1st time anal positions

[ReadyOne]

OK, How'd it go?

Which one(s) did you use?

Inquiring minds wnat to know...

 

[sweatinganal]

I wouldn't try anal sex at all, as it's not biologically efficient.
Penis begets vagina.
Do you like the idea of an anal tampon ....that's the result of defying biological efficiency.

I'd give the whole charade away, leave it for the porno actors who are well paid and can easily afford colostomy bags later in life.

I'm confused here. Are you really against anal sex, or is this just some lame attempt at sarcasm? If you don't like anal sex, perhaps you shouldn't post in threads where opinions on HOW to do anal sex are needed. I'd also suggest that if you see a thread that asks HOW to do something (and now if you LIKE it) in the future, that you avoid said thread. Happy posting!

 

[Chi-Guy31]

Yeah, that whole 'colostomy bag due to anal sex' is a big freakin' myth. Doesn't happen. Anal sex has been in practise safely for centuries and is becoming more common all the time. The anal muscles expand and contract like other muscles, it does not get permanently strectched out like a sweater or a sock. Do some research. Try puckerup.com.

 

[Lynxie]

Yeah, that whole 'colostomy bag due to anal sex' is a big freakin' myth. Doesn't happen. Anal sex has been in practise safely for centuries and is becoming more common all the time. The anal muscles expand and contract like other muscles, it does not get permanently strectched out like a sweater or a sock. Do some research. Try puckerup.com.

Here's a good thread with some links to sites that dispell some of the myths surrounding anal sex... Link!

And I agree - if you don't agree with something, posting on the How-To board isn't the best idea. Start your own thread in a more appropriate forum like the GB or Playground, or start a thread called "How to enjoy sex without including anal" and share something productive.

 

[bertrande]

Until recently I had only had anal sex once and did not like it. After many years I talked about with my lover, I knew he wanted to and he was essentially an anal virgin like myself. So as a surprise one night we were out parking and I just happened to have a tube of lube with me, so I lubed him up, we played around and then got out of the car and I leaned over the back and went for it. Amazing it was brilliant.

The essential ingredients were lots and lots of trust and lots of lube. I would only let some one take me anally if I really trusted them to stop if I found it painful. Trusting him meant I could relax and enjoy it.

Have done it doggy style since also.

 

[sandyb]

I have only had anal sex a few times so I'm no expert. The first time was in the spoons position and if your lover is able to handle the awkwardness of that position I recommend it as the starting point but doggy style is really much better once you've got the hang of it. Like everyone else says lots of lube is key. It's very intimate and enjoyably nasty, much fun.

 

[coffee_girl]

Our first time, I laid on my back and we did it missionary. It was really good and it gives him and you easy access to your pussy too, but doggy style is also good.
The most important thing for your first time is to make sure everything is ready or it will hurt too much for it to be a great experience.
My firt time was awesome but I drank too much to get the courage to do it and when my husband was done I had to run to the bathroom and puke up the wine. But since then, everytime has been amazing. I have better orgasms then "norm"

 

[whatever6869]

advice

Do not try this facing each other for awhile, can you say ouch?

 

[sweatinganal]

I have only had anal sex a few times so I'm no expert. The first time was in the spoons position and if your lover is able to handle the awkwardness of that position I recommend it as the starting point but doggy style is really much better once you've got the hang of it. Like everyone else says lots of lube is key. It's very intimate and enjoyably nasty, much fun.

And it helps if the male has a cock large enough to have sex in this position. Being that my wife is a bbw and that my cock is only average size (6 1/4") I can't have sex in the spoon position. At best I can get the tip of my cock in her pussy. That's why I'm JELQing, and already feeling a bit more confident about my anatomy and noticing that my cock is just a tad thicker now and stays harder MUCH longer.

 

[sweatinganal]

Today was the first day that I felt clean enough in my ass to let my wife fuck me. Fuck me she DID, as I took 6" of that 8"x2" monster silicone cock in my ass. Though I was going to be left with a new asshole after that, though. The position we used was doggystyle, I loved my wife taking control and TELLING me to get on all fours and spread my ass. At first she was saying "I was going to tell you that..." but then I just told her "No, take control". And she did. Anyone else want to be my student?

 

[sweatinganal]

Yeah, that whole 'colostomy bag due to anal sex' is a big freakin' myth. Doesn't happen. Anal sex has been in practise safely for centuries and is becoming more common all the time. The anal muscles expand and contract like other muscles, it does not get permanently strectched out like a sweater or a sock. Do some research. Try puckerup.com.

puckerup.com seems to be a 'pay' site to me. Unless I missed something, most of the links there just go to some silly books, etc.

 

[Chi-Guy31]

Really? I have visited www.puckerup.com for awhile now and it was never a paysite, though they have some online vids and such. There are books and toys for sale but also Tristan Taormino is an excellent source for anal advice. You can email her directly with questions and comments and she is always nice and friendly.

 

[janisjoplin197888]

This was the way I tried at 1st, and loved it since

Lie on your back with a pillow under your pelvis. This allows you to raise your legs up, have your partner on top and enter you that way. This was the way I tried for the 1st time and I've loved it ever since. Just remember-LOTS O LUBE!

 

[luckyseven]

We first did anal in the spoons position using loads of lube. Since them we have done it doggie but recently my wife lies on her tummy and I slip in from the top. It took us many years to get comfortable about the thought of having anal sex - it really is great and well worth it. We have the most mind-blowing orgasms doing it anally.

