Adultfriencfiner versus other personals for sex?

biggieds

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Hey guys.

I am in the mood for sexual expiermentation and am trapped at home from college this summer.

I googled "free sex personals" and adultfriendfinder came up. It looks convincing but a friend of mine says that the women who have tried it on Lit had issues with it... not to mention its a tad costly.

What are your thoughts? Is it the best for meeting people for sex?

Or are other personals just as good?

What else is out there?

Thanks,
Dave
 
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I think you will be extremely lucky to have luck with adult ff or even here for that matter. Of course if you are not to picky and have no fear of std's you have a chance to make a meeting here. But that is just our experience here and aff.

The best things just seem to happen! But you have no info about who you are or what you would like to do so your chances are dimished.
 
Works for me

I have met several ladies from Lit and had a Grrrr8 time and so did they I'm still in touch with all of them and we get together every now and then for adult fun.
You just have to take your time and you will find what your looking for.


p.s. I would advise that you NOT listen to whiny losers like beachtime.
 
Well I've used AFF...even paid for it a while. Met a few girls off there...had some good sex...and met a couple of bitches...it'll be what you take out of it...but remember on AFF most of the women there are bots...and most of the women also get tons of e-mails a day, mostly from desperate guys wanting a quick lay.
 
I'm going to suggest CraigsList. I use http://dallas.craigslist.org/ and they have listings for various locations. Go to the personals and look under casual encounters. It's free and if you make a good ad you can get noticed.
 
to biggieds (Dave)

See what I mean Dave. There are all kinds on this site. Get to know who you are talking to.

And more info does create more interest.
 
I've tried AFF and have had nothing but disappointment on that site, as well as date.com and match.com. I, too, have met one or two very interesting people on this site, but I've also had some pretty good local luck from loveaccess.com. For $35, you'll get a lifetime subscription to do whatever you please on that site. So, that's my two cents kids...
 
I had pretty good luck on AFF...just used the free portion and met a few really nice guys...Had some really good sex with a couple of them and met my current bf there...my best friend tried it looking for a bi-experience and actually got quite a few responses, met one woman and then chickened out. On the other hand, my ex husband tried it and got very little response...i've heard its just easier for the women than for the men!!
 
Ashleey said:
I had pretty good luck on AFF...just used the free portion and met a few really nice guys...Had some really good sex with a couple of them and met my current bf there...my best friend tried it looking for a bi-experience and actually got quite a few responses, met one woman and then chickened out. On the other hand, my ex husband tried it and got very little response...i've heard its just easier for the women than for the men!!

Well in all honesty its the womens pick on that site...the ratio of horny guys to females is just huge...a guy can send out a ton of e-mails and maybe not even get a response...have had that happen before...was different this year...and was nice...met a couple of girls..nothing really long term or so...but eh ya know how it goes. If you want a good example of that...go to the groups [can access as a free member] and look at any post where a woman wants to meet...or a couple is holding a party...within a day at least 6-10 single guys have responded wanting to join in...and most aren't always so polite...heh
 
Ashleey said:
I had pretty good luck on AFF...just used the free portion and met a few really nice guys...Had some really good sex with a couple of them and met my current bf there...my best friend tried it looking for a bi-experience and actually got quite a few responses, met one woman and then chickened out. On the other hand, my ex husband tried it and got very little response...i've heard its just easier for the women than for the men!!

I was paying member of AFF for awhile and other dating services. I think this quote pretty much sums up the situation for all of them. There will always be more men looking than women so will always be harder for men. Some sites are free to women just to try to improve the ratio. This is also the way dating works in real world. Far more frequent for men to approach women. Just spend an evening at a bar to observe this. Good deal for women they just sit back and play hockey goalie.
 
tim66 said:
I was paying member of AFF for awhile and other dating services. I think this quote pretty much sums up the situation for all of them. There will always be more men looking than women so will always be harder for men. Some sites are free to women just to try to improve the ratio. This is also the way dating works in real world. Far more frequent for men to approach women. Just spend an evening at a bar to observe this. Good deal for women they just sit back and play hockey goalie.


Exactly!! in eight days, i'd gotten over 50 separate responses..most of which seemed on the up and up. My husband on the other hand got only a few responses and most of those were porn site ads!!
 
