Toy Advice!(And I have looked everywhere!)

Hi all,

Long time listener, first time caller....

I have looked everywhere for a very specific toy. Have found things that fit part of the bill, and I am at the point where I think I may need to design and create my own...

Most are likely familiar with the strap ons. You've probably all seen the "Venus Penis" (Strap on clit vibrator with a small penis attachment for her)...

I am looking for somehting like the Venis Penis, and Turbo Wand combined but with a longer penis.

Criteria: 5-6+inch Vibrating Remote control penis....with straps so it will stay in and no underwear required...

Optional: Remote control clit vibrator-controled independantly of the vibrator.

Ultimately, I want my hubby to fuck me while I walk, for him to be in control. Wearing it around the house while I work and letting him randomly buzz me with the dildo part. But I want to be able to feel it too(hence wanting the large penis size), without a lot of extra equipment like the harnesses (all the dildoes for those for vaginal insertion are too small, do not vibrate &/or no remote.)

Any ideas? Do I need to ask in BDSM? (The idea is to be in public while he arouses me and I have to keep my cool-or not)

If the answer is somewhere on the boards, point me in the right direction and I will look myself, (no reason to rehash if this has aready been asked a thousand times)...

Any feedback would be so appreciated. Have to say I love the stories and they have been an inspiration...

Thanks!!!!

Should I have put this on a different board??

Maggie8 said:

Should I have put this on a different board??

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LOL! Not really, I imagine everyone is researching the subject for you right now! Can't hurt to ask on more than one board though!

A friend and I were looking for something very similar to that ... but we could not find a remote with a penis too! Finally settled on the Remote Butterfly from babes in toyland, which is a remote clit vibrator. Not exactly what we wanted... but it did the trick..did it ever! We wanted it for a trip to Vagas, and it was great for just walking around the strip, and really added a new dimension to the exotic club scene. We found out it was a bit intense to use it too much... but figuring out perfect moments to give her a buzz was such fun and so hot for me, and not having the penis part turned out to be a plus because it got us both so hot that we ended up sneaking into little hidy spots where I could quickly slip it to her....not to mention just going back to the room! It was all too naughty and that added so much to it all. One of the most fun toys ever, all day is foreplay..and then some! lol!

Thanks Exciteher,
Glad to know I'm not the only 'freak'. (I mean that in the best way

Why the hell has no one come out with one of these? Maybe I need to offer to sell whatever I come up with? lol -a whole new market!

Maggie8 said:

Thanks Exciteher,
Glad to know I'm not the only 'freak'. (I mean that in the best way

Why the hell has no one come out with one of these? Maybe I need to offer to sell whatever I come up with? lol -a whole new market!

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You're not the only freak about these remote devices by a long shot... but now that you mention it, one thing that did cross our minds was the potential (when using one of these infernal contraptions in public ) of someone else nearby wearing one of these crazy things and us inadvertantly setting it off! Or having ours set off randomly by strangers! lol! Or everyone getting their wires crossed! The implications of that sort of thing happening boggles the mind... and imagination as well.

If you can put together something with a dildo you should go for it!! Whole new market indeed! Report back if you can pull that off! I think a dildo version would be quieter, the Remote Butterfly makes a bit of noise. No prob in private, and in most public situations ambient noise drowns it out, but for a quiet lounge or the library etc... quite might be nice. Also a his and hers "set", so a woman can buzz her man as well! Or a woman can buzz her woman or... gads, so many combinations and possabilities!

I havent found one, myself...but if you do let me know LOL - I owned one of the remote butterflies that were mentioned and I have to agree - they do the trick! - It was sad when mine wore out..lol...Im considering getting a new one but I just havent had a chance.

I am currently working on one of my own design. I've heard mixed reviews on the butterfly, the most positive ones so far being in this thread. If I get any of my own contraption to work I may see if I can incorporate one of those. Right now I was just thinking of a pouch to optionally put in a small bullet. Have started today and will let you know how it comes out. Hubby informs me $ is tight since I am not working right now, so may have to wait a bit to get all the attachments I want to include.