 

[mikeofokc]

*****

 

[Who Am I]

After lurking around the forum for months, looking for info and tips. I finally took the courage to ask the wife about anal sex. We had once tried when we were a lot younger, and through my eagerness and ignorance, I made a totally hash of it, putting the wife off completely, and i don't blame her either. We have a very good sex life, and the wife is pretty open minded. But I wanted to try anal again and for my wife to rim me as I do her, but to embarressed to ask, even after years of marriage, and I was not going to seek it somewhere else just for my own pleasure. Anyway, I love rimming the wife when I am down on her, but through her body language I think she finds it uncomfortable, but has'nt said so, but I know. So after much searching I came across this site, and read info etc on the subjects. Through my embarressment I could'nt face her, but printed info off one day about them, and left them in the bedroom for her to read. And to say I was suprised, well was an understatement. We tried anal sex again that very night, in the spoon posistion, with the wife in the lead role, telling me when and what, and not to har dor fast. It was great, she is willing to try rimming, but as yet not given it ago, but it's a step in the right direction. We both enjoyed it and are going to try again. I know this is long winded, but I would like to thank everyone who has posted about these subjects, it was a great help!

 

[Chi-Guy31]

After lurking around the forum for months, looking for info and tips. I finally took the courage to ask the wife about anal sex. We had once tried when we were a lot younger, and through my eagerness and ignorance, I made a totally hash of it, putting the wife off completely, and i don't blame her either. We have a very good sex life, and the wife is pretty open minded. But I wanted to try anal again and for my wife to rim me as I do her, but to embarressed to ask, even after years of marriage, and I was not going to seek it somewhere else just for my own pleasure. Anyway, I love rimming the wife when I am down on her, but through her body language I think she finds it uncomfortable, but has'nt said so, but I know. So after much searching I came across this site, and read info etc on the subjects. Through my embarressment I could'nt face her, but printed info off one day about them, and left them in the bedroom for her to read. And to say I was suprised, well was an understatement. We tried anal sex again that very night, in the spoon posistion, with the wife in the lead role, telling me when and what, and not to har dor fast. It was great, she is willing to try rimming, but as yet not given it ago, but it's a step in the right direction. We both enjoyed it and are going to try again. I know this is long winded, but I would like to thank everyone who has posted about these subjects, it was a great help!

Great news, always nice to hear about other married couples still expanding their sexual palette and remaining open-minded. It's no secret that I am a big ass fan and love many forms of anal play for men & women. I like to hear about this being a success for other couples, but overall it is good to learn how to communicate your desires to your partner and not worry about being judged harshly. I have had to learn the same lessons in my 3 years of marriage - though my wife still has to rim me either!

 

[DeletedUser]

Try using a twix bar anally first, that's what I did. That way if he sticks his dick in my ass and then my mouth I get to taste chocolate.

 

[waterkemist]

Have him lie on his back

Then pull his legs up close to his chest. Put on your strap-on and penetrate him slowly. Your hands are free to rub his penis or his nipples. His hands are free to rub your clit or your nipples. Make him cum like this at least one time first.

When you are ready for him to penetrate you, have him wear a condom for cleanliness. If you do the above position first, you will not have to worry about him using enough lube or going too fast. Better yet, why not let him stay on his back, and you lower yourself over him so he enters your ass. That positon lessens his responsibility if it hurts a little.

Let us know how it works out...so hard to type one handed!

 

[tv_jackie_tv]

poppers?

I have been reading threads on here about anal penetration and thought i would throw in my experiences. Baring in mind that i am a trannie, i often go out cruising in a camper which invarably means lots of different partners fucking my ass.
I have found that to be on top initially is the best, the depth and speed is under your control, the other thing is Poppers. the gay community are experts at anal and the use of poppers is the ultimate relaxant.
I find that by being on top until relaxed with the depth and girth of a hard cock is great, then start on the poppers, within minutes i need more stimulation and happily abandon control to the guy. Ther submissive side of me rushes to the fore and i tell the guy to turn me over and fuck me any way they like, by this time i am am so relaxed there is no pain, just tremendous feelings racing through me. keep the poppers going every few minutes........... it will be the best fuck your man has had, nothing turns a guy on as much as the thought of a submissive whore to be used as they like.
As i said at the beginning this is only my humble opinion, but don't knock it till you try it!!!!!!

 

[Socal22]

I seee the word poppers in a lot of places but don't know what they are exactly can someone explain? much appreciated

 

[Eilan]

I seee the word poppers in a lot of places but don't know what they are exactly can someone explain? much appreciated

Google

 

[Louise Brown]

Have to go with the consensus here and say spooning's the best way to start. Guys should realize that it can be painful if done too quickly, and that from a side-angle, it's harder for the guy to go at it full-force at first.

My advice? The woman should try it with a dildo or a vibe before getting into the real thing... see what it feels like and if she wants to try it again. If the guy is open-minded, the girl should try fucking the guy anally with the vibe, too... give him a feel of what hurts and what doesn't... and if he's thoughtful, will know better how to use his cock inside her ass.

One other piece of advice... s-l-o-w entry... just the head at first, then next time in s-l-o-w-l-y go an inch or less deeper... then s-l-o-w-l-y another inch... and so on.

When done among caring and trusting souls, the experience can truly be wonderful!

 

[fgarvb1]

I found this little video clip. I didn't watch all of it but it might give some insights.


http://www.youporn.com/watch/3738

 

[buxxxom]

Whatever position feels best for you is the one you should use. For me, it is easier to accept penetration first if I've already had at least one orgasm. Then, with lots and lots of lube, we add fingers and toys and then a cock into the mix. And some more lube.

The best position for us, to begin, is me lying on my back on the bed with my ass all the way at the edge and him standing beside the bed, with my legs thrown over his shoulders. I like looking him in the face as he grimaces, trying to go slowly, and see the way his head tilts back when he hits me at my core. From there, we can and do go on to other positions, but that is always how we start. The angle of insertion seems best.

Go slow, use more lube than you need, then add some more, and don't be afraid to experiment.