Looking for a lady to join me on my lit journey.

jay49in25

Silver Tongued Devil
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I’ve been here off and on since the late 90s. I found the forums after fun via chat taking a long break when I got married. I returned here close to ten years ago, one again searching for the “quick fix”. As I’ve gotten older my tastes have progressed from something quick to something more long term. I would prefer getting acquainted, and dare I say even becoming friends with each other.

My longest “litship” lasted just over two years. When it ended I left the site once again, only to return about a year and a half ago. Since then I made a couple friends along the way. Most left me, I parted with others. I swore off the site about 8 or 9 months ago because it seems much harder these days to find a woman willing to talk and find a connection. But, like many others I suppose I find myself addicted. This brings you up to speed on my journey so far, where it goes now will depend a lot on you.

I wish to find a lady who is comfortable with sharing day to day life and also naughty enough to share in online only fun. I’m not gonna jump at you with anything that could be viewed as pushy, and I think you’ll find me respectful and patient.

I can converse with you on just about anything, as a matter of fact recently a woman told me they don’t like long messages and preferred short sentences. Just know you cannot talk too much.
I’m very much a homebody who’s interests include binge watching, sports, all things spooky, and I like getting out to snap a few pics in nature especially since it’s fall. I’m a bigger guy, out of shape with no real motivation to change that. I am groomed and work in a professional setting. I’m cute, been called a teddy bear more than once and handsome a couple times. I have more free time during the work day, but don’t completely vanish in the evenings…although I do enjoy my sleep. 😆

I live in the Eastern time zone (if that matters to you) it doesn’t to me. I’m open to chatting with a lady from the west coast or Europe, or the UK, or anywhere. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and I like women with different shapes and sizes, but I do like a pretty face above just about anything.

Reach out, don’t be afraid to say hello. I’ve always thought it doesn’t take much to exchange a few messages and give things a space to develop if it doesn’t come easy (as the song says) just let it go. Enough rambling, my inbox has space just for you!
 
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