3somes
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phoenix1224
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Did you ever ask her if she's tried one before?
If she says 'no', ask her if she's ever fantasized about it before... If she's fantasized about it before, ask her if she ever thought about making that fantasy reality...
But I would suggest you think long and hard before you actually DO have a threesome (IF you eventually do), because it could change your relationship forever... And not necessarily for the better...
If it's another woman, she may get jealous and feel hurt and betrayed seeing you having sex with another woman... If it's another man, you may feel the same...
I don't mean to be a downer, but you have to look at it from all angles... Try to think of every possible outcome...
(just my two cents)
If she says 'no', ask her if she's ever fantasized about it before... If she's fantasized about it before, ask her if she ever thought about making that fantasy reality...
But I would suggest you think long and hard before you actually DO have a threesome (IF you eventually do), because it could change your relationship forever... And not necessarily for the better...
If it's another woman, she may get jealous and feel hurt and betrayed seeing you having sex with another woman... If it's another man, you may feel the same...
I don't mean to be a downer, but you have to look at it from all angles... Try to think of every possible outcome...
(just my two cents)
corkie2
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What works for me when trying something new is to start developing the fantasy with my partner. For example one of my own fantasies is to have a 3-sum of the mfm variety. What we have been doing is talking about what about it makes us hot and working it into our sex play. We share what we would like to see, do and feel. We build on it detail by detail as we play with each other's bodies getting really turned on.
What this does is to enable us to judge each others reactions and become comfortable with how we both feel about it. If my partner is not sharing my enthusiasm about something I can always work on the other parts of the fantasy.
A few times we have realized we are not ready to bring something to life. That has never been a problem with such a decision. But this 3-sum is something I think is going to be soooo hot. The more we play with the idea the more I am wanting to do it. Yes, I am terrified.........but oh so turned on too!! lol
Go slow with it...........try doing the mutual fantasy thing during sex play with her....see how she reacts to the idea of defferent partners of either gender or does she feel more comfortable with the idea of another couple?? (which is very hot too) Watch her reactions and yours....how does her BODY react? Do her word's say "no way" but her pussy starts dripping? If so go very slowly and gently and although it will take time....she MIGHT come around.
Just thought of this one...how does she react to porn movies of 3-sums??
What this does is to enable us to judge each others reactions and become comfortable with how we both feel about it. If my partner is not sharing my enthusiasm about something I can always work on the other parts of the fantasy.
A few times we have realized we are not ready to bring something to life. That has never been a problem with such a decision. But this 3-sum is something I think is going to be soooo hot. The more we play with the idea the more I am wanting to do it. Yes, I am terrified.........but oh so turned on too!! lol
Go slow with it...........try doing the mutual fantasy thing during sex play with her....see how she reacts to the idea of defferent partners of either gender or does she feel more comfortable with the idea of another couple?? (which is very hot too) Watch her reactions and yours....how does her BODY react? Do her word's say "no way" but her pussy starts dripping? If so go very slowly and gently and although it will take time....she MIGHT come around.
Just thought of this one...how does she react to porn movies of 3-sums??
