❓ PLP Inquires II ❓

[inkandiridiumnibs]

05.26.25

With all the recent online changes, let’s talk change in general -

How do you handle change? Do you think about its approach or does it often seem to sneak up on you? Do you mourn the loss of the comfortable? Do you find silver linings in the new? Does it take a transition period? Are you able to stay present easily when changes are on the horizon?

Change has been a Constant in my life, even when I was little, my Mother's job had me going all over the US and living there for at least 3 months at a time. It's what ultimately ended in divorce with my step-father. I made almost no friends because of it. Which also added to my "Know It All" persona growing up since pretty much all I really had to do was spend time learning things.

Even after my Mother's passing, I was thrown in a constant flux of change, which did not endear me to my Father, Step-Mother or my Half-Siblings. I had to learn to adapt ASAP, and, usually, as soon as I did adapt, the rug would get yanked out and I would have to start all over again. Then Adulthood hit, that was a constant flux, moving every few months, working jobs that came and went every few months, most were due to layoffs because of being the "Low Man". A few were because the company went belly up, but, only a couple. It wasn't until my late 30's that things finally slowed down enough that I could begin to see change coming in advance instead of having it slam into me at Mach1. Gave me a chance to prepare. Hindsight being what it is, I can see where I made a number of mistakes in how I dealt with those new changes, mostly in not wanting the change to happen, and taking the easy road, when the harder road would have been the much better decision. Now, I mostly just roll with it. I can rely on past mistakes to help make better decisions, when, that is, I have any input on the changes that are rolling over me. Since my Divorce, most of the changes that have occured are things that no one could have foretold, let alone been prepared for, nor a lot of the fall out of those events and the decisions that others made, which directly impacted my life, and forced me to make changes that were not in my favor. Still, I have my short time of grief over the change, put my head down and see what kind of change I myself can make to better adapt.

Can you think of changes that you fretted over that ended up for the best? What about things that you wish would stay the same forever? Is there a big change that is impending that you think about often? A change you wish you could make now?

My last divorce, I just wish I had paid more attention to some of the side details, the only thing those would have changed is how the divorce initiated, rather than the shit show it became. As for the impending... waves hand at the current American situation... take your pick. My health limits any kind of chance I could make, so, I am stuck riding this constant roller coaster.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

05.30.25

I've got a few more serious questions coming up on the docket so let's have a sexy one for the weekend.

Swapping Spit
I think it's fair to say a few of us are pretty orally motivated but what other ways do you like to use your mouth? Are you okay getting messy? Do you like kissing after oral? Tasting yourself after/during sex? Is saliva a turn on - i.e. messy oral, using it for lube, spitting on someone?
Science says what we call physical chemistry can also just be compatible pheromones. Have you ever been turned or/off to the way someone smells or tastes?

 

[velona]

05.30.25

I've got a few more serious questions coming up on the docket so let's have a sexy one for the weekend.

Swapping Spit

I think it's fair to say a few of us are pretty orally motivated but what other ways do you like to use your mouth? Are you okay getting messy? Do you like kissing after oral? Tasting yourself after/during sex? Is saliva a turn on - i.e. messy oral, using it for lube, spitting on someone?

Science says what we call physical chemistry can also just be compatible pheromones. Have you ever been turned or/off to the way someone smells or tastes?

Yes on so much of this!

Messy kisses, messy oral, kissing after oral
The idea of spitting on someone (or being spat on) doesn’t appeal (but having never done that who knows, could be hot in the right circumstance, maybe?)

But smell! Yes, 100% the way a man smells can drive me crazy!!

 

[morelikeasong]

05.30.25

I've got a few more serious questions coming up on the docket so let's have a sexy one for the weekend.

Swapping Spit

I think it's fair to say a few of us are pretty orally motivated but what other ways do you like to use your mouth? Are you okay getting messy? Do you like kissing after oral? Tasting yourself after/during sex? Is saliva a turn on - i.e. messy oral, using it for lube, spitting on someone?

I am not particularly fond of getting messy. I suspend a great deal of that discomfort for sex and the enjoyment of its messiness… but less so for my face. Saliva itself is not a turn on for me, so drooling, spitting, messy oral—not really my thing.

Kissing after oral/tasting myself? Yes.

And I’ll add that I’ve never given oral to a woman, so I might feel differently about getting messy in the moment. I can’t really speak on that without the experience.

