutton2]

I have been in a poly relationship with two of the most wonderful women in the world. Before I was with them I hadn't cried in over a decade. They have opened my heart and allowed me to feel inside. It still is difficult as when I do cry it's like a river trying to squeeze through a garden hose. To be able to share my pain with them is something I never realized would bring such closeness. I still have times where I feel ashamed that I'm not the solid rock that never shows his pain. I guess I started this for two reasons, one to thank my ladies for making me whole and another to just say I know it's nothing to be ashamed of and would tell the world if I had the chance. And the old saying is true sharing a good cry makes you feel so much better.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I have been in a poly relationship with two of the most wonderful women in the world. Before I was with them I hadn't cried in over a decade. They have opened my heart and allowed me to feel inside. It still is difficult as when I do cry it's like a river trying to squeeze through a garden hose. To be able to share my pain with them is something I never realized would bring such closeness. I still have times where I feel ashamed that I'm not the solid rock that never shows his pain. I guess I started this for two reasons, one to thank my ladies for making me whole and another to just say I know it's nothing to be ashamed of and would tell the world if I had the chance. And the old saying is true sharing a good cry makes you feel so much better.

I *heart* you... you big ol' lug you!

 

[Snoozebutton2]

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I *heart* you... you big ol' lug you!

Thanks I still have a long way to go. I've been told I went from a stern Dom barking orders to a gentle calmness that just eases into it. I know a lot of new people read here so just wanted to share and as I'm told, "I'ts ok to cry and be human."

 

[morninggirl5]

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I *heart* you... you big ol' lug you!

Someone help me out here. What can you say when she's already said it perfectly.




Snooze, you are one of a kind wonderful.

 

[redelicious]

I have been in a poly relationship with two of the most wonderful women in the world. Before I was with them I hadn't cried in over a decade. They have opened my heart and allowed me to feel inside. It still is difficult as when I do cry it's like a river trying to squeeze through a garden hose. To be able to share my pain with them is something I never realized would bring such closeness. I still have times where I feel ashamed that I'm not the solid rock that never shows his pain. I guess I started this for two reasons, one to thank my ladies for making me whole and another to just say I know it's nothing to be ashamed of and would tell the world if I had the chance. And the old saying is true sharing a good cry makes you feel so much better.

Those are some lucky ladies, I think.

And on a personal note, it's been really wonderful to see you grow and your relationships grow.

 

[Netzach]

Now this is a post that takes balls, and thank you for posting it.

I definitely agree that having a pet is the most enriching educational experience I've ever had.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

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Someone help me out here. What can you say when she's already said it perfectly.




Snooze, you are one of a kind wonderful.

Easy when surrounded by great people. I just listen and care.

 

[A Desert Rose]

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Someone help me out here. What can you say when she's already said it perfectly.




Snooze, you are one of a kind wonderful.

I don't know MG... you said it pretty darned better.

He is a true treasure.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

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Those are some lucky ladies, I think.

And on a personal note, it's been really wonderful to see you grow and your relationships grow.

I have had many to help me along the way. Thanks Red.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Now this is a post that takes balls, and thank you for posting it.

I definitely agree that having a pet is the most enriching educational experience I've ever had.

It was easy to say as was the truth.

 

[WriterDom]

I cried over the 95 Masters. The year Crenshaw flew back to Texas to serve as pallbearer for Harvey Penick, his lifelong friend and mentor, the day before the tournament, then back to Georgia to win the thing. Remember that rose?

 

[A Desert Rose]

I cried over the 95 Masters. The year Crenshaw flew back to Texas to serve as pallbearer for Harvey Penick, his lifelong friend and mentor, the day before the tournament, then back to Georgia to win the thing. Remember that rose?

Oh do I ever... and we both cried when Payne died. Didn't we?

 

[Snoozebutton2]

I cried over the 95 Masters. The year Crenshaw flew back to Texas to serve as pallbearer for Harvey Penick, his lifelong friend and mentor, the day before the tournament, then back to Georgia to win the thing. Remember that rose?

Haven't felt that strongly about sports yet but the Cowboys haven't been to the Superbowl in a while.

 

[Desdemona]

I have been in a poly relationship with two of the most wonderful women in the world. Before I was with them I hadn't cried in over a decade. They have opened my heart and allowed me to feel inside. It still is difficult as when I do cry it's like a river trying to squeeze through a garden hose. To be able to share my pain with them is something I never realized would bring such closeness. I still have times where I feel ashamed that I'm not the solid rock that never shows his pain. I guess I started this for two reasons, one to thank my ladies for making me whole and another to just say I know it's nothing to be ashamed of and would tell the world if I had the chance. And the old saying is true sharing a good cry makes you feel so much better.

All I can say is it is a true honor to be allowed in so close and to share so much. Watching you open up has been an amazing experience. The healing goes both ways. I will never be able to adequately express my thanks for how much you've taught me and helped me to overcome my own issues. I admire your tenderness as well as your strength.

I think sometimes it's good to remind each other that there can be more to a D/s relationship than kinky sex and power exchange (although that in itself is delicious).

 

[A Desert Rose]

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... I think sometimes it's good to remind each other that there can be more to a D/s relationship than kinky sex and power exchange (although that in itself is delicious).

