A Cry For Help: I Need Someone To Care...Now...before it's too late (not a joke)

[tonitits]

Dragonheart _ I don't really know you, but I have been there. A very long time ago now. And I felt that life was not worth living and that noone cared about me. But I hung in there. I had to because I did not want to hurt my family. I just kind of wander around...going from one man to another, not really wanting any kind of relationship. I could not let them get near me or have feelings for them. Then later I had my son, I had to live and be strong for him...to take care of him. I am not saying that it will be easy, but hang in there sweetie. And like some have told you and I was told the same thing...noone can love you, until you love yourself. It took me years and I needed alot of affirmation, but I started to see some things that I did well, and that maybe I really was lovable. Give yourself time, but let yourself love and be loved. I lost alot, I am talking many, many years that I could have been loved but would not allow it. Now I am happy and am allowing myself to love again and be loved. And it is a much better place to be. Not only was I alone, I was lonely, but I did not realize it. But through some really great friends and lovers I now do. There are a lot of great people here that will be there for you, to help you through this time. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. I hope you find happiness and love, if that is what you want, very soon. Hang in there sweetie!

 

[Harmless Pig]

DH,x12

My heart goes out to you. I too, have been there.
But try to remember, you have others who care very deeply for you. Children, and friends here. I've never had the pleasure of talking with you, (yet), but I still care.

When I went through it, I thought of ending it. I'm glad I didn't. My brother did, 3 years ago. It devastated everyone who cared about him. I would never want to put anybody through what I went through.

Please, hang in there, we care!
-Jay

PM me if you'd like.

 

[double16in]

DH...while we have never met, nor chatted here either, I've read many of your postings and have come to know you a little bit. Many of your friends who have posted here have hit the nail on the head, so I won't repeat the obvious.

I, too, have been through several situations such as you describe. I found, though, that by letting my desire for the other person overwhelm me, I lost sight of those subtle things that were toxic to the relationship...and they weren't all my fault, even though I blamed myself for poisoning the relationship at the time. In truth, no two people are a perfect match...there is always something about the other person that the other just doesn't like...it boils down to whether the positives outweigh the negatives, and then, if one can live with the negatives of the other. Perhaps he cannot see you for the positives without coloring his vision with the negatives, if that is the case, you're wasting your time.

You are obviously a good person, and that is something to be proud of. All good people have dark moments, but it takes a strong person to accept and love a person in the midst of their darkest moments.

I wish you the best in working your way through this and if I can help, please PM me here or IM me on yahoo.

 

[~Dream~]

dRAGONHEART

i WISH You peace love and happiness babe , all thee things and more , you will findyour Mr . right I have faith sweety

 

[dragonhearted]

DH,x12

My heart goes out to you. I too, have been there.
But try to remember, you have others who care very deeply for you. Children, and friends here. I've never had the pleasure of talking with you, (yet), but I still care.

When I went through it, I thought of ending it. I'm glad I didn't. My brother did, 3 years ago. It devastated everyone who cared about him. I would never want to put anybody through what I went through.

Please, hang in there, we care!
-Jay

PM me if you'd like.

Thank you Jay....and everyone....for your continued support!

Jay? the body of a god? Y'know...I always liked Buddha!

 

[STUDDOG]

GOOD MORNING

Just wanted to say hi Dragonhearted and wish you a wonderful
day.....keep smiling my friend

May the sun shine, all day long,
everything go right, and nothing wrong.
May those you love bring love back to you,
and may all the wishes you wish come true!

Studdog

 

[RAW1966]

Keep your chin up

HI DRAGON HEARTED KEEP YOUR CHIN UP AND ROLL WITH THE PUNCHES AND THINGS WILL GET BETTER



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