Using spit as lube… if I’m giving a handjob or need to salivate a little to lube up a blowjob, sure. But I’m very not into the spitting on hand/pussy thing. If I had an issue with natural lubrication I might feel differently, and that might change as I get older. I recognize that not all women get very wet themselves and saliva or lube can help make things feel better. I totally support that.
But for me, using saliva as lube means that I haven’t been properly turned on before being touched.

It’s also a big turn off for me in porn when I see them adding spit to intercourse or fingering. All I can think of is that the woman must feel so uncomfortable. Takes me right out of the moment.

Science says what we call physical chemistry can also just be compatible pheromones. Have you ever been turned or/off to the way someone smells or tastes?

I can definitely be very attracted to how someone smells. But I’m not sure if I’ve ever been specifically turned off by a smell unless it was BO.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

05.30.25

I've got a few more serious questions coming up on the docket so let's have a sexy one for the weekend.

Swapping Spit
I think it's fair to say a few of us are pretty orally motivated but what other ways do you like to use your mouth? Are you okay getting messy? Do you like kissing after oral? Tasting yourself after/during sex? Is saliva a turn on - i.e. messy oral, using it for lube, spitting on someone?
Science says what we call physical chemistry can also just be compatible pheromones. Have you ever been turned or/off to the way someone smells or tastes?

(I fear this where I lose my twin card)

I very much enjoy the mess of it all. Not always, a quick blowjob before we go out with friends should not include your cum in my hair. But on the whole, I like the spit, the strings of connection that form when you're deep in my throat. I want to taste you after your inside me and I want you to want to kiss me after you've made a mess on my face. I like the wet places left on my skin after its kissed, the wet spots girls leave and the precum trails from cocks. I think it's part of that sexual disassociation we (or some people) get when incredibly turned on. Maybe I wouldn't want drool running down my chin walking around at the Ren Faire (ok... bad example) but I do want it when your cock is in my mouth.

Spitting as lube is where you loose me for most of the exact reasons MLAS pointed out. It seems very "porn" to me and not at all how I want to be lubricated if and when I need it. I should be plenty wet but if we're doing something that needs a little more slickness (looking at you anal), there's a bottle of coconut oil by the bed. Now if we're using spit in kinky, bdsm way and we've talked about it, well I can see for certain people that being incredible hot in the right dynamic. I admit I'm probably in the minority here.

I am a big believer in pheromone and the literal chemistry of it all. Sometimes you found yourself powerfully attracted to someone and you can't even explain it. As women, we definitely give off certain somethings at different times of the month and that shit it powerful. I like good smells, clean smells, girl in heat smells and I think those things can be just as much of an attractant as someone handsome face or pretty nipples. Or de-tractant as it were if things are more odor than aroma.

 

[cheekygirl75]

05.30.25

I've got a few more serious questions coming up on the docket so let's have a sexy one for the weekend.

Swapping Spit
I think it's fair to say a few of us are pretty orally motivated but what other ways do you like to use your mouth? Are you okay getting messy? Do you like kissing after oral? Tasting yourself after/during sex? Is saliva a turn on - i.e. messy oral, using it for lube, spitting on someone?
Science says what we call physical chemistry can also just be compatible pheromones. Have you ever been turned or/off to the way someone smells or tastes?

I have a problem with spit and phlegm… any of that just makes me nauseous so I’d like the spit kept to a minimum please! I don’t want it as lube anywhere. I don’t want a sloppy kiss, though I’m fine with kissing after oral. I could never be with a guy who had a very moist mouth I don’t think.

Smell is a big one for me. I have been both turned on and off by someone’s smell before.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

05.30.25

I've got a few more serious questions coming up on the docket so let's have a sexy one for the weekend.

Swapping Spit
I think it's fair to say a few of us are pretty orally motivated but what other ways do you like to use your mouth? Are you okay getting messy? Do you like kissing after oral? Tasting yourself after/during sex? Is saliva a turn on - i.e. messy oral, using it for lube, spitting on someone?
Science says what we call physical chemistry can also just be compatible pheromones. Have you ever been turned or/off to the way someone smells or tastes?

I’m not a germaphobe or nothing, but I really don’t like being sticky or damp.

I love deep passionate kisses. I love getting lost in the visceral moment during sex and having my fingers and body and face covered with physical manifestations of my partner’s excitement.

But you best know that as soon as we’re done post-cuddling I’m going into the bathroom and washing off.

