How Do I get laid?
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Why is it a bad thing? I'm 22 and I've never had sex....
oh!
1. You're so cute! Why did I have the impression you were lots older?
2. Getting laid. Well, if you haven't yet, you either need to loosen up & get more confident, or lower your standards. Waiting for someone worth banging is an good thing, Snoopy.
I get the impression you've got quite a few friendly folks here at Lit - why not hook up with one of them who's local?
SnoopDog said:
1. You're so cute! Why did I have the impression you were lots older?
2. Getting laid. Well, if you haven't yet, you either need to loosen up & get more confident, or lower your standards. Waiting for someone worth banging is an good thing, Snoopy.
I get the impression you've got quite a few friendly folks here at Lit - why not hook up with one of them who's local?
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watergirl said:
Well, confidence is a problem I have to admit, but how should you gather confidence when you never had any positive experiences. (God I think I'd be the happiest guy in the world if I ever got hit on, lol)
My standards are pretty low, i'd get down with anything that looks just like a girl (and then probably with guys as well, lolol)
And the Lit people are nowhere near me.
But thnx for the advice sweetheart. (And thnx for your av, lololol)
Snoopy
SnoopDog said:
You've got a very nice pic thread going over there! I like the early pics that tease rather than reveal. I think once you do find a girl, you'll be able to keep her around no problem - you seem like a total sweetheart & you're a hot!
Maybe if enough people here at Lit feed your ego, you'll start to walk like you know you're all that & a bag of chips!
NOW STAND UP STRAIGHT!!! I can't tell if you're as tall as I think, but it seems like you slouch in a lot of your pictures - you need to stand up straight, slouching & hunching is not sexy.
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watergirl said:
Thnx for that.
On the one hand it's great that there are people here who find the right and kind words. On the other hand it's sad that there's only online people who do so, no real people. But it's more than nothing, right?You know, if an ego-boost would be the sideeffect, I'd be happy about it.
Snoopy
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See edited post - POSTURE! You've got to stand up straight and not slouch, I notice in a lot of your pics you are slouching. If that is to fit more of you into the frame of the picture, move the camera farther away! Attitude is sexy.
SnoopDog said:Thnx for that.
You know, if an ego-boost would be the sideeffect, I'd be happy about it.
Snoopy
See edited post - POSTURE! You've got to stand up straight and not slouch, I notice in a lot of your pics you are slouching. If that is to fit more of you into the frame of the picture, move the camera farther away! Attitude is sexy.
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watergirl said:
Umm... do my eyes deceive me or do you have INVERTED NIPPLES?!?
GROSS!! Put them away!!
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Eating_Scarlett said:
Having been with someone who has inverted nips, it's hard to tell if they are inverted since she is laying down. THey don't appear to be to me.
Either way... inverted are just the same once they get hard so what's the big frickin deal you pycho nutjob?
Lol
no worries. I have ES on ignore cause it's a raving lunatic. But thanks for hopping to my defense, Cakegirl & Snoopy! (I like my tits, never fear. hell, Lancecastor likes my tits. What's not to like about them?)
lol
SnoopDog said:
no worries. I have ES on ignore cause it's a raving lunatic. But thanks for hopping to my defense, Cakegirl & Snoopy! (I like my tits, never fear. hell, Lancecastor likes my tits. What's not to like about them?)
lol
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My Ex had an inverted nipple. No biggie. Its all what makes us different, from our ears to our navels. If it was inverted, I'd just tease it, lick it and make it erect, no problem.
As for Snoopy ! Don't feel so bad, I didn't loose my virginity until age 23. Or was it 24? I dunno, but who cares? When you start having sex and dating a few women, you will soon realize that it is not the quantity that matters, but the quality of the sex that is important !
As for Snoopy ! Don't feel so bad, I didn't loose my virginity until age 23. Or was it 24? I dunno, but who cares? When you start having sex and dating a few women, you will soon realize that it is not the quantity that matters, but the quality of the sex that is important !
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Amen to that.TirelessTongue said:When you start having sex and dating a few women, you will soon realize that it is not the quantity that matters, but the quality of the sex that is important !
