A different threesome question

[averageguy]

Hi,
I have been asked to participate in a threesome with a friend and her husband. They have done this a couple of times before and want me to try it with them.
I am keen, but I was wondering what the "rules" were, of if anyone had any specific advice for a first timer.
Thanks,
Average.

 

[SilverVeil]

I don't know about "rules" per se... but on thing you might want to remember first and foremost is .... communication. If you are new to something make sure your partner/s know and are patient with you.

In a presetting if possible, meet for drinks and converstion. Let them know what you like and what you would be uncomfortable with, and try and learn the same about them.

Clearing the air in this way may help pave the way to a fantastic time for all of you.

But, even so... something may come up while ya'll are playing together that you THOUGHT you would be okay with, but when faced with the actual reality of it, you have second thoughts.

It happens to a lot of people. But don't be shy. Honesty is the best policy to go with.

I had tons of fun when I had one. I hope it is as much fun for you and your friends.

 

[alltherage]

Make sure you know the forest your walking in before you hit the trail.

 

[SlyFox]

Hi,
I have been asked to participate in a threesome with a friend and her husband. They have done this a couple of times before and want me to try it with them.
I am keen, but I was wondering what the "rules" were, of if anyone had any specific advice for a first timer.
Thanks,
Average.

Hey Average,

My wife and I have enjoyed numerous [no brag, just fact ] threesomes with both males and females. Almost all of these have been with people we were long time friends with before we ever knew they were "willing" and, in fact, eager to "play" too. It is, by far, our favorite "alternative" pasttime . The only "rule" we have ever acknowledged is that no one is ever "left out" of the activity. That is, if it is another guy we are playing with, I don't get left just watching on the sidelines, (although that can be fun at times too ). It helps that both of us are bi-sexual to some extent, so it doesn't matter too much what gender our "playmate" might be... As long as everyone knows this fact and is comfortable with it.

The "signature" below kind of says it all...

SlyFox

 

[averageguy]

Thanks

Thanks to all who replied.
I'll try to let you know how I go.
Regards,
AverageGuy