Straight guys who like gay sex

[Escierto]

When I stop to think about it, the sexual activity that my girlfriend and I engage in (sucking her cock or her cock fucking my ass) is exactly the same kind of sexual activity engaged in by gay couples. No difference. If she was a guy instead of a trans woman, I would be a gay guy. So really what difference does it make?

 

[JohnnyNotCraig]

I would still say the OP is bisexual because I identify as bi and pretty much feel the same way. I’m attracted to women (trans women included) but like love sex with guys and love a throbbing cock.

 

[naughty_stories]

I prefer the term heteroflexible

 

[SPARTAN047]

I like the term. I might have gone with it but now I'd be homoflexible .

 

[Yarglenurp]

I don’t like gay sex in the sexual sense, but I do love reading stories about it. Gay dudes seem way more into being willing to be rough with each other, pushing their partners to do super weird shit, and just maxing out the kinky stuff.

 

[naughty_stories]

I have to agree with this. I love women. Their shape and feel, etc. However sexually, I have found, as I got older, I have accepted the idea of having an orgasm from a guy (being stroked or sucked) is ok. Now there has to be a lot of trust there for me. And maybe I will reach a point where fucking him may be fun. However in the long run, sex with women would still win out.

The hedonist in me drives this for me. Having said all that, I have zero interest in kissing or cuddling a man, nor anything to do with another man’s cock. I don’t want to suck him, stroke him, see him cum, I am just not turned on by it. Perhaps this is selfish some of you may say, but if I am being honest with someone and clear about expectations I don’t think so.

Trying to avoid the labels, I don’t consider myself gay or bi, just interested and flexible.

kinda like you know the likelihood of a woman being on the other side of that hole is practically nil but you stick your cock through anyway.

 

[Swuq]

I don’t like gay sex in the sexual sense, but I do love reading stories about it. Gay dudes seem way more into being willing to be rough with each other, pushing their partners to do super weird shit, and just maxing out the kinky stuff.

As a bi bottom, I will confirm that bottoms are more slutty than the vast majority of women. The tops I meet are usually married and not getting fulfilled by their wives.

When they top their bottoms, there is a lot of sexual frustration released in rough/aggressive sexual.

 

[J1biboi]

I have to agree with this. I love women. Their shape and feel, etc. However sexually, I have found, as I got older, I have accepted the idea of having an orgasm from a guy (being stroked or sucked) is ok. Now there has to be a lot of trust there for me. And maybe I will reach a point where fucking him may be fun. However in the long run, sex with women would still win out.

The hedonist in me drives this for me. Having said all that, I have zero interest in kissing or cuddling a man, nor anything to do with another man’s cock. I don’t want to suck him, stroke him, see him cum, I am just not turned on by it. Perhaps this is selfish some of you may say, but if I am being honest with someone and clear about expectations I don’t think so.

Trying to avoid the labels, I don’t consider myself gay or bi, just interested and flexible.

I see nothing at all wrong with the way you feel. Not selfish at all. Some of us would just be happy to suck your cock, not expect or even want any thing in return.

 

[Lustopia]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes).

Yo, brother. I am so totally a straight guy who loves to suck cock. If you met me you'd never guess I give mean head and take it up the ass. I call myself bisexual, because it is what it is. Also, a queer hetero. I'm not gender fluid, (if I understand the term correctly.) I feel like a guy. (he, him) A partysexual.

When I go to the grocery store I'm like a normal hetero guy. Without thinking I check out the hot babes and rarely, if ever, check out guys, unless the situation is overtly sexual like in a night club.

I'm incapable of "falling in love" with a guy. I only get that type of romantic feeling with women. With guys, sex seems more like playing sports, we're good buddies cumming together. I also really dig that spontaneous sex thing that can sometimes happen with a guy. A bit of flirting, signal received. Zip! I am on my knees with a total stranger fucking my face. That is not how women roll outside of a vetted swing scene.

I've had problems, back in the day, with gay guys falling in love with me, getting jealous and possessive and then pissed at me, thinking I'm not being honest with myself about my sexually. I've been kind of cautious with gay men ever since.