Though… do admit there’s a little thrill to smelling my partner on my fingers later if I don’t do a very thorough job….hmmm that’s complicated.

Anyway.

I’m not in general a fan of spit. I’ve never spit on anyone . Or needed or wanted to use it as a lubricant. It’s not a thing I enjoy in porn. I spit when I’m running. Or sick. That’s not sexy.

I’m not super smell motivated. I can’t think of a time I’ve been turned off by someone’s smell. My wife doesn’t have a particularly strong personal scent. Even when she’s sweaty. I do have a conditioned comfort response to the scent of like her shampoo and body lotion. But even those she varies so it’s not a strong connection.

 

[Ajoe207]

05.30.25

I've got a few more serious questions coming up on the docket so let's have a sexy one for the weekend.

Swapping Spit
I think it's fair to say a few of us are pretty orally motivated but what other ways do you like to use your mouth? Are you okay getting messy? Do you like kissing after oral? Tasting yourself after/during sex? Is saliva a turn on - i.e. messy oral, using it for lube, spitting on someone?
Science says what we call physical chemistry can also just be compatible pheromones. Have you ever been turned or/off to the way someone smells or tastes?

I enjoy orally pleasing my partner after I have cum inside her … have her straddle my face and lower herself onto my lips as hard or soft as she wants .., as I lick my cum dripping out of her

 

[EvaLane]

05.30.25

I've got a few more serious questions coming up on the docket so let's have a sexy one for the weekend.

Swapping Spit

I think it's fair to say a few of us are pretty orally motivated but what other ways do you like to use your mouth?

Are you okay getting messy? Do you like kissing after oral? Tasting yourself after/during sex? Is saliva a turn on - i.e. messy oral, using it for lube, spitting on someone?

Hahahahaaa okayyyyy. Yes. I really, really like getting messy.

Kissing might be the one area I keep a little cleaner, nearly chaste if I’m being honest.

But saliva? Huge turn on. Mine, theirs, doesn’t matter. I fully admit it started with exaggerated, degrading porn, but at 29, it’s evolved into something that just feels right.

I still remember my first truly messy blowjob. I’d done some research (lol) on what separates a good blowjob from an unforgettable one and the answer was always the same - more. More lube, more handwork, more suction, more desperation and moaning.

Sooo I left my shame next to my keyboard and just went for it. Sloppy, shiny, dripping. My hand gliding over him, spit soaking everything, gagging on him while mentally picturing a decedent slice of chocolate cake (thanks for the tip, Cosmo). We were both drenched, my breasts, his thighs, my face, my hair.

Not every blowjob is like that, butttt most of them are now

So yes. Spit on me, rub it on me, in me. It can be degrading, sure, but also kind of… sweet? Likeeee… Here’s part of me, on your pretty little face, while I fuck you til your brain melts

Oh and yes. We can get messy with cum too. Duh.

Science says what we call physical chemistry can also just be compatible pheromones. Have you ever been turned or/off to the way someone smells or tastes?

Well, I can’t say all that and then also go off about the whole gym sweaty, needy, manly thing I completely lose my mind over. One overstimulation at a time

but yes please

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Not sure how I'm going to follow that post , but I'm gonna give it a try...

Swapping Spit
I think it's fair to say a few of us are pretty orally motivated but what other ways do you like to use your mouth? Are you okay getting messy?

I enjoy getting messy to an extent. I love when fingers and mouths and thighs get messy from pleasuring each other. When my chin, cheeks, and nose are wet from going down on her. When he cums on my tits, ass, or belly. But I don't want cum in my eyes or hair.

Do you like kissing after oral?

Definitely

Tasting yourself after/during sex?

It's a turn on to taste myself on their lips, tongues, and fingers. And on his cock.

Is saliva a turn on - i.e. messy oral, using it for lube, spitting on someone?

It isn't for me. I've never been one to produce copious amounts of saliva, so I doubt I could give the type of messy oral that PLP has shared images of on the B&B thread. I don't prefer saliva for lube. I've never spit on someone and have never had the urge to ask someone to do that to me.

Science says what we call physical chemistry can also just be compatible pheromones. Have you ever been turned or/off to the way someone smells or tastes?

I can be very turned on by the way someone smells... if it's a natural smell. Too much cologne or perfume will give me a headache.

 

[dkak001]

I think it's fair to say a few of us are pretty orally motivated but what other ways do you like to use your mouth?

