100 Pink Flamingos

Rambling Rose

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There is a company in my city that will fill your yard with pink flamingos, airborn winged pigs or sinister black crows for birthdays and anniversaries. It usually puts a smile on my face to see this profusion of silliness to celebrate a stranger's personal holiday.

Today was a little different.

I live at the edge of an affluent neighborhood. My home belonged, in all probability, to the servants of the original homeowners in my community. These immaculate houses, with their rolling and carefully landscaped lawns, rarely go on the market. The families that live in them have lived there for generations. I have grown to recognize certain families after seeing the matriarch watering her flowers or the young mother playing with her children in the park that is in the center of this community. I see old men walking their old dogs and newborns being carried into the house from the hospital. I pass these houses every day and, even though they have no idea who I am, I feel like - in a small way - I know them. It never occurs to me that they hold anything less than contented families who live peaceful and trouble free lives.

On my way to work this morning, I turned the corner by the park and saw one of these manicured and lush lawns filled with pink flamingos. It was gaudy and tacky and I was surprised by the colorful display...and then I saw the announcement sign. It read "CHEMO IS OVER" in large black letters.

My smile froze on my face. A lump formed in my chest and my throat seemed to close on me. 100 pink flamingos and I cried all the way to work.
 
Oh man. Now, I'm crying.
That's wonderful. Thanks for sharing this, darlin'.
 
I've had a really crappy week. I've been stressing over finances since tax day and I'm a little lonesome and frustrated and just plain down.

Somehow, seeing that sign made all that seem so small and unimportant. I am so glad for my health and the love of my family and friends and the good fortune that I have each day.

Sometimes I just forget, you know?
 
Wow... that is definitely a milestone. I'm happy for that person. Chemo is a tough thing to be facing.

I've heard about the pink flamingos thing. I have a friend that lives in Tampa (well near Tampa) and she did that to her hubby on his b-day.
 
You know, it was like I saw the whole ordeal pass before my minds eye in an instant. I saw the hospital rooms and the hair loss and the furrowed brows of the family, the late nights spent worrying about the future and the holidays where you wonder if this is going to be the last one. I saw it all in a matter of seconds and it overwhelmed me.

Cancer has become so commonplace that many don't even consider the effects of it until it touches your life. I don't know this family but in that moment they became my family. Just for a moment.

And I celebrated with them through my tears.
 
That is one of the most touching things I've ever read.

Stops and makes you think just how lucky ya are.
 
I got a shiver up my spine when I read this, Rose.

You are truly an amazing and compassionate woman, who I wished lived in my neighborhood.
 
sigh

I got a lump in my throat just reading that Rose.
Very Very nice.
 
It's nice to hear a story with a happy ending for a change :)

Thanks Rose
 
I'm with all of you . . . that sight would have overwhelmed me as well

Thank you for sharing
 
Rambling Rose said:
100 pink flamingos and I cried all the way to work.

That is powerful stuff, Rose. I'm happy it led you to realize how lucky you are -- a sort of sunny spot in your cloudy week. Thanks for sharing. :)
 
That was beautiful

That just lifted my spirits and reinforced my faith in mankind.:rose: :kiss: :heart:
 
Ok that just put all the crap I've been dealing with into perspective. Thanks Rose, beautiful.
 
Rambling Rose said:
I am so glad for my health and the love of my family and friends and the good fortune that I have each day.

Sometimes I just forget, you know?

We all do, Rose, we all do.

Great story- thanks!
 
Ok you got me, I am a sap at heart, and am now writing this through tears.
 
Thank you for sharing that story Rose. Made me smile and cry.

My Dad went through chemo trying to battle the lung cancer that eventually helped take his life. (Actually, in the lung run, they figured it was the chemo and radiation that took him. He was diabetic as well and his blood sugar levels became deadly high from the treatments. It's so much more involved than that, but I wont go there right now.)
Dad went to treatments Monday through Friday. He was always so tired and sick from it all week and Saturday. By the time he started feeling a little better on Sunday evening, it was almost time to start again Monday morning. It's tough... Real tough.
We pink Flamingo-ed my daughters God parents once and I took a bunch of pictures to show my parents... Simple things like 100 Pink Flamings made my Dad smile too. :)




Edited: because I can't type for squat! :rolleyes:
 
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