3some suggestion

rbawood

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I am looking to bring up the subject of a 3some with my wife. I would be looking for another female to join. How do I go about breaching the subject with her to see if she would be willing to do it?

Any advice most welcome.
 
What about "hey have you ever had the fantasy about being with another hot chick"? My guy asked and now we are looking to have one and I can't wait:devil:
 
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What will you do if she wants another male for a threesome?
 
you might have to offer teh male male woman threesome first before you can get the woman woman man threesome......:devil:
 
I have found that the direct approach is best in these situations. Communication is key and the only way to find out about each others wants and needs. Ease into the subject after a lovemaking session and start talking about different fantasies of yours and find out what her fantasies are but do not be judgemental.
 
schatz said:
I have found that the direct approach is best in these situations. Communication is key and the only way to find out about each others wants and needs. Ease into the subject after a lovemaking session and start talking about different fantasies of yours and find out what her fantasies are but do not be judgemental.

Excellent advice. That is what i would have said.
 
rbawood said:

I am looking to bring up the subject of a 3some with my wife. I would be looking for another female to join. How do I go about breaching the subject with her to see if she would be willing to do it?

Is your wife bisexual? Does she hold any interest in 3somes yet? Would she be comfortable with you having sex with another woman? What, exactly, are you looking to get out of this?
 
I am looking to try and broaden her horizons, if she is willing. She is a little reserved and I am looking to see if she is willing to try something that is a fantasy of mine. I am looking to find a way to ask her without scaring her off! I would not have sex with the other woman but would like for her to join us and 'play with us both'.

Rob
 
If your wife is straight, good luck "convincing" her to fuck/play with another woman and to allow you to fuck/play with another woman.
 
I don't know how open your relationship is, but some women might get very upset having there man wanting to have a 3 some. She might think that you just want to have sex with another woman. But if you are very open discussing your fantasies go for it. Me personally love the thought of 2 women and man, and would love to try it, but i'm not sure if I could handle seeing my man with another woman. Jealously would most likely set in. If you bring up and she's some what uncomfortable, set some guide lines.
 
Unregistered said:
I don't know how open your relationship is, but some women might get very upset having there man wanting to have a 3 some. She might think that you just want to have sex with another woman. But if you are very open discussing your fantasies go for it. Me personally love the thought of 2 women and man, and would love to try it, but i'm not sure if I could handle seeing my man with another woman. Jealously would most likely set in. If you bring up and she's some what uncomfortable, set some guide lines.

that was me....i got logged out....
 
A friend of mine had this problem, and he solved it by suggesting another woman pleasure his wife while he merely watched.

He knew she would eventually invite him to join the fun...and she did.

He originally introduced the third woman by hiring her to give his wife a "whole body massage" for her birthday.

Worked like a charm.

Best of luck !!!!
 
I like the idea of the full body massage. She's really into massages! How did it go from a massage to something more? Was it up tot he other woman to take things as far as she thought she could go?

Rob
 
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