But the fact is I love women and have never been confused about that. I've found that having sex with so-called straight guys like you is best. Or with truly straight guys playing the Bull in wife sharing threesome arrangements, with levels of male-to-male contact ranging from zero to full on sodomy. It's all good.

 

[Yarglenurp]

As a bi bottom, I will confirm that bottoms are more slutty than the vast majority of women. The tops I meet are usually married and not getting fulfilled by their wives.

When they top their bottoms, there is a lot of sexual frustration released in rough/aggressive sexual.

And I presume you enjoy this level of roughness?

 

[Swuq]

And I presume you enjoy this level of roughness?

Yes I do. The best tops I have had showed no mercy. They used me for their needs and release their sexual frustrations.

 

[Escierto]

Yes I do. The best tops I have had showed no mercy. They used me for their needs and release their sexual frustrations.

I can understand what you are saying completely lol.

 

[Swuq]

I can understand what you are saying completely lol.

Ty. My satisfaction is a dominant physically superior man and the cum he leaves in me.

 

[Escierto]

Ty. My satisfaction is a dominant physically superior man and the cum he leaves in me.

Exactly how I feel about my girl and her dominant superior cock and the copious amounts of cum she deposits up my ass!

 

[Swuq]

Exactly how I feel about my girl and her dominant superior cock and the copious amounts of cum she deposits up my ass!

The feeling of aftersex is hard to measure. Laying spent in bed feeling his cum leak down my ass.

 

[Yarglenurp]

The feeling of aftersex is hard to measure. Laying spent in bed feeling his cum leak down my ass.

Man, that sounds fun. If only I was gay.

 

[Swuq]

Man, that sounds fun. If only I was gay.

Only gay with men.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

As a bi bottom, I will confirm that bottoms are more slutty than the vast majority of women. The tops I meet are usually married and not getting fulfilled by their wives.

When they top their bottoms, there is a lot of sexual frustration released in rough/aggressive sexual.

That's a fact. As a bottom I feel it is my obligation to fulfill a mans needs, and satisfy him and way he wants. I think most of us are like that. Personally I feel every man should experience being with a submissive who lives to please them.

 

[Swuq]

That's a fact. As a bottom I feel it is my obligation to fulfill a mans needs, and satisfy him and way he wants. I think most of us are like that. Personally I feel every man should experience being with a submissive who lives to please them.

I have been told by a few tops I was the best fuck they ever had. Try harder and he will cum back.

 

[Escierto]

That's a fact. As a bottom I feel it is my obligation to fulfill a mans needs, and satisfy him and way he wants. I think most of us are like that. Personally I feel every man should experience being with a submissive who lives to please them.

A few trans girls have experienced being satisfied the way she wants, one in particular lol.

 

[Wanking_Frank]

I prefer the term heteroflexible

Same, though I generally use bi
At one time I used heteroflexible on a dating profile but I prefer to stay in the closet because I come across people I know on there, and I have also found that being up front about things like this leads to fewer matches.

As it turns out women say they are LGBTQ friendly and maybe they are, but that seems not to be who they prefer to date.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I have been told by a few tops I was the best fuck they ever had. Try harder and he will cum back.

Oh they always want more of my hot pussy and I let them do whatever they want.

 

[Yarglenurp]

Same, though I generally use bi
At one time I used heteroflexible on a dating profile but I prefer to stay in the closet because I come across people I know on there, and I have also found that being up front about things like this leads to fewer matches.

As it turns out women say they are LGBTQ friendly and maybe they are, but that seems not to be who they prefer to date.

I thought “friendly” literally means they’re willing to be friends, right? Like, most women don’t date friends. Otherwise being in the friend zone wouldn’t be considered a bad thing.

 

[Wanking_Frank]

Yeah it's fine, we all have our dating preferences and being respectful and tolerant for a person and being willing to date them are two different things

I guess I am still surprised that if you otherwise match with someone that having previously had sex with men is a deal breaker for more than just a few.

It's to the point where I want to match only with pan, bi, or non-binary people so that if/when I tell them it's not an issue, in fact that's also often what they want

 

[magic_rat]

I guess I am still surprised that if you otherwise match with someone that having previously had sex with men is a deal breaker for more than just a few.

It was a deal-breaker with my partner; she thought it was hot that I had sex with guys, and we've had several bi 3somes.