Anywhere and everywhere it's welcome! It's just one more thing to use for sensation and pleasure.

Are you okay getting messy?

Depends on the day. In general I have no problem getting messy, although generally not into food fights or stuff like that. A mess when getting road head is best avoided, but if it happens, it happens.

Do you like kissing after oral?

Doesn't bother me. If a partner wants to tease about passing, um, er, stuff back and actually goes through with it, I'm fine with that too. I don't expect anyone to taste something I refused to taste too.

Tasting yourself after/during sex?

Again, no problems with it. Depending on play, it can be hot.

Is saliva a turn on - i.e. messy oral, using it for lube, spitting on someone?

Messy oral is fine, if that's how it turns out. It's sort of hard not be messy if you're doing it right.
Saliva as lube works if nothing else is present, but it's not the greatest lube. Some partners just don't make enough, and in a pinch you gotta do what you gotta do.
I won't spit on someone directly. Intentional spitting seems too disrespectful. I'm HUGE on consent and mutual respect. Spitting just seems to cross that boundary, somehow.

Science says what we call physical chemistry can also just be compatible pheromones. Have you ever been turned or/off to the way someone smells or tastes?

Absolutely! I've had a handful of "Animal Attraction" incidents in my life so far, unfortunately most were not acted on. But completely certain the feeling was mutual, as others present commented during or later.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

06.04.25

Grudges

Are you a holder of grudges? What kind of thing will create a grudge for you? Do you keep an offense fresh in your mind as an act of self protection or does it just pop up whenever you think of someone who’s wronged you? Do you take on the grudges of your friends and loved ones? What kind of thing will help create a resolution to bury the bad feels? Has anyone ever held a grudge against you?

Or are you a forgive and forget kind of person? Do you find that it’s harder with some things than others? Have you ever tried to help peace make for a loved one with a grudge? If you’re perfectly in the middle, how’d you get to be such a balanced paragon of humanity?

 

[Cindy027]

I hold the world record for grudges held.

Family and friends, no. People I work with that wrong me, yes and people on Lit, YES!!!!!

 

[Apisto42]

06.04.25

Grudges

Are you a holder of grudges? What kind of thing will create a grudge for you? Do you keep an offense fresh in your mind as an act of self protection or does it just pop up whenever you think of someone who’s wronged you? Do you take on the grudges of your friends and loved ones? What kind of thing will help create a resolution to bury the bad feels? Has anyone ever held a grudge against you?

Or are you a forgive and forget kind of person? Do you find that it’s harder with some things than others? Have you ever tried to help peace make for a loved one with a grudge? If you’re perfectly in the middle, how’d you get to be such a balanced paragon of humanity?

I just believe them the first time they fuck me over. Karma will get them in the end. I don’t need to do anything to them myself. That’ll probably just hurt me.

 

[AlpineFresco]

06.04.25

Grudges

Are you a holder of grudges? What kind of thing will create a grudge for you? Do you keep an offense fresh in your mind as an act of self protection or does it just pop up whenever you think of someone who’s wronged you? Do you take on the grudges of your friends and loved ones? What kind of thing will help create a resolution to bury the bad feels? Has anyone ever held a grudge against you?

Or are you a forgive and forget kind of person? Do you find that it’s harder with some things than others? Have you ever tried to help peace make for a loved one with a grudge? If you’re perfectly in the middle, how’d you get to be such a balanced paragon of humanity?

Less so over time. I used to hold grudges like a motherfucker but, with some specific exceptions, it's never really done much but hurt me.
Now, there's a very valid self protection angle. Did someone hurt me/my family specifically and I need to remember that and avoid them? Valid. Am I actually angry with someone's conduct and I don't think I can forgive them so I keep interactions limited at best and maybe even not-happening? Also valid.

But I've held grudges more actively when it hasn't really done much for me. I'm learning that letting go is freeing. However, I cannot be a doormat.
Forgiveness is interesting. Who is it for? I'll forgive someone only if the person shows contrition. I'll otherwise likely decide how much I want this issue to impact my life and interactions with/around that person.

Has anyone ever held a grudge against me? Yes.

As with everything, the answer is 'depends' but as I get older I'm increasingly on the 'don't have time for this shit' and I'll probably just avoid the people I have big personal issues with.

