Cock Talk

Plainsure.

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How do you feel about pain is pleasure?
Do you spank or like to be spanked? How hard?
What “pain” devices have you used? Nipple clamps, electrified buttplugs, country music, etc.?
Do you like rope play?
How do you engage in this with a new partner? Safe words, lawyers, consent forms, etc.?
When did you realize you were into this?
Have you had a partner that wanted to go further than you were comfortable with, or vice versa? How’d that go?
I know almost nothing about this topic, what should I have asked?
 
How do you feel about pain is pleasure?
1000% please.
Do you spank or like to be spanked?
Yep, I have been. I've never found a partner who enjoys it.
How hard?
Depends on the partner.
Please dont break my bones...

What “pain” devices have you used?
Paddle, crop, cane, hand.... Hand is my favorite.
Nipple clamps,
Yes please
electrified buttplugs,
I'll pass thanks
country music, etc.?
Dick. Fuck. You. Lol
Do you like rope play?
Yep. Top and bottom.
How do you engage in this with a new partner?
Uhm. A conversation....
Hey, so I'm kinda into getting spanked... How about you??
Hey babe, I got this new rope, can I keep it in the bed room??

Safe words,
Always
lawyers, consent forms, etc.?
No? 🤔
When did you realize you were into this?
Ha. That first time he told me to put a binder clip on my clit...
Have you had a partner that wanted to go further than you were comfortable with, or vice versa? How’d that go?
I don't think so, I've been the instigator mostly....
I've been uncomfortable in roleplays before but never IRL

I know almost nothing about this topic, what should I have asked?
Have you tested your toys on your self?
Where would you like to begin?
Do you know where your most sensitive pain spots are?
What's your favorable form of after care?
 
1000% please.

Yep, I have been. I've never found a partner who enjoys it.

Depends on the partner.
Please dont break my bones...


Paddle, crop, cane, hand.... Hand is my favorite.

Yes please

I'll pass thanks

Dick. Fuck. You. Lol

Yep. Top and bottom.

Uhm. A conversation....
Hey, so I'm kinda into getting spanked... How about you??
Hey babe, I got this new rope, can I keep it in the bed room??


Always

No? 🤔

Ha. That first time he told me to put a binder clip on my clit...

I don't think so, I've been the instigator mostly....
I've been uncomfortable in roleplays before but never IRL


Have you tested your toys on your self?
Where would you like to begin?
Do you know where your most sensitive pain spots are?
What's your favorable form of after care?
Great answer. The most important points in my mind are "Communication" and "Try it on yourself" (That's why my dogs have never had a shock collar). I think a Dom needs to know the sting of his or her favourite impact tool.

Also consider: if you are going to tie someone up, you have to understand not to stress the joints . If you are tying someone's arms overhead, make sure they can bear the weight on their palms, not their wrists.

But,
Plainsure.

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How do you feel about pain is pleasure?
Yes. (Is that actually a question? :ROFLMAO: ).
Do you spank or like to be spanked? How hard?
I am A Dom. I am a spanker. My spankees communicate their enjoyment / discomfort via safewords. (see below)
What “pain” devices have you used? Nipple clamps, electrified buttplugs, country music, etc.?
Funny, I wrote a story about two women tormenting their Dom by binding him and forcing him to listen to "All I Want for Christmas is You" on repeat for hours :ROFLMAO:...

My favourite impact tool is the flogger (so versatile). I have used clamps and various similar objects. I have not tried electricity.
Do you like rope play?
I have to use all that stuff I learned in the Scouts someplace. (I truly enjoy rigging).
How do you engage in this with a new partner? Safe words, lawyers, consent forms, etc.?
Communicate, go slow. I use 3 safewords: Green for "good, keep going", Yellow for "slow down" and Red for "STOP!" That helps to develop an understanding.

When did you realize you were into this?
Heh heh heh...when I learned to tie a handcuff knot (see above).
Have you had a partner that wanted to go further than you were comfortable with, or vice versa? How’d that go?
Yes. WAY further. It ended. (It was a case of her wanting pain with no pleasure attached and wantng me to ignore one of MY hard limits).
I know almost nothing about this topic, what should I have asked?
Limits: know the difference between soft limits (words like "this scares me a bit" or "I'm not sure that I am all that comfortable with it") and hard limits (phrases like "Absolutely not!" "No way in Hell" and "Tickle me and die motherfucker")

Hard limits need to be respected and generate a full stop.

Soft limits are an opportunity to grow, to learn, to expand, to push a bit. (But remember the safewords). And agree to pushing the limits.

OH YEAH: If your sub is gagged, make sure they have a free hand (or foot) to signal "stop" with. (a knee to the balls works too).
 
Does this mean you like your hands and feet tied, or you like to tie up a top and bottom and watch them fuck? 🤔
The Top can tie the top of the bottom or the bottom of the bottom or both. The bottom can ask the Top to tie the top of the bottom or bottom of the bottom or both. The bottom's top gets tied by their Top, but the bottom can tie their own top and give their Top a break, if that's at the top of their minds.

The Top and bottom can fuck if the bottom agrees and the Top deems it appropriate, because the Top receives permission from the bottom to be the Top. (Note that the Top may be on the top or the bottom during said fucking)

Maybe we should talk about happy knots.

(PYL /pyl for "pick your label)
 
The Top can tie the top of the bottom or the bottom of the bottom or both. The bottom can ask the Top to tie the top of the bottom or bottom of the bottom or both. The bottom's top gets tied by their Top, but the bottom can tie their own top and give their Top a break, if that's at the top of their minds.

The Top and bottom can fuck if the bottom agrees and the Top deems it appropriate, because the Top receives permission from the bottom to be the Top. (Note that the Top may be on the top or the bottom during said fucking)

Maybe we should talk about happy knots.

(PYL /pyl for "pick your label)
Oh TAN....
I followed all of that....
I think I'm in love....
 
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