Sex & Shenanigans

[UnquietDreams]

Real talk, I can’t design someone. I can describe what I think I want but all the people I’ve loved and desired the most have been people who were very different than any list I would have written down. Some attributes might match but others don’t always because the person is far more than the sum of those attributes. I want the serendipity of the discovery of that person, not a shopping list.

Nice tits help though

Absolutely. It is such a a tricky, messy, wonderful melange in that type of attraction. And it has to be mental and emotional first, at least for me. I could try to quantify it to a list but even that wouldn't be right, or not complete. And there are people, in the world about me and here on lit, who hit those points for me, in lovely ways, both in positive ways as well as what they would call faults -- because that is what makes someone perfect for me. I posted once "I've seen your best. I've seen your worst. I want it all." Subjective perfection, I suppose. But that is what makes it magic.

 

[Qky75]

If you could design your perfect sexual partner … what things / traits would you include?

The more I've thought about this, the more I wonder if this is a hidden look at ourselves. The notion that I could design a perfect mate assumes that either I have no faults, my partner willingly accepts my faults, or is invested in making me better. Since it's clear I'm not perfect then the last two assumptions would require I also accept my partner for who they are and where they are. Some of the best sex I've had came from the connection I had with the partner who challenged me in ways I could have never designed.

 

[MandaPandaa]

If you could design your perfect sexual partner … what things / traits would you include?

Fabulous sense of humor
Dirty talk skills
Willing to experiment in the bedroom
Can handle me taking control
Creates an environment in which I feel safe to be myself and explore
Willing to give in bed as well as receive
Fun to be around
Intelligent and well spoken

 

[Taegul]

If you could design your perfect sexual partner … what things / traits would you include?

A beautiful woman who can be a filthy pig and appreciates a pearl necklace.

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[vagrantx]

If you could design your perfect sexual partner … what things / traits would you include?

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Fabulous sense of humor
Dirty talk skills
Willing to experiment in the bedroom
Can handle me taking control
Creates an environment in which I feel safe to be myself and explore
Willing to give in bed as well as receive
Fun to be around
Intelligent and well spoken

Boundaries Amanda, boundaries.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

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[MandaPandaa]

Boundaries Amanda, boundaries.

What are those?

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

What are those?

I dunno . Just a word I heard someone use.

 

[Qky75]

What are those?

Boundaries are inert ingredients you push to create fun.

 

[Mrtenant]

If you could design your perfect sexual partner … what things / traits would you include?

A hand that doesn't cramp up and get tired

 

[Trubbycat]

If you could design your perfect sexual partner … what things / traits would you include?

Someone who tolerates and occasionally accommodates me.

 

[MandaPandaa]

I dunno . Just a word I heard someone use.

Interesting... Sounded like you might know just based on the tone of your initial quote to my message?

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Interesting... Sounded like you might know just based on the tone of your initial quote to my message?

People often make the mistake of thinking I know what I’m talking about.

 

[hotcarl2785]

People often make the mistake of thinking I know what I’m talking about.

 

[Photog1rl]

People often make the mistake of thinking I know what I’m talking about.

Do they though

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I wanted a key. I think I got the gist of it but I kind of hoped for a vocaroo from @vagrantx explaining the emoji definition.

 

[UnquietDreams]

 

[MandaPandaa]

People often make the mistake of thinking I know what I’m talking about.

That wasn't what this was tho. Just fyi. I know you too well.

 

[vagrantx]

Do they though


I wanted a key. I think I got the gist of it but I kind of hoped for a vocaroo from @vagrantx explaining the emoji definition.

I want an evil-ish octopodian domme to tie me up and make me cum til I can't remember my name.

It's 2 am on a weeknight, not ideal for screaming in squidian on voca

 

[UnquietDreams]

I want an evil-ish octopodian domme to tie me up and make me cum til I can't remember my name.

It's 2 am on a weeknight, not ideal for screaming in squidian on voca

Oh, please?

 

[BrendaBear]

I want an evil-ish octopodian domme to tie me up and make me cum til I can't remember my name.

Oh come on.... who doesn't want that ?

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Do they though

No one is more surprised than me.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I want an evil-ish octopodian domme to tie me up and make me cum til I can't remember my name.

It's 2 am on a weeknight, not ideal for screaming in squidian on voca

just outta curiosity…when IS ideal for screaming in squidian on voca or off?

 

[BrendaBear]

If you could design your perfect sexual partner … what things / traits would you include?

Sorry if this is sharing too much. My ideal sexual partner is also my ideal life partner because those two roles are deeply intertwined for me. And currently, I am thinking a man… but at other times I have wanted a woman.

He is a little older than me
He is Intelligent
He has lots of different interests, some like mine, some very different.
He is at least as horny, or better still even more horny than me.
He has a wonderful sense of humor
He appreciates and enjoys my weird humor
He understands what I need sexually and pushes my boundaries
He is a natural dom of the same type of desires as my subby desires
He makes me feel safe
He loves road trips and the Oregon Coast
He ties me up and screws my brains out

 

[TXRafe]

Sorry if this is sharing too much. My ideal sexual partner is also my ideal life partner because those two roles are deeply intertwined for me. And currently, I am thinking a man… but at other times I have wanted a woman.

He is a little older than me
He is Intelligent
He has lots of different interests, some like mine, some very different.
He is at least as horny, or better still even more horny than me.
He has a wonderful sense of humor
He appreciates and enjoys my weird humor
He understands what I need sexually and pushes my boundaries
He is a natural dom of the same type of desires as my subby desires
He makes me feel safe
He loves road trips and the Oregon Coast
He ties me up and screws my brains out

well, i thought you almost had me until the road trips thing...whew...dodged that bullet