 

[AveryElle]

06.04.25

Grudges

Are you a holder of grudges? What kind of thing will create a grudge for you? Do you keep an offense fresh in your mind as an act of self protection or does it just pop up whenever you think of someone who’s wronged you? Do you take on the grudges of your friends and loved ones? What kind of thing will help create a resolution to bury the bad feels? Has anyone ever held a grudge against you?

Or are you a forgive and forget kind of person? Do you find that it’s harder with some things than others? Have you ever tried to help peace make for a loved one with a grudge? If you’re perfectly in the middle, how’d you get to be such a balanced paragon of humanity?

Yep. So timely.
It doesn’t add weight to my shoulders. I don’t forget things people have said or done. I don’t genuinely believe people change all THAT much (they’re still them, to their core, outside of a life altering change like a divorce or illness or victim of an unfortunate event). I don’t let grudges define me but they’re little reminders of what I think is right or wrong. Even if just in that moment, it’s a feeling I didn’t enjoy and the grudge is…protective.

And as the Queen herself says, 'I’ll forget you but I’ll never forgive’. I find most forgiveness to be about the person forgiving: I absolve myself of causing harm or pain because they’ve forgiven me. But the harmed person still feels it. That’s not a grudge. That’s human nature. So I will move on, because, to paraphrase the queen, you are what you did. And if someone has a grudge against me, more power to them. It does not impact my day to day.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

05.30.25

I've got a few more serious questions coming up on the docket so let's have a sexy one for the weekend.

Swapping Spit
I think it's fair to say a few of us are pretty orally motivated but what other ways do you like to use your mouth? Are you okay getting messy? Do you like kissing after oral? Tasting yourself after/during sex? Is saliva a turn on - i.e. messy oral, using it for lube, spitting on someone?
Science says what we call physical chemistry can also just be compatible pheromones. Have you ever been turned or/off to the way someone smells or tastes?

I love long intense kissing sessions. I love giving oral and I love tasting myself on the lips of my lover.
I don't find spitting attractive at all. It feels almost like contempt. And yeah I can and have enjoyed little bits of degrading talk but spit is a limit for me. So is getting facials. Cum anywhere else on my body! I love the feel of it on my skin. Just not on my face.

Smells are interesting. I'm not massively into perfume or cologne really. I prefer a more natural smell, though not to the extent of no deodorant. Just that unique aroma that each person has that can be alluring or comforting or - my favourite - sends those "rip my clothes off" signals straight to my brain!

 

[RosewoodTulip]

06.04.25

Grudges

Are you a holder of grudges? What kind of thing will create a grudge for you? Do you keep an offense fresh in your mind as an act of self protection or does it just pop up whenever you think of someone who’s wronged you? Do you take on the grudges of your friends and loved ones? What kind of thing will help create a resolution to bury the bad feels? Has anyone ever held a grudge against you?

I don't think I hold grudges. Not in an obvious way anyway. I remember when people have said or done something to hurt me and while I can accept an apology and move on I will remember what happened to see if there are patterns to their behaviour.

I'm loyal as fuck to my friends and family. Hurt them and, while I can be friendly towards you, you'll always be on my shit list haha - even if they're able to move on and forgive.

I honestly have no clue if anyone has held a grudge towards me. I can think of one person that might but I'm not interested in doing anything about that.

Or are you a forgive and forget kind of person? Do you find that it’s harder with some things than others? Have you ever tried to help peace make for a loved one with a grudge? If you’re perfectly in the middle, how’d you get to be such a balanced paragon of humanity?

Yeah like I said (should have read the whole thing before starting my reply ) I can move forward with someone but I never forget how it made me feel and I'm usually a little more cautious.

I have tried before to be a mediator for others but I don't do that anymore. Usually once they sort out their differences I become their shared problem for interfering. So I can try to listen and give advice when asked but that's the limit to my involvement.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

06.04.25

Grudges

Are you a holder of grudges? What kind of thing will create a grudge for you? Do you keep an offense fresh in your mind as an act of self protection or does it just pop up whenever you think of someone who’s wronged you? Do you take on the grudges of your friends and loved ones? What kind of thing will help create a resolution to bury the bad feels? Has anyone ever held a grudge against you?

Or are you a forgive and forget kind of person? Do you find that it’s harder with some things than others? Have you ever tried to help peace make for a loved one with a grudge? If you’re perfectly in the middle, how’d you get to be such a balanced paragon of humanity?

