7th space

[Red Menace]

Has anyone heard of 7th space or energy play? Sir has been what he calls a 7th space player for almost 20 years but hasn't been able to clearly define it for me. I did a search on the net and couldn't find anything. He describes it as a way to channel energy to create a strong bond between Dom and sub to facilitate communication, heighten awareness and increase sensation. A lot of it seems to center around mutual meditation, voice and touch.

Has anyone heard of this and can anyone explain what it is?

 

[artful]

Has anyone heard of this and can anyone explain what it is?

I haven't heard of it,...but I would be very interested in what it is about. Maybe Risia, or someone else is familiar with it. I will be reading this thread with an avid interest,...thanks for posting it.

 

[Merelan]

You hit a button in my head and I dug.
I believe, but could be wrong this is possibly what he means....

http://www.7thdimensionthinking.com/


somewhere in my distant past I remember something about it. Hope it helps. I realize the site isn't geared to sex, but you can see where it could lead to that. Especially the "clear yourself of past prejudice and such".

 

[artful]

Merelan

You hit a button in my head and I dug.
I believe, but could be wrong this is possibly what he means....
http://www.7thdimensionthinking.com/
somewhere in my distant past I remember something about it. Hope it helps. I realize the site isn't geared to sex, but you can see where it could lead to that. Especially the "clear yourself of past prejudice and such".

Never-the-less,...an awesome site,...thanks for the link Merelan-

 

[Rocket88]

Please don't be offended, but if there is a concept regarding sex and you can't find anything about it on the web, it sounds specious to me. Combine that with the fact that he mysteriously can't explain it and my bullshit meter is in the red.

If someone is that in tune with a practice they will know something about it, if nothing more than the method used to teach them. Can you think of anything you learned that you don't know how to explain it?

Again, I must call wacky-doo on this one.

Yes, I made that word up just for your thread.

Sounds like he's inventing something. And good for him. Just don't try to call it his "ancient Chinese secret."

 

[Red Menace]

Thank you for the link, Merelan. That's some good reading but not quite what I'm looking for.

Please don't be offended, but if there is a concept regarding sex and you can't find anything about it on the web, it sounds specious to me. Combine that with the fact that he mysteriously can't explain it and my bullshit meter is in the red.

If someone is that in tune with a practice they will know something about it, if nothing more than the method used to teach them. Can you think of anything you learned that you don't know how to explain it?

Again, I must call wacky-doo on this one.

Yes, I made that word up just for your thread.

Sounds like he's inventing something. And good for him. Just don't try to call it his "ancient Chinese secret."

I appreciate the warning, Rocket, but maybe I didn't explain myself quite right... It's not so much that He can't explain it, as I don't understand the explaination. He actually did give me a long dissertation on the subject, most of which went over my head. Something to do with Chakras, I think.

lol at the ancient Chinese secret. It's similar, I think. Comes from Tau Buddism.

I can attest to the results, though. As I spend more and more time with Him, I often have a sense of what He wants before He says anything. Sometimes when we're out in public He can just look at me and the whole world narrows down to Him. In those moments He truly does own me. When I'm meditating with Him I can drift off into sub space in just a couple of minutes, but this doesn't happen when I'm doing it by myself.

 

[perks]

If it has to do with Chakras, you might look into Tantra and Tantric sex. Sites about those things might mention What you're talking about.

 

[WriterDom]

The seventh chakra represents a sense of oneness with all Creation, transcendence, and higher love. I've never heard the term "seventh space" but my guess it has to do with sacred sex and a sense of unity or oneness with your partner. Perhaps you can invite him here to explain it.

 

[~Dream~]

thats a great idea Writer Dom

I'd love to hear more about this myself.. and by the way W.D--YOU just hit 4 four's in your posts=4444 pretty cool,congrats

 

[Red Menace]

Thanks, Perky_Baby. I'll see if I can find out more by searching those terms.

WD, that sounds like something He's mentioned. Thanks. I'll see if He's interested in explaining it further.

 

[Rocket88]

...stuff...

Well, that makes more sense, but I must honestly say I feel the same thing with my g/f. So many things focus her instantly. When I grasp her hair I swear she instantly becomes a different person. One twist on her nipples and she's SuperSub. I don't explain it well, but we connect like two cogs. I usually don't need to say a word. And we haven't been together long at all... we just have that tight connection.

It's pretty damn cool. I feel like I have an internal remote control over her... like a conductor at the symphony. She moves if I twitch a finger. She cums on command. She dotes and caudles and makes over me.

I like it.