Ashleey said:
Exactly!! in eight days, i'd gotten over 50 separate responses..most of which seemed on the up and up. My husband on the other hand got only a few responses and most of those were porn site ads!!


Oh yea...I forgot about all of those. That shit drives me nutz...cheesy sites exploiting the fact that regular guys are looking for love (and/or lust) just to get them a few hits and to cheat people out of their money. It is true though...pretty much all dating sites are a woman's paradise, and a man's hell just for the fact that the men are usually getting cheated by constantly getting said cheesy ads as responses to serious inquiries. Oh well, I guess I've ranted enough, huh? :confused:
 
AFF--been there, done that, and had some success. My hubby and I have a currently inactive couples profile, and we've been around the site long enough to get a feel for the dynamics.

You probably don't want to hear this, but on AFF, single men are a dime a dozen. The ratio of men to women is, I've heard, 7:1. I've even heard 10:1. I'm not sure if that's with or without all the spammers, fakes, bots, and men pretending to be women. Single men who are standard members probably won't get the time of day from too many people, nor will they be able to look at many profiles or contact many other members. However, the odds don't increase all that much for men who have a Silver or Gold membership, unless you can make your profile stand out from all the others.

Dick pics--don't even go there, unless you're looking to pick up gay men. Seriously. If you MUST include a picture of your cock, don't make it your main profile pic. Some women will not respond to men who send cock pics, or no pic, for that matter. They also don't like being treated as if they're part of the menu on an all-you-can-fuck sex buffet, so be respectful. Even though they're looking for sex (not necessarily a relationship), most of them want to get to know you before they jump into bed with you.

If a "woman" contacts you and her pics look too good to be true, then they probably are. If you get a link to another site, it's a fake profile that's a front for a pay site. AFF will remove them if you report them.

Some people are into the fantasy, but will disappear when it's time for a RL meeting.

Make sure you can handle rejection, because most of the guys there get a lot of it.

It's your decision. Be safe and good luck.
 
Eilan said:
Some people are into the fantasy, but will disappear when it's time for a RL meeting.

That is so true. I know that if I get 10 hits in a week I might get lucky and meet one of them.
 
Missingmeds said:
That is so true. I know that if I get 10 hits in a week I might get lucky and meet one of them.
I'm SO glad we had a standard membership. We had decent enough success without paying for it, but I think that's pretty typical for women and couples.

We had to be pretty up front about what we were looking for, and even then we got messages from people who clearly weren't a match. I think that some people look at the pics but don't read the profiles.
 
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Eilan said:
I'm SO glad we had a standard membership. We had decent enough success without paying for it, but I think that's pretty typical for woman and couples.

We had to be pretty up front about what we were looking for, and even then we got messages from people who clearly weren't a match. I think that some people look at the pics but don't read the profiles.

I agree and it doesn't seem to matter how specific you are either about what you are looking for.
 
styxitnu said:
p.s. I would advise that you NOT listen to whiny losers like beachtime.
I don't think someone who advises another person to exercise caution and have realistic expectations when it comes to the realm of online "adult" dating is being a whiner. Or a loser, for that matter.
 
tim66 said:
Eilan,

I am from Springfield MO. Are you from MO?
Sorry. My "location" refers to the home address of the Simpsons. I don't live anywhere near a Springfield. :)
 
Eh sad to say its mostly true...best way to seperate yourself though...is be yourself...most of the guys on there are rude, overly horny ppl who are just a massive turnoff to a lot of the women.
 
personality plus

I agree. Sex is at least as much of a mental thing as a physical one. To many people are all about "give me what I want -- NOW." Gone are the days of enjoying getting to know about someone so that when you are wtih them in an intimate situation it can be better for everyone.

Sigh.

I guess I've become an old timer.

ZZ
 
I've used AFF a few times and had a little success with it. I met a few wonderful ladies on it. I am a male and so I paid for a silver membership. I got one reply for every 20 or so I sent out. Course I'm a larger guy a tad overweight and 99% of the ladies out there can be picky and just choose hard bodies. Not all are that way but many were. We'd have nice conversations and then they'd request a pic and whammo..."sorry your not what I am looking for"..lol Hopefully you're in good shape AND a gentleman..then you might have a shot! Good luck!!
 
"free" classifieds

I wish I could find a "free" classifieds...tried aff but to do anything you need to pay...Have just started here myself but haven't actually met anyone yet...chatted with a few, but no experiences.
 
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