Tricky kink to dom?

[oneagainst]

Usually one for the Author's Forum, but the question might be better here.... I'm in the middle of a story and it needs a part where a new Domme is asked for a challenging scene by a more experienced malesub. I don't mean technically tricky, like knot tying, but something more psychologically tricky and unusual, that would push her out of her comfort zone.

Can link to the story if it's of interest, but would rather hear from you of more left-field experiences or even just fantasies...?

 

[Kumquatqueen]

What's her comfort zone to begin with? And how reckless is he?

Perhaps he might want her to ignore words like 'no' and 'stop'? Or not use any safeword or signals at all?

Perhaps he wants more intense bruises, or harsh welts on his back that are likely to bleed, and she's not happy drawing blood?

He might want a scene that lasts a whole weekend, or a 24/7 D/s relationship, which she hadn't considered.

He might hope for being penetrated by her or an accomplice, she doesn't want anyone else involved while he's wanting 'forced' bisexuality.

Or he might want something physically risky like asphyxiation or piercing or a bullwhipping, that she isn't sure about or doesn't want to do.

Maybe he wants to be forced into a gimp suit and objectified, or spat on or be referred to in degrading terms, and she doesn't think of him that way?

Many ways to play it. Will she give him what he wants, or stick to what she wants from him? They'll need to find some compromises, if it's a remotely realistic story.

 

[PaxNurgle]

Can you be more specific about what the proposed scene entails, or do you not wish to have "Spoilers" yet?

 

[oneagainst]

Without spoilers, the characters I have in mind are both competent, professional people, not reckless. The Domme is the wife from Total Female Control.

I'm just working up the finishing touches to the sequel. Specifically, the scene needs to hit the following story target: she agrees to domme, but the sub is way more experienced and throws in some esoteric kink as a challenge to her and she makes a mess of the scene because she's over-confident, hence my question here. Plus, after 2M words to date, I'm looking for something special to close out the story arc, so something new beyond 24/7, whips, breathplay, piercing, auotassasinophilia, forniphilia, chastity, total enclosure, AI edging devices, degradation, cuckolding, cross-dressing, vac cubes.

Just wondering if there's anything that surfaces in the fantasies of the collective here that might warrant a story chapter.

 

[magic_rat]

Amputation?

I don't think it has to be anything hugely wild, as long as it's something outside her experience and has the capacity to go bad.

How about hypnosis?

 

[oneagainst]

Amputation! Now there's a kink you can only endulge once... or i guess 4 times...!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Findom, CBT, maybe sharing or cheating.

 

[Erozetta]

Amputation! Now there's a kink you can only endulge once... or i guess 4 times...!

5 or you're a guy.

 

[oneagainst]

5 or you're a guy.

OMG you'd chop his head off?

Oh, wait.

But then again, for a guy, the choice of that 5th one could be a line-ball call

 

[PaxNurgle]

Without spoilers, the characters I have in mind are both competent, professional people, not reckless. The Domme is the wife from Total Female Control.

I'm just working up the finishing touches to the sequel. Specifically, the scene needs to hit the following story target: she agrees to domme, but the sub is way more experienced and throws in some esoteric kink as a challenge to her and she makes a mess of the scene because she's over-confident, hence my question here. Plus, after 2M words to date, I'm looking for something special to close out the story arc, so something new beyond 24/7, whips, breathplay, piercing, auotassasinophilia, forniphilia, chastity, total enclosure, AI edging devices, degradation, cuckolding, cross-dressing, vac cubes.

Just wondering if there's anything that surfaces in the fantasies of the collective here that might warrant a story chapter.

Being "Toileted" perhaps? (Without going into detail it is as degrading and/or gross as it sounds, and admittedly something that makes a lot of people squeamish...) Or forced bi/fluffing another man?

 

[Lotus_Kitty]

Role play that involves lots of ad libbing and improv. That would be hella tricky for me! If you Domme is allergic to spur of the moment improv like I am, she'd find it challenging too.

Role playing a character or in a setting she isn't familiar with. I might do a passable pirate but don't ask me for something from some specific book or show I'm not familiar with.

Role playing something she finds repugnant but that doesn't break one of her limits. Sadistic prison guard would be that for me.

 

[Lotus_Kitty]

I don't think it has to be anything hugely wild, as long as it's something outside her experience and has the capacity to go bad.

How about hypnosis?

Ooh, yes hypnosis! That would land like lead balloon if he doesn't go under!

 

[Lotus_Kitty]

Without spoilers, the characters I have in mind are both competent, professional people, not reckless. The Domme is the wife from Total Female Control.

Well now I'm itching for spoilers but I'll just have to content myself with the first story for now.

How about temperature play with candles, but she hates fire? Or ice cubes but the AC's out and everything melts too fast?

 

[oneagainst]

All good suggestions - all you're doing now is feeding those damn bunnies!!

 

[zedventimon]

You could find an idea by going in the reverse, and first deciding what kind of a mess she makes, and in what setting. Physical injury? Not recognising when she should react a certain way or even stop? Does she overthink it and gets overwhelmed? Does this happen in a private setting? Out in the public? Or somewhere like a club in front of an in-the-scene audience? What kind of a scene is it, a straightforward D/s one? Or something that would require a more nuanced approach like topping, but also topping from the bottom? Is it only them two in the scene, or is there another dom or sub assisting? These could help you narrow down where they are and what they could be doing there, and then maybe it's easier to find a kink to match that.
Sorry this is kind of generic and I'm not listing actual kinks, it's on purpose -- I'm up-to-date with your story and I don't want to put anything that could be me trying to insert my opinions or ideas into the sequel. I do that enough in the comments already.
Although I must say, "Without spoilers, the characters I have in mind are both competent, professional people, not reckless. The Domme is the wife from Total Female Control"? -- some might say this is already kind of a spoiler ... In any case, I'll learn what happens in due time with everyone else. And keep up the good work!

[edited for spelling]

 

[oneagainst]

@zedventimon I was looking for something that readers would be able to follow along with, that they'd be used to, and probably in the kink club from the other stories, so that's nice and familiar too, and then take a hard left. Like the stand up comedy show where the comedian starts making jokes about subjects you wouldn't touch with a barge pole, that sort of reaction. Given the sheer extent of the kink spectrum, it wasn't easy finding something that would do that, but in the comments above I think I got my answer

 

[naughty_stories]

Permant chastity.. castration...ownership branding/tattooing

 

[SPARTAN047]

Permant chastity.. castration...ownership branding/tattooing

All on point and some of my strongest fetishes.

 

[oneagainst]

Never was able to wrap my head around the appeal of the castration thing... it seems like the opposite of a good time