 

[TheDR4KE]

Definitely sounds like chakra work from what you're saying - it is the best for this sort of link establishing. I could go on more, but unfortunately I just don't have the time. PM me in 2 weeks if you're still interested in more, or else ask Dillinger to explain. BlackBird should also know a bit about it.

Also read up on Dualism and try some Zen meditative practises to atune yourself more to the energies.

Drake

 

[Bijoux]

Kundulini

I don't know if you've ever studied the upper chakras or not, but you might want to look into kundulini.

To dumb it down....the basic life force, kundulini resides at the base of the spine, wrapped like a serpent 3 1/2 times. It can be raised up through the chakras and out through the crown - to flow back down and around. Kundulini can also be 'accidentally' raised through sex when the two sacral chakras are closely together (thus the popularity of the sitting up, woman on top position in tantric sex) Hypothetically, someone who has successfully raised kundulini and has it freely flowing can see the imperfections in another persons chakras and get their kundulini flowing. when two people have both raised the kundulini, the sex is orgiastic beyond all belief and borders on ecstatic trance.

I would say, given your descriptions, your dom has done some form of Kundulini work, whether he knows the name or not. You can find several wonderful books on the subject through new age dealers that give exercises and self-tests to help you raise the kundulini...

hope this helps

the neighborhood catlady

~~~
b

 

[Red Menace]

Re: Kundulini

Hypothetically, someone who has successfully raised kundulini and has it freely flowing can see the imperfections in another persons chakras and get their kundulini flowing. when two people have both raised the kundulini, the sex is orgiastic beyond all belief and borders on ecstatic trance.

I would say, given your descriptions, your dom has done some form of Kundulini work, whether he knows the name or not. You can find several wonderful books on the subject through new age dealers that give exercises and self-tests to help you raise the kundulini...

hope this helps

the neighborhood catlady

~~~
b

Yes... that's IT! I don't know if He can see Chakras, but I think He can sense them. He was able to tell me exactly what was out of synch with my body the first time we met and He was dead on accurate. I want to figure out what He's doing so I can do it too and keep up with Him in bed (and on the floor, couch, kitchen, bathroom ).

Thank you so much.

 

[TheDR4KE]

Definitely sounds like chakra work from what you're saying - it is the best for this sort of link establishing. I could go on more, but unfortunately I just don't have the time. PM me in 2 weeks if you're still interested in more, or else ask Dillinger to explain. BlackBird should also know a bit about it.

Also read up on Dualism and try some Zen meditative practises to atune yourself more to the energies.

I'm back -- did you still want to find out more? What have you learnt in the last couple of weeks?

Quack

the D

 

[Little Girl]

Red

Just saw this thread and read it with much interest. I have been exploring spiritualism, budism and wicca for several months now and reading everything I can on the subjects. My new Captain at work is married to a man who is going to school for his doctorate in quantam physics and I have learned a great deal from her. She is very educated in spirtualism. I have heard alot from her about how her and her husband can communicate without words and can exchange their energy with each other and how their sex life has been enhanced because of it. I don't know if that is what your Dom is talking about, but I can ask her if she has any information on it and let you know. I do believe we are all energy and when we share it with another it can be intense. Good luck and as soon as I get any information from her I'll pass it on.

 

[Red Menace]

TheDR4KE - I haven't learned very much. I searched the web for some different things but didn't find much that was very helpful. I've asked Sir to explain a little more about it and all I understand from Him is that it's a type of space where He creates an energy and pulls His partner into His mind so they are both sharing the same energy space. I think maybe it's one of those things you just have to experience and so far I haven't. Any info you might have on this on would be very welcome.

Little Girl - I would love to hear what your friend has to say about her experiences. You can never learn too much...

 

[Little Girl]

Surrender

I am reading a book titled "The Heart of The Mind" I found this information on Surrender very interesting.

"Surrender means relinquishing the human sense of isolation and seperation. Surrender does not mean "giving in"; it means being willing "to see differently," beyond the masks of suffering we all wear. It is an act of humility, in which we give our need to control things over to a force greater than ourselves. It means giving up the control, not the caring; it means giving up the aggression, the protection, the justification, and the defenses that come from one's limited perspective.

Surrender means ceasing the activity of the restless, reactive, judging mind, in order to allow a quiet open space in one's consciousness. It means detaching from our desire for particular outcomes. It means choosing inner peace as our goal instead of being right, and consciously directing one's energy toward resolving the conflict instead of continuing the struggle.