Snoop, you look like a decent enough bloke. I'd do you in a heartbeat but there's a problem with the distance plus I don't think my man likes to share me. How about this then? Changing your mindset. Instead of zero-ing into getting laid, go out and talk to girls because you're genuinely interested in them. After a time you never know, you might just get lucky.
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I'm a virgin at 28, and I'm proud of what I am, there's no rush for sex, just enjoy life. There's more important things in life to think about than just sex.
Although, I am starting to get bored of being lonely and Im hoping to lose my virginity to a woman this year. You can't lose a virginity to a man though, the only way to lose a virginity is to do it in a woman's vagina. So if you have sex with a man first before a woman, you'd still be a virgin.
Although, I am starting to get bored of being lonely and Im hoping to lose my virginity to a woman this year. You can't lose a virginity to a man though, the only way to lose a virginity is to do it in a woman's vagina. So if you have sex with a man first before a woman, you'd still be a virgin.
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I agree... I would focus more on just getting to know people. Sex is so much more meaningful and pleasurable if the people involved care about each other.
I agree... I would focus more on just getting to know people. Sex is so much more meaningful and pleasurable if the people involved care about each other.
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Trinique_Fire
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I'll flirt with you Snoopy...we all need a little flirting sometimes.
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Define virginity
Wow. Never heard that one before. So, if you'd never had sex before and then did anal with a woman, you'd still be a virgin? Would she still be a virgin? Is PIV intercourse the only gold standard for virginity? *shrugs* You learn something new every day.
I'm not trying to be bitchy, but I'd just never really heard this before. I'm more than willing to be enlightened, though.
GuitarRocker said:
Wow. Never heard that one before. So, if you'd never had sex before and then did anal with a woman, you'd still be a virgin? Would she still be a virgin? Is PIV intercourse the only gold standard for virginity? *shrugs* You learn something new every day.
I'm not trying to be bitchy, but I'd just never really heard this before. I'm more than willing to be enlightened, though.
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Nice conversation doesn't hurt either.
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TirelessTongue said:
Well, actually i'm much more bothered about being lonely. And I really look for a relation, not just sex. To me sex is honestly only second after being in love. BUT you sometimes, like when I started this thread, when you wonder what a woman feels like, how she smells and how her lips taste you just crave for sex. It's an overwhelming need that has to be satisfied. And when it's not - plus, when it'S not for a long time - it get's difficult.
krazeekat said:
Well, he sure is clever not to share something gorgeous like you.
And I REALLY AM SERIUOSLY interested in them. Didn't mean this to sound like i'm the 'fuck-her-leave-her'-type of guy.
studentoflife said:
See above.
Trinique_Fire said:I'll flirt with you Snoopy...we all need a little flirting sometimes.
That's nice. Flirting is great, I wish women would to that with me in RL.Snoopy
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I agree, Snoopy, you need to just get out and meet people, join some clubs, go to church, a bookstore, WHATEVER. But definately, get some self-esteem, ego boost, confidence, whatever you want to call it. It's a mind-set, you don't need someone to do it for you, JUST GET IN THE MIND SET.
Try some self-help books, they can really give a person a lot of insight.
Trust me, women FLOCK to confident men. IF you feel great about yourself, other ppl will too and soon you'll have more chicks than you know what to do with.
Dont' worry so much about your age and such, it will happen when it does.
KEEP THE FAITH!
Try some self-help books, they can really give a person a lot of insight.
Trust me, women FLOCK to confident men. IF you feel great about yourself, other ppl will too and soon you'll have more chicks than you know what to do with.
Dont' worry so much about your age and such, it will happen when it does.
KEEP THE FAITH!
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Arent hookers legal in Germany?
GuitarRocker
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Also, dude, you should try the opportunity in hooking up with women in Lit, I'm sure there's many sex crazed women that'll have sex with any guy that flirts with them. If you're lucky enough to hook up with a woman in Lit, you may either take a bus trip or plane trip to go meet them in person. There is a personals section in Lit where you can do this.
