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[marriedman1973]

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[LittleSparks]

What are some examples of this? It's kind of hard to imagine exactly what you're talking about since what you wrote is so incredibly broad.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Your *sister-in-law.* Do you have an open/poly relationship with your wife (or if it's your brother's wife, your brother?) Or incredibly open communication between you and one of these others? Or just a lot of incredibly horny daydreams?

ETA: Okay, maybe that response is just a weeee bit snarky, but given the tone and lack of explication/detail/information in the OP, I can hardly blame myself for it, yanno?

 

[LittleSparks]

Glad Sir Winston beat me to the punch there. I have to say, you really have to be careful with this sort of thing. Marriedman, have you brought up your fantasies with your wife at all? It's possible she'd be open to trying some things with you.

With regard to the whole "challenges" business, master loves to play with me like that sometimes. But mostly it's just teasing. He'll make me lift up my dress for him in a semi-public place, or tell me to sit on his lap and rest up if I'm looking tired. But that's more day-to-day normal stuff for us. Otherwise I don't really get instructions per se. Or at least I don't think of it that way...

 

[knot_sweet]

You could start introducing things like a self tied rope chastity belt under the clothes, ben wa balls (or for a slightly more public experience, the very small balls with chimes in them used for meditation), read an erotic book at a cafe, masturbation in a public toilet...

There are a range of options only limited by your own creativity.


Regards the relationship issues:

If you didn't think you were doing anything wrong, both your spouse and her spouse would know about all this secret activity.
The fact is, she's getting off on stimulation provided by you instead of her husband.
Now I don't have the same problem with this that a lot of people here might have. I've been involved with married men before and as long as certain boundaries are never crossed, his relationship is essentially none of my business.
Your situation is complicated by the family relationship you share so...
in the interest of better marriages to people you both made certain promises to and not hurting your families, perhaps you should both try approaching your S.O.s to fulfill your respective needs.

Wouldn't it be hotter for you, knowing it was your wife getting turned on by you, then coming home to reap the rewards??

Just a thought...

 

[VladHarkonnen]

I'm sure I could come up with plenty of suggestions but the thought of contributing to something so potentially destructive kinda skeeves me out.

 

[loneranger8921]

You are walking a fine line with the game you are playing. It could end both of you in divorce court if caught fair warning.

 

[Stella_Omega]

folks, really. These people aren't asking for permission in any way-- or opinions on the morals of the marital situation.

I would like to hear more suggestions. Say-- it's for me, to give my girlfriend that lives half a continent away and is in no way
related to me by blood or by law.

(I love the idea of telling her to pee a tiny bit. I find i'm getting more and more into piss play all the time... something I would never have expected of myself, which just goes to show)

 

[knot_sweet]

Other suggestions include: Have her wear a shortish skirt, stockings, suspenders and no knickers and occasionally flash random guys on public transport. "Accidentally" stumble into a guy on the train or bus, giving him a face full of cleavage. If it's warm enough, go to a nude beach. Tell her to make an appointment with a male obgyn. Have her wear a very small art clip on her clit while she's out. Tell her to go to an adult cinema and watch a film (go in after her and sit behind her, out of sight if you're concerned about safety). Heck, something simple like wink at the cute barista might be enough.

As I said before, the options are only limited by your imagination.

ETA: a personal favourite of mine... Get her to dab her own pussy juice wherever she normally puts her perfume and go to work / out. Makes for some interesting reactions.

 

[RawHumor]

Yes, there are lots of possibilities.

• Small strip of sand paper in her panties to keep her from getting too comfy all day
• The old "Two Moon Junction" trick - have her dab some dark red lipstick on her nipples and go bra-less.
• Similarly, she must tweak or tease her nipples periodically throughout the day to keep them at attention
• Slide her hand down her panties and taste her arousal a few times through the day... knowing she's "on task" should help keep her motor running