Surrender is liberating, but it does not bring the liberation of an individual person - it brings liberation from the sense of individual separateness. It unclutters the mind, and creates an expansive inner stillness, unbounded by fear or defensiveness. It frees a person to act from a natural loving state, instead of from self-protection. Spiritual consciousness doesn't work for us - it works in and through us, and transforms open human minds. This surrender is to the truth of who we are - an acceptance of our interdependence."

I don't expect this to answer your original question Red, but I think this book has been helpful to me in meditation and understanding how to reach a deeper meditation state for myself.

 

[Red Menace]

Wow. That's really profound... and something that, upon looking back on other spiritual areas of my life, recognize to be true only I would never have been able to articulate it that way. Thank you. I'll have to see if I can find that book.

 

[Little Girl]

Wow. That's really profound... and something that, upon looking back on other spiritual areas of my life, recognize to be true only I would never have been able to articulate it that way. Thank you. I'll have to see if I can find that book.

Another good set of books is Sylvia Browne's "God, Creation, and Tools for Life" "Soul's Perfection" and "The Nature of Good and Evil" They are all about spiritualism, psychic abilities, spirit guides and how we are all connected and how to use the tools you have to find inner peace and strength. As I said, I read anything I can find on the subject and my most recent purchase is a book that deals with guardian angels and spirit guides, how to recognize them, accept them and communicate with them. I'll let you know how that goes for me

 

[TheDR4KE]

I've asked Sir to explain a little more about it and all I understand from Him is that it's a type of space where He creates an energy and pulls His partner into His mind so they are both sharing the same energy space. I think maybe it's one of those things you just have to experience and so far I haven't. Any info you might have on this on would be very welcome.

The Western magical tradition as I understand it, explains this thus:


There are three levels on which the World exists:

1. Physical - through things, plants, animals and (or including ) us
2. Mental - as models of how the physical, mental and astral world works, with the models existing in their own right
3. astral - at a deeper (physical realm words don't quite fit) energy level. Plato described this as there being a fire (the life force), and everything exists most fully in the astral, and our physical world is only the shadows that those astral forms cast on a cave wall
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   This is also known as the dualist view in philosophy/theology, with physical and astral as two somehow connected aspects, as compared to the materialist view that would hold everything is physical. (The mental realm isn't overly important in the dualist/materialist debate.)
   
   You could say that we, as individuals, are astral beings who manifest physically, and who have the ability to create mental worlds in which to represent our environment. It is through the combination of physical and mental worlds that we experience and express ourselves here. At the astral level we also communicate with others, and can share information/energy in a way that physical world science can't explain.
   
   As an analogy, think of characters in a computer game interacting while the people playing also talk to each other. To the characters some actions would seem magical -- how did she know to walk over there? how did he know where that treasure was hidden? etc
   
   We can also learn to experience the energy/astral level. This is where meditation comes in. First something like Sazen, the Buddhist sitting meditation, is useful to learn to fully understand all sensory input so that we can differentiate between the physical, mental and astral realms. A Hindu story, recounted by Alastair Crowley in Liber ABA, describes us as a lake with 5 glaciers (our senses) constantly disturbing the water. Through meditation we learn to calm these, and then the Sun (our astral, or higher, self) can truely reflect in full brilliance in us, the lake. So I would start by having you just sit quietly for 1/2 hour every day, watching your body, your breath, learning to look around for a spot of calm behind all of this.
   
   The next thing to work on is to interact at the astral level, for which you can use exercises like a 'happy place' as it is usually known now. Traditionally it is an astral temple that is built up. Imagine a room, simple at first, but consistent every time you visit it in your mind. Imagine sitting there, walking around, etc. This becomes a mental metaphor that you use for the astral to communicate to you. Try inviting people you know in, in your imagination, and talking to them. When you learn to reach the astral, those people's astral self will join you.
   
   To make for a better connection between body, mental and astral selves it is also good to work on the chakras that have already been mentioned. There are lots of sites out there on chakra meditation. Basically imagine spheres of light of the right colour on the right area of your body. Move your focus, your consciousness to those centres for a while, and then move on.
   
   Those three exercises and having a framework by which to understand them should make you more aware of what your Sir is doing, and able to respond better.
   
   Feel free to ask questions.
   
   Quack
   
   the D

 

[TheDR4KE]

Re: Surrender

I am reading a book titled "The Heart of The Mind" I found this information on Surrender very interesting.

It sounds very much like the connection to the astral or creative life source, that Zen practitioners focus on mostly and have developed their meditative practises around. An excellent experience to have, and a great goal for life to be able to maintain that connection.

Quack

the D