I was also thinking about the Clone-A-Willy (vibrator) to try to make the vibrating dildo part, and have more control over shape and fit on the harness, etc...I have experience with mold making and casting so somehting should be doable. I may need to get a degree in electronics to come up with the remote capabilities I want. We shall see how it goes.

Thanks for the input everyone!

Maggie8 said:

.... I may need to get a degree in electronics to come up with the remote capabilities I want......

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Perhaps not!

Wow, you are serious about this! Got to admire that you have the skills, confidence and motivation to attempt making this. I was thinking about making one too, the electronics would be easy for me, but the whole plastics and casting etc thing demotivated me, am clueless about all that.

Remember, the more mass you need to move or vibrate, the more power you will need to move it. The motors in the remote clit vibrators are very small, moving a small mass. You might be able to adapt the electronics of one of those for your project, but my guess is the motor's receiver/controller ( the electronics in the remote vibrator...not the remote control transmitter itself!) will not have enough current capacity for a dildo sized motor. (A vibrator basically is a motor that spins an eccentric weight that wants to throw the motor all about. Wired to a switch and a battery and put in an obscenely shaped enclosure...lol!)

A large dildo will need a bigger vibrator or bullet, your receiver/controller will need to switch enough current to power that. You may be able to find a cheap remote controlled car or toy that would be able to handle any current you would need. Too small a current capability is bad, the controller will: A) get very hot or B) burn out under too much load. Too large a current capacity in the current ranges required should have no real negative consequence, except for making the controller a bit larger and perhaps needing more or bigger batteries than would otherwise be optimal. But it seems like the guts of a small RC toy car (Radio Shack or Walmart!) could work. The motor output of the cars receiver/controller should be able to power a vibrator for a fairly large dildo. A tiny "Zip Zap" car will probably be too small... but maybe worth a try, because they are small and they are cheap. Without knowing exact specifications, a crude "Rule of Thumb" would be if the car's motor is about the same size/weight and voltage as the vibrators motor... it should work.

As far as making a commercial product, your best shot is to have your "prototype" reproduced and subcontracted because the transmitter and receiver must be certified to conform to FCC regulations to be marketed, the exact regulation depends on the use, frequency and radiated power of the device. See FCC Title 47 Part 15. The FCC gets very grumpy about violations, because of possable interference with pacemakers, garage doors openers, WMD..etc.

For the purpose of experimenting, adapting existing certified devices like RC toys or existing remote vibrators will bypass any FCC problems. Seems like you have the fabrication methods for this kind of project covered.. I'm an engineer, if you have any specific radio/electronics related questions feel free to ask. Also, the RC hobby community is a good source of fundamental RC info, and the "RC Universe" site has an extensive forum and info... although I doubt this sort of project has ever been discussed there! lol! Good luck!

Thanks Exciteher! I'll keep that in mind if I need more help with the remotes. Considering the plethera of Vaculoc and equivelant system's dildos I may not have to mold one.

(And thanks for your encouragement in other threads

reach out and touch someone

http://www.extremerestraints.com/televibe--phoneinternet-controlled-sex-kit_573.html

This one is pretty close but with a small dildo.
http://www.holisticwisdom.com/remote-control-dildo.htm

http://www.extremerestraints.com/remote-control-venus-penis-vibrator_1286.html

http://nawtythings.com/toys/pd3354.html

rthnck

Thanks for those...if I have come across the televibe yet, I don't remember. I would LOVE to play with that and put it in the harness I am creating. A bit on the expensive side for the time being.

The others I have seen and hadn't really considered modifying those...will have to think about that....

Am hoping to complete the harness today or tomorrow. Have had to hand sew since my sewing machine is fritzing on me. Hubby is going to help me with *cough* precise measurments.

The televibe looks like it is close to ideal...thanks rthnck.

I found a website:

www.televibe.com
....with some more info and a small FAQ.

This is a big boy! Features that facinate me are the telephone touch pad control with a number of vibrating modes, true "around the world" remote capability, and the vibrator "bullet"can be slid to any position within the dildo from the very tip to the base. Versatile! Could be used for anal.