Ahhh shit.... say it ain't so.

 

[WriterDom]

Oh do I ever... and we both cried when Payne died. Didn't we?

Yes, thought about him today as well.

 

[Caitlynne]

I have been in a poly relationship with two of the most wonderful women in the world. Before I was with them I hadn't cried in over a decade. They have opened my heart and allowed me to feel inside. It still is difficult as when I do cry it's like a river trying to squeeze through a garden hose. To be able to share my pain with them is something I never realized would bring such closeness. I still have times where I feel ashamed that I'm not the solid rock that never shows his pain. I guess I started this for two reasons, one to thank my ladies for making me whole and another to just say I know it's nothing to be ashamed of and would tell the world if I had the chance. And the old saying is true sharing a good cry makes you feel so much better.

Snooze, you are one of the BEST!!! I'm so glad to hear of your discoveries and your personal growth. How lucky your girls are to have a Master that grows as they do.

Oh, and I've missed you!

~ Cait

 

[Snoozebutton2]

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All I can say is it is a true honor to be allowed in so close and to share so much. Watching you open up has been an amazing experience. The healing goes both ways. I will never be able to adequately express my thanks for how much you've taught me and helped me to overcome my own issues. I admire your tenderness as well as your strength.

I think sometimes it's good to remind each other that there can be more to a D/s relationship than kinky sex and power exchange (although that in itself is delicious).

By infusing all that's given in submission, I've found there is strenght in weakness. Truly seeing and feeling anothers fears and making them real allows us to truly join and work through the problems together.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

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Snooze, you are one of the BEST!!! I'm so glad to hear of your discoveries and your personal growth. How lucky your girls are to have a Master that grows as they do.

Oh, and I've missed you!

~ Cait

Well as I remember you are part of a wonderful pair . It will always be my goal to shape our lives to be the best we can be for one another. And you have been missed as well. And love that AV. Purrrrr Purrr Purrr

 

[fallon2]

Finally! I am so glad to hear "that a stern dom has gone from barking orders to a gentle calmness" since I believe that it makes the relationship even better with the sub. I also think that when a sub cries at the hands of the Master that a good Master will comfort the sub and then resume the activities unless the safe word is given.

I have this friend who is extremely curious and she asked me something extremely personal. It was extremely HARD as it has been something I have kept close to the vest for many, many years.

I have never shared it with any sub until now. Yet, I wanted her to know for it was something I had been wanting to share with her. There's more that I will eventually share with her down the road.

 

[FungiUg]

I think the perception that Doms must be rock and emotion-less is a sad misconception. The more human a Dom can be, the better. And what keeps any relationship alive and well long-term is love... so it's great to see you can express that.

Well done Snooze. I'm proud of ya.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Finally! I am so glad to hear "that a stern dom has gone from barking orders to a gentle calmness" since I believe that it makes the relationship even better with the sub. I also think that when a sub cries at the hands of the Master that a good Master will comfort the sub and then resume the activities unless the safe word is given.

I have this friend who is extremely curious and she asked me something extremely personal. It was extremely HARD as it has been something I have kept close to the vest for many, many years.

I have never shared it with any sub until now. Yet, I wanted her to know for it was something I had been wanting to share with her. There's more that I will eventually share with her down the road.

Thank you I just have to add that I did stop a scene because she cried and found it made worse your right slow scence down and make sure but don't totally stop learned the hard way.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

I think the perception that Doms must be rock and emotion-less is a sad misconception. The more human a Dom can be, the better. And what keeps any relationship alive and well long-term is love... so it's great to see you can express that.

Well done Snooze. I'm proud of ya.

Thank You Fungi, that is very high praise from someone I respect and admire.

 

[dragonlace]

I have been in a poly relationship with two of the most wonderful women in the world. Before I was with them I hadn't cried in over a decade. They have opened my heart and allowed me to feel inside. It still is difficult as when I do cry it's like a river trying to squeeze through a garden hose. To be able to share my pain with them is something I never realized would bring such closeness. I still have times where I feel ashamed that I'm not the solid rock that never shows his pain. I guess I started this for two reasons, one to thank my ladies for making me whole and another to just say I know it's nothing to be ashamed of and would tell the world if I had the chance. And the old saying is true sharing a good cry makes you feel so much better.

Thank You

I feel so priviledged just being able to be a part of your life, and sharing it with you. Everytime you share even the simplest of things i feel so much closer to you and, in turn, you have helped me to open up when i never thought i would. Just your openness and honesty makes me strive to open up and not hide myself from you for i want you to know everything about me and not hold back. You allow me to be me and guide me with your love, and I just hope to return it every chance i get.Your love is a gift i treasure and without it i would be lost.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

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Thank You

I feel so priviledged just being able to be a part of your life, and sharing it with you. Everytime you share even the simplest of things i feel so much closer to you and, in turn, you have helped me to open up when i never thought i would. Just your openness and honesty makes me strive to open up and not hide myself from you for i want you to know everything about me and not hold back. You allow me to be me and guide me with your love, and I just hope to return it every chance i get.Your love is a gift i treasure and without it i would be lost.

I'm a wanderer who found his path, though difficult I have strenght from the love that surrounds me.