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[jimbob8888]

So, I'm in a similar relationship where I'm the sub. My Domme does an incredible job at, not only taking care of me throughout, but also after - especially the ones where we tend to get very, very deep.

I think it's about the communication. It hasn't always been this amazing. I should say it's always been AMAZING, but like you there was something I was missing. We are very open with one another about our feelings. We both experience that drop - many times simultaneously - and we both try to make sure we are taking care of the other. It sounds weird now that I'm reading that, but hopefully it makes sense that the biggest thing is communication.

I know those relationships can be super sexual, but I'm order to truly care for one another, you need to be open with one another.

Wishing you luck!!!

 

[cascadiabound]

The moderators are volunteers who try to follow the stated policies of this free site to comply with US law, and the wishes of the owners. If you are confused about what is and is not okay to post and where, please read the stickies at the top of forums.
And if you think you can moderate better, maybe consider taking on that thankless unpaid job yourself.

 

[PaxNurgle]

It VERY CLEARLY says "Do Not Place Personal Ads Here" at the top of the forum. It's a sticky thread.

So even if you are a legitimate Mistress seeking a legitimate relationship with a sub, and NOT just a scammer (since these seem to be the most common type of personal ads posted here) that would still constitute a violation of the forum rules.

Believe me, I am seeking a mistress, and I WANT these ads to be legit, but the sad fact is most of them are not; and, well, when you place a personal ad in a forum where it clearly requests people not to do that, it does give an instant red flag.

 

[PaxNurgle]

Okay, so I really want to give you the benefit of the doubt here. One thing that has been happening a LOT lately on the forums, is a lot of scammers have been creating posts on here posing as dominant females. Most of them have very recent join dates. They will create new threads with enticing lead-ins like "Mistress seeking subs for intense sessions, message me, etc."

When guys reply to them, they get a message to chat with them on some paid sXx chat app like Zangi, which inevitably leads to requests for money before any kind of meet up (or even further conversation) ever takes place. Because there have been so many of these kinds of posts in the last few weeks, the admins have been very quick to judge people without much of a posting history as scammers, and don't give them a chance to prove otherwise.

So what I would recommend, if you are sincere (and it sounds like you are), is just hang out and get a feel for the forums. Maybe start by responding to existing threads but don't create new threads right away, and let other forum members get to know you and what you are about.

I admit, your weekend fun thread sounded legit, but I suspect the admin, seeing your lack of a posting history, may have read it as "seeking weekend fun? Call your New Mistress at xxxx and let's chat on Zangi (or whatever the paid chat app is.)" instead of just innocently trying to spark conversation. And if this is true, and your intentions were innocent then I feel bad.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I think the moderators around here are getting on Our Nerves!!!

I especially love that you referred to yourself in the plural right here.

People are giving you the benefit of the doubt because they do not see all of the fucking posts that I remove. You think I am getting on YOUR nerves, lol?

For reference, an account named @Tamikadunlop was created on 10/13 and banned 11/4 for spamming the forums and being an OBVIOUS scammer. Also reported for asking for $.

@Sexymistressdunlop account formed 10/29 and banned 11/4 for posting identical posts as the previous mentioned

@MistressTamika account formed 11/4 and opened by creating a thread identical to those that got the first two mentioned accounts banned. The fact that this person is trying a different angle now, doesn’t make them a safe one with whom to engage.

I promise you all I don’t jump to conclusions easily. And I’m fairly active here and remove content before many have seen it.

 

[RogerThat208]

I especially love that you referred to yourself in the plural right here.

People are giving you the benefit of the doubt because they do not see all of the fucking posts that I remove. You think I am getting on YOUR nerves, lol?

For reference, an account named @Tamikadunlop was created on 10/13 and banned 11/4 for spamming the forums and being an OBVIOUS scammer. Also reported for asking for $.

@Sexymistressdunlop account formed 10/29 and banned 11/4 for posting identical posts as the previous mentioned

@MistressTamika account formed 11/4 and opened by creating a thread identical to those that got the first two mentioned accounts banned. The fact that this person is trying a different angle now, doesn’t make them a safe one with whom to engage.

