What made you fantasize about kinky things involving your partner?

[aziegmann]

I would really like to read your opinions, as me myself can't explain how and why it started with me, although I know it was something sudden (but nothing has been communicated/shared with my wife and put into practice yet).

And how did things turn out from there? Did you work up the courage and share it with your partner? Have there been any negative reactions?

 

[Justfantasies]

Not sure why it started, but increased as I got older

 

[SPARTAN047]

I've thought of doing most things I watched in porn with a lover, like face sitting, face fucking and so on. It was mostly porn and wanting to be used, or feeling submissive. And I wanted to feel desired, one way to make them desire me was do what they wanted like a good slut.

 

[UtilityCurve]

Not sure why it started, but increased as I got older

Because you exhausted the "normal" things to do? After all, repetition is not the spice of life.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Because you exhausted the "normal" things to do? After all, repetition is not the spice of life.

Great way of putting it. That's precisely why I started enjoying more taboo fantasies, I was sick of the vanilla ones. I even welcomed slightly forced sex sometimes IRL and in fantasy because it was so hot to be desired.

 

[Bigjase0101]

Bizarrely same here. As I have got older my kinks have become filthier. Cannot explain why

 

[Sgts19]

Can't really pinpoint when I started thinking of someone else fucking my wife? I do remember how excited I got watching my ex-college girlfriend getting fucked. When I got married that sure wasn't in my head but after the first couple years of being married, I noticed how many other men were checking my wife out and some things my friends said...nothing bad but more in the line of I can't believe she'd marry you. As the years went anywhere, we went anywhere guys were following her along like puppies. She started doing a little modeling which just fanned the flames, guys were all over her. We eventually became friends with a couple very much like us and ended up with the four of us swapping. I say swapping but its not only the sex that's just an add on to our relationship. All this was long ago when we were much much younger

 

[SPARTAN047]

Bizarrely same here. As I have got older my kinks have become filthier. Cannot explain why

I guess it's boredom. My kinks are now so filthy I can't always discuss them in a public forum.

 

[Bigjase0101]

Same although I think this forum maybe acceptable.. for me anyway I think.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Same although I think this forum maybe acceptable.. for me anyway I think.

I've brought up some of them but not all.

 

[Bigjase0101]

I've brought up some of them but not all.

Fair play. At the end of the day up to you with how comfortable you are with it all

 

[SPARTAN047]

Fair play. At the end of the day up to you with how comfortable you are with it all

I usually don't mind discussing them in DMs, I just don't want judgemental comments from everyone.

 

[Bigjase0101]

I usually don't mind discussing them in DMs, I just don't want judgemental comments from everyone.

Fair enough mate. No pressure from me, feel free to DM no passing judgement from eye. You are also within your rights to tell people to fuck off too!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Fair enough mate. No pressure from me, feel free to DM no passing judgement from eye. You are also within your rights to tell people to fuck off too!

If you're sure you want to discuss them. And yes, we can tell people to sod off but it's hard when she many people call you a disgusting pervert.

And then later message you to say your fantasies are great but they weren't horny then.

 

[Bigjase0101]

If you're sure you want to discuss them. And yes, we can tell people to sod off but it's hard when she many people call you a disgusting pervert.

And then later message you to say your fantasies are great but they weren't horny then.

Drop me a private message mate. Each to their own.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Drop me a private message mate. Each to their own.

Sure thing.

 

[zoso682001]

If you're sure you want to discuss them. And yes, we can tell people to sod off but it's hard when she many people call you a disgusting pervert.

And then later message you to say your fantasies are great but they weren't horny then.

I'm trying to remember the last time I wasn't horny .

 

[SPARTAN047]

I'm trying to remember the last time I wasn't horny .

You could be the exception.

I can remember a few times I wasn't, even as a teenager.

 

[Easypeter]

My kinky side started when I saw my wife at a party. She was sucking a guy off in the parking lot and several guys watched her

 

[van_delay]

My kinky side started when I saw my wife at a party. She was sucking a guy off in the parking lot and several guys watched her

Hot.

 

[van_delay]

Meeting the man later in life who i know took her virginity.

 

[hulmule]

My mind is always racing about sexual things

 

[SmokingFap]

Bizarrely same here. As I have got older my kinks have become filthier. Cannot explain why

Two words. Inter. Net.

 

[Bigjase0101]

Two words. Inter. Net.

True. Viewing porn from a young age up to present day!

 

[zoso682001]

You could be the exception.

I can remember a few times I wasn't, even as a teenager.

There's always one in every crowd .