On behalf of myself, I don’t have the mental bandwidth to hold grudges. I have too many other things going on to go back and poke a bruise over and over again. I do the other (probably unhealthy) version of not forgiving which is to just delete my files on someone that’s hurt me deeply and do my best to pretend they simply never existed. It’s easier and more freeing personally speaking than revisiting the past repeatedly. If you hurt one of the people I care about, I will probably never forget that in a way I could totally get over if it was an offense against me.

One way in which I am a total hypocrite is that I go out of my way to not pick up other people’s longstanding grudges (talking more about smaller issues than a true pain here). I often play devil’s advocate which generally annoys most people and play peacemaker. BUT I love it when my people hold a grudge on my behalf. It’s silly and petty and small but goddamnit something about that makes me feel really loved. Hey! No one’s perfect!

I do like to peace make but usually individually. I’m not bringing two wronged parties into a room to mediate. Usually, I do that “well did you think about it like this” or “did you ever consider that” or “you’re both kind of right and wrong actually”.

For me to get over something really hurtful, I think there needs to be a really clear apology that acknowledges the harm in a way that comes from their own reflection and not from me saying “you should apologize for x y z”. It’s pretty rare when it happens but always meaningful and healing.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

06.04.25

Grudges

Are you a holder of grudges? What kind of thing will create a grudge for you? Do you keep an offense fresh in your mind as an act of self protection or does it just pop up whenever you think of someone who’s wronged you?

I have both a pretty good memory and a fairly high standard of behavior (some might say I’m judgmental) so if I think someone behaved shittily I remember it. I don’t know that I’d call it a grudge. I don’t need to “win” or rub it in someone’s face, I just move on and don’t fuck around with them anymore.

Do you take on the grudges of your friends and loved ones?

Depends. I’m generally a judge for myself person. I’m loyal but not blindly so, and even loved ones have blind spots. But if the behavior that lead to the grudge is serious I don’t feel the need to interrogate the victim I like too closely or deeply. Similarly, if I don’t really know the person the grudge is against I may not take it on but it also easy to just not adjudicate the issue. Not my circus not my monkeys

What kind of thing will help create a resolution to bury the bad feels?

Genuine acknowledgment of the issue and good faith efforts to be better.

Has anyone ever held a grudge against you?

No way, Imma sweet baby. Ask anyone!

I dunno. Probably. Can’t please everyone in the world.

Or are you a forgive and forget kind of person?

Depends on the grievance depends on the depth of the relationship. If I barely know you and shitty behavior is a measurable percentage of our interactions, why the fuck put any more energy into you? Maybe you’re a wonderful human having a bad week. Great. Other people will find you. I don’t need to spend my time here. If I’ve known you longer then I have a) more context and perspective on the behavior. And b) more desire and ability to discuss and understand and work it out.

Once I do forgive, I try very hard to forget and not relitigate bullshit over and over and over.

Do you find that it’s harder with some things than others?

Of course. Ego is a thing.

Have you ever tried to help peace make for a loved one with a grudge?

Fuck no. Ain’t my circus yadda yadda

how’d you get to be such a balanced paragon of humanity?

I’ve know some pretty spectacular women in my life

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

06.07.25

Simple question for a Saturday night...

How good are you at making the first move? Tell me about it.

 

[Neanderthal247]

06.07.25

Simple question for a Saturday night...

How good are you at making the first move? Tell me about it.

Great at it, if I didn't make the first move, I would be a Virgin. It's easy, treat her like a person, go after what you want and if unsure, tell her what you're going to do and if she doesn't resist keep going.

 

[morelikeasong]

06.07.25

Simple question for a Saturday night...

How good are you at making the first move? Tell me about it.

Hilarious timing. I just saved this meme this morning



To be fair… I’m really good at it. If we meet at a bar and we’re flirting… you’ll know when I want you to kiss me

(I have a more in depth answer that I might come back and share later, but the first thing that came to mind with the question was a first kiss.)

 

[Neanderthal247]

Hilarious timing. I just saved this meme this morning

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To be fair… I’m really good at it. If we meet at a bar and we’re flirting… you’ll know when I want you to kiss me

(I have a more in depth answer that I might come back and share later, but the first thing that came to mind with the question was a first kiss.)

I likey ⚘️

 

[cheekygirl75]

06.07.25

Simple question for a Saturday night...

How good are you at making the first move? Tell me about it.

Terrible! I can sometimes do the intense eye contact like @morelikeasong but I can be shy even with that. Strangely for being relatively active and open on a sex site, I still have almost all the repression I was raised with in real life.