I promise you all I don’t jump to conclusions easily. And I’m fairly active here and remove content before many have seen it.

FWIW, a quick Google reverse image search of @Tamikadunlop's Lit profile pic shows that she's a SW.

She's advertising her sexual services on several different escort websites using a variety of names, contact methods, and purported locations scattered all around the USA.

None of those names are the same as what she's used here so far, but who knows what nom de guerre she'll choose next. My suggestion though—if asked—would probably be "BadPenny"

 

[cascadiabound]

I’m not a whore neither am I Am hookup girl so don’t just into conclusions!!! I’m a Massage therapist and I never came in here advertising any Sexual Services!!
So note that before misjudging!!

No one called you a whore

TPH explained herself quite clearly.

Break Lit rules, you'll get banned. We see spam and FinDom and other types of paid for solicitation here all the time. If you are hoping to monetize your relationships here I recommend you leave now. Otw, it'll just be a matter of time before you are banned.

Also FWIW you have not actually made any posts in other threads since you got that advice. It's possible you made other posts and they were removed for violating Lit rules.

I won't be inclined to give you any benefit of the doubt until you have at least a 20 post history that does not violate Lit rules.

Just saying.

 

[RogerThat208]

No one called you a whore

Actually, I kinda maybe sorta did use that term in my initial post. @ToPleaseHim thoughtfully opted to edit it to "SW" afterwards. That's fine with me too. I respect and appreciate her authority as a forum moderator, as well as the challenges that come with that role.

FWIW I didn't use the term lightly or without forethought though. Reading the menu of services offered on some of this lady's escort web listings was eye opening. Put differently, there doesn't appear to be much she won't do for the right price.

I'm not going to post those links here, for what should be obvious reasons. But I'm happy to share them with @ToPleaseHim should she so desire.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

And if I told you i wasn’t the one who go those Accounts huh??
I’m new here and I’m not the one who Created that!! Maybe it someone else trying to play dumb games but I’m not the one!! Then if you don’t want me here on this site then fine I could Exit it immediately!! Cause I never posted anything against the site rules neither did I comment anything against the rules!!
If it for my name!! I’ve tried many ways in changing that because i this mistress in it it’s what’s making them flag my account but no you claim that I’m here to reap someone that Not a nice word someone deserves to hear!!!
I understand and I’m sorry if You think I’m trying to play dumb games!! I getting my Account down from lit!! Thanks

You can scream until you’re blue in the face that you’re not behind other accounts. But, you’d be lying.

Mistress looking for a long term sub to train for a very long time
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Mistress looking for a long term sub to train for a very long time
Kinks:humiliation,pegging,chastity,ass worship,rope play,toilet play,feet worship, CBT,anal,bondage,joi,cei,cum,edging, sissy training if you ready
Telegram @ *************

I’m A Dom!!
I’m A Professional Mistress I guild my Sissy through humiliation,pegging,chastity,ass worship,rope play,toilet play,feet worship, CBT,anal,bondage,joi,cei,cum,edging, sissy training if you ready Are you willing to be my Little Sissy and have me as your mistress huh??

Mistress looking for a very submissive slave/sub to train and dominate for a long time Kinks:humiliation,pegging,chastity,ass worship,rope play,toilet play,feet worship,CBT,anal, bondage,joi,cei,cum, edging,sissy ,training ,sounds ,tease ,rape,Leather, PVC, Latex, Vintage, Business suits,Nurse’s uniform, Stockings, Boots, Stilettos she is on
Kik : *********
Telegram: ********
Zangi: ********

 

[ToPleaseHim]

There are dozens of accounts with identical posts. You’re not smart enough to do this here. Time for another new “write up,” @sexy_freya02?

 

[PaxNurgle]

She sounds like the ICanhelp/Hisarpy/HumpDayHoratio of the BDSM board, in other words. (to name drop another obvious troll who frequents other sub-forums on this site...)