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[SweetCuriousDarling]

I’ve found lit and a few other boards extremely useful in working through my own kinks, and I think I’m the better for it. It’s a place where you can speak openly and find people who feel the same way or have had similar thoughts. The fascination of reading people open up about their sexuality never gets old, there are always surprises, and to be honest, it’s frequently very hot indeed!

I completely agree with this. Sites like this have been extremely helpful in working through my own desires and kinks, as well, all safely within the anonymity of the internet. It's great to be able to cast off the judgment and talk and read and play with other people, all without having to worry about real-world consequences. It truly allows you to discover who you really are, sexually, and why you feel the way you do about the things that excite you. It allows you to push boundaries you might not be able to in real life, for fears of all kinds. The freedom is intoxicating and delicious. I don't think I would know so much about my own sexuality now, and have gained the confidence to take the steps I now have in the real world, if it wasn't for the ability to have these kinds of safe online explorations.

 

[magic_rat]

Sites like this have been extremely helpful in working through my own desires and kinks, as well, all safely within the anonymity of the internet.

I have no problems talking to friends or people I know in the scene about kinks. Most of my friends are either swingers or kinksters or both and most are very open about their kinks, and many can actually track that kink back to a particular moment in time that set things in motion.

So, while I can quite happily tell a ladyfriend that I've been to a gay sauna where 5 guys took turns fucking me and spit-roasting me, or how I love how humiliated I feel to have a strange man hold me down and fuck me like a dirty little slut (this paid dividends; the lady in question was very inexperienced with anal but let me fuck her arse because I knew how it felt and therefore wouldn't hurt her) I feel way too ashamed to tell her what led me to that or why I offer my arse to strange men or suck strange cocks.

For that it only works with strangers. I've still never told anyone. I want to but I've never taken that final step.

It's great to be able to cast off the judgment and talk and read and play with other people, all without having to worry about real-world consequences.

In truth there probably would be no 'real-world' consequences. My friends are very non-judgemental. I'm just to scared to give that information to anyone I know.

I don't think I would know so much about my own sexuality now, and have gained the confidence to take the steps I now have in the real world, if it wasn't for the ability to have these kinds of safe online explorations.

I'm the opposite. All explorations of my sexuality have been in the real world, I guess because though I've been on lit for about 20 years, my sexuality was already fully formed by the time I got here.

My life has taken some wild twists and turns over the last few years, I'm now in a swinging relationship and i'm having more sex with more people than when I was a teenager, but it's all just building on that early formative experience. Sometimes I'm desperate to tell someone, it feels like I'll explode if I don't. I've thought about writing it as a story, but it all happened at a non-lit friendly age.

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

Idk why, but admitting my kinks and confessing my perverted thoughts to strangers turns me on so much. I log on and exchange messages and instantly my panties are soaked. I have no choice but to masturbate when I log in.
Telling nympho strangers all of my forbidden / taboo ideas makes me cum so hard. Its what keeps me addicted to this site.
[Even typing this is turning me on
*grabs dildo*]
Anyone else can relate??

After checking notifications, reading msgs/forum posts and listening to Lit audio, I started slowly grinding and squeezing my thighs together. Then I felt a gush of wetness. I squirted on myself.
I need my 12 inch bbc dildo in me ASAP...

 

[Justfantasies]

After checking notifications, reading msgs/forum posts and listening to Lit audio, I started slowly grinding and squeezing my thighs together. Then I felt a gush of wetness. I squirted on myself.
I need my 12 in bbc in me ASAP...

Are they really as big as they say?

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

Are they really as big as they say?

My dildo

 

[magic_rat]

Are they really as big as they say?

Black guys? No. Some are big, some are not. Just like white guys.

But nobody fetishises white guys.

 

[magic_rat]

My dildo

Her dildo is as big as she says.

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

Black guys? No. Some are big, some are not. Just like white guys.

But nobody fetishises white guys.

I like older, rich, sexless marriage, business white men

 

[aya_amano]

The reason I come here is to read and talk about sex.

I have a few friends (and family) that know about my sex life but only online I can exchange stories and hear or read from similar experienced people.

 

[Topher1972]

Idk why, but admitting my kinks and confessing my perverted thoughts to strangers turns me on so much. I log on and exchange messages and instantly my panties are soaked. I have no choice but to masturbate when I log in.
Telling nympho strangers all of my forbidden / taboo ideas makes me cum so hard. Its what keeps me addicted to this site.
[Even typing this is turning me on
*grabs dildo*]
Anyone else can relate??

I also get off on doing this. As a man my kinks, fantasies and experiences are taboo and looked down on by many in society. But here I find there are so many just like me and into the same things.

 

[Sgts19]

It's sort of like edging for me. I love to talk about our real adventures with others as I sure can't talk about them with my friends, they have no idea. The only people besides us and our 2 best friends who are involved in most of adventures. Add the couple others who hooked up with. We all have our different kinks and I sure many of them aren't known to your real-life friends. Whatever floats your boat is fine with me

 

[boo56]

I like older, rich, sexless marriage, business white men

Some of us feel sadly under-qualified.

 

[dr2brd]

I have to admit I’m completely obsessed sexually with my wife. But she is a respectable member of society with successful career and even some media presence. Whom could I tell how much she loves to suck cock or how deep could I insert my finger into her asshole? I’ve had two closest friends who were more or less familiar with our sex life but one of them passed away by COVID and another one lives faraway for years and our online communication is gradually fading. So strangers of Lit are my greatest source of pleasure I have talking about my wife

 

[chrisxxx9876]

Idk why, but admitting my kinks and confessing my perverted thoughts to strangers turns me on so much. I log on and exchange messages and instantly my panties are soaked. I have no choice but to masturbate when I log in.
Telling nympho strangers all of my forbidden / taboo ideas makes me cum so hard. Its what keeps me addicted to this site.
[Even typing this is turning me on
*grabs dildo*]
Anyone else can relate??

Yes I can relate,My turnons are so weird and stuff I would never want for real but talking and fantasies about it gets my cock throbbing ,Would love to play sometime

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Never in writing, never on the internet

 

[R34D]

This may not fit your criteria, but it took me long enough, but I finally told my therapist about some of my kinks, and she was very supportive.

I would love to confess my kinks to a therapist.

 

[Justfantasies]

I would love to confess my kinks to a therapist.

A decade or so ago, I admitted my kinks to a therapist and ended up sleeping with her

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

It feels so good when someone is getting off on things I shouldn't tell them, things I shouldn't tell strangers, things I should just keep to myself

Exactly

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

I would love to confess my kinks to a therapist.

Tell me

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

A decade or so ago, I admitted my kinks to a therapist and ended up sleeping with her

thats hot

 

[Justfantasies]

thats hot

so was she

 

[RoanMtn]

I would love to confess my kinks to a therapist.

My therapist has since retired, and I don't have the energy to find a new therapist and start from scratch. Plus, I don't know if I could ever have that level of trust again.

 

[AprilTwenties]

I got told to write up my shit by my owner. She told me to be truthful and, it is a turn on boo....I do some twisted shit for her and telling people makes me feel really fuckin' cheap...which really turns me on more.

I seem to thrive on this shit.

A x

 

[amigayorbi]

I just confessed something on DM just now! It’s liberating and exciting

 

[Deleted member 4038640]

I just confessed something on DM just now! It’s liberating and exciting

Please tell