I have a conundrum.

[Jada59]

Jada, i think you need to avoid all three of these guys to break out the vicious circle you appear to be in.

If you do not have any luck finding a nice man that likes sex, then change where you are looking, i would have thought Lit personals would be ideal.

I have met two guys from here in person. I think one just stopped by. Don’t think he’s a regular. We met because he asked about restaurants here as he would be needing to stop for dinner on his way home. I would not call it a date. It was fine though.

The other guy came to my dinner party. Thus was several years ago. We had already chatted and I’m pretty sure we both knew we had nothing in common. It was still cool that he showed up though!

 

[Jada59]

I find it interesting to find we each have different ideas on what @Jada59 is looking for. Our interpretations slightly diffrent. Would it be inpolite to hold a vote?

The advise is unanimous.

I’m looking for a guy who likes sex but also wants a long term relationship. I tell people that if I only wanted sex, I’d go to Bert’s tavern. I do joke though. I’ve never actually been there. It might not even be that kind of place. But I don’t drink so I guess I’ll never know.

I also know that a lot of men will tell you whatever they think you want to hear so they can get sex. It’s often obvious but sometimes not.

Ah well. Things seem to be getting better but rather not make a public comment that’s any more specific.

Thanks for your input!

 

[TheLateNightFantasy]

Thanks for your input!

Your welcome.

I Think our needs are fairly similar. Although Im in the UK, let's say I've only been to Burt's Tavern once. I soon decided its not my idea of intimacy.