The dildo has a minimal "footprint" at the base, looking at it, I am wondering if the circular jelly ar the base could be trimmed at the sides to a more oval or elongated shape so as to allow the dildo to "nestle" a bit further up in the lips the girls labia, the labia helping to hold it in place (while being stimulated!!) along with the wire running out up the crack in of her ass up to the reciever. Possably attached to a "belt" that circled the top her hips. Possably also with a couple of strings or straps that straddle her mons up the front, leaving her clit deliciously exposed...or perhaps even displayed!...sigh! (what arousing fun for those of us that like to have "friends" over...lol!)

Maggie8, seems like no matter what sort of strap system you have developed, this could be be fitted to it with a bit of creativity!!!

The receiver seems a bit largeish, but I am thinking it would have to be if for no other reason than to hold enough battery(s) and electronics to have sufficent power and still get good run time. The size of the recevier and the vibrator bullet makes me think this thing has some punch... but wonder if more bullets could wired in, an examination of the current output circuit and an ampmeter would tell the tale. If necessary, power switching transistors could possably be replaced or an amp stage added... looks like I have some shoppiing to do...

Well, it works! (sorta)

Some issues of adjustment, I was using a vibrator that really wasn;t made for harness use, so a bit pinchy at times if adjusted wrong. Put buckles on today and it makes it rather easier to adjust.

Exciteher: had also planned for a way to hold the labia lips open and leave the clit exposed if not pushed out, but the O-ring I planned for it is slightly small and has to be adjusted just perfectly...leaves room for fun manipulation though anyway.

Am going to now look into making a leather straps version. I will post pictures of version 1.0 as soon as I get my digital back from a friend. cheers!

Maggie8 said:

Well, it works! (sorta)

Some issues of adjustment, I was using a vibrator that really wasn;t made for harness use, so a bit pinchy at times if adjusted wrong. Put buckles on today and it makes it rather easier to adjust.

Exciteher: had also planned for a way to hold the labia lips open and leave the clit exposed if not pushed out, but the O-ring I planned for it is slightly small and has to be adjusted just perfectly...leaves room for fun manipulation though anyway.

Am going to now look into making a leather straps version. I will post pictures of version 1.0 as soon as I get my digital back from a friend. cheers!

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Pictures of ver. 1.0 and perhaps a description of the development process and what seemed to work best, and what did not, to go with them would be appreciated!!
Sounds like you are coming up with a very adaptable harness system!
Impressive!

Having a hard (lol!..but fun!) time visualizing how you have designed this to maintain a clear frontal (mons and clit) exposure... you mention looking into making a leather strap version, what are you using for straps now??? I was thinking the straps would have to be very thin/small so as not to get in the way.? A lot of harness setups I have seen seem to block easy access to clit and labia... indeed cover all that... sounds like you have solved that problem somehow!

Was just now thinking that a larger than required o-ring that was cut, and the two ends run through a small sleeve or o-ring could make an adjustable o-ring...would work sort of like a bolo type necktie?

Maggie8 said:

Well, it works! (sorta)

Some issues of adjustment, I was using a vibrator that really wasn;t made for harness use, so a bit pinchy at times if adjusted wrong. Put buckles on today and it makes it rather easier to adjust.

Exciteher: had also planned for a way to hold the labia lips open and leave the clit exposed if not pushed out, but the O-ring I planned for it is slightly small and has to be adjusted just perfectly...leaves room for fun manipulation though anyway.

Am going to now look into making a leather straps version. I will post pictures of version 1.0 as soon as I get my digital back from a friend. cheers!

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I hope that you haven't posted further results because you are too busy using it to post and not that you have given up. I would like to see some photos, also. Thanks.

Have a great weekend,

Have found seomthign close

Thought I would share what I have found.

v1.0 was ok, but my sewing skills are not enough to make it looked "finished". Will still try later though.

Have not tried the following as it is too expensive at the moment and we are buying a house...got to watch the pennies.

Enjoy!

http://www.extremerestraints.com/female-butt-plug-and-dildo-harness_1295.html

Thank you for sharing, been looking for something like that for a while. I will have to check the budget and see how it goes.