Dominant women

[Submissivepat]

I really find it interesting, and somewhat frustrating, that women who are dominant don’t really chat with submissive women. Maybe I’m doing something wrong.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

Maybe a part of the appeal for Dominant women is turning typical gender roles on their heads.

 

[subdudeme13]

Maybe a part of the appeal for Dominant women is turning typical gender roles on their heads.

There are gender rules? My experience has been exactly what you say. I was never into being a sissy but one's desires can be coerced and changed.

 

[RobynDominque]

I really find it interesting, and somewhat frustrating, that women who are dominant don’t really chat with submissive women. Maybe I’m doing something wrong.

Most dominant women want to dominate men, you might try dominant TVs or TSs
Mistress Robyn Dominique

 

[Dearelliot]

I've never had a non professional or professional FemDom chat with me unless I gave her money.

 

[IARainman]

I really find it interesting, and somewhat frustrating, that women who are dominant don’t really chat with submissive women. Maybe I’m doing something wrong.

They don’t chat with submissive men either unless they’re pro , I’ve seriously had like 3 ever of any substance

 

[Sappho_CGN]

I think, it is a question of probability:

1. Women sexually dominant by nature are rare.
2. Lesbian or bisexual or heteroflexible women are also rare.
3. The combination of 1. and 2. is obviously extremly rare

 

[ChuckWolf]

Awhile back in my pre-Literotica days, I did a few roleplay chats with submissive women (I'm a guy) and, while I think they had a good time, after awhile, it felt like a chore and that I was doing most of the work.

Maybe that's what at play here?

 

[Sappho_CGN]

@ChuckWolf

You know that they were women?

 

[ChuckWolf]

@ChuckWolf

You know that they were women?

Well, they said they were, but yeah, who knows?

EDIT: Just to clarify, I'm not attributing this to just submissive women, I imagine the same issue could be with submissive men (like me) as well.

 

[Sappho_CGN]

because normally a submissive woman has a broad imagination, many fantasies and therefore should be able to communicate ... .

 

[Sappho_CGN]

Well, they said they were, but yeah, who knows?

EDIT: Just to clarify, I'm not attributing this to just submissive women, I imagine the same issue could be with submissive men (like me) as well.

Not really ...

if you have a man camouflaged as woman but straight he will have a tendency to avoid writing like a woman as from his perspective it sounds gay ("I lick your big cock ... please, fuck me!").

So he, maybe, tries to avoid that.

 

[IARainman]

I think, it is a question of probability:

1. Women sexually dominant by nature are rare.
2. Lesbian or bisexual or heteroflexible women are also rare.
3. The combination of 1. and 2. is obviously extremly rare

I’d like a Venn diagram please.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

Awhile back in my pre-Literotica days, I did a few roleplay chats with submissive women (I'm a guy) and, while I think they had a good time, after awhile, it felt like a chore and that I was doing most of the work.

Maybe that's what at play here?

From my experience with Dominant men, it's far from a chore. They take as much pleasure from my submission as I do.

I attempted the Domme role once, thinking I was a switch. Nope. I felt uncomfortable and awkward. I felt like a lot was expected of me. As a sub, a lot is expected of me but it's only uncomfortable or awkward when I am having my submission tested, which is something I enjoy.
Maybe you found it a chore because the submissive parts of your character are to strong.

 

[ChuckWolf]

From my experience with Dominant men, it's far from a chore. They take as much pleasure from my submission as I do.

I attempted the Domme role once, thinking I was a switch. Nope. I felt uncomfortable and awkward. I felt like a lot was expected of me. As a sub, a lot is expected of me but it's only uncomfortable or awkward when I am having my submission tested, which is something I enjoy.
Maybe you found it a chore because the submissive parts of your character are to strong.

No, I just felt like I was the one doing most of the work/talking.

Of course, I'm not really a big chat guy anyway.

 

[AprilTwenties]

I have a dominant owner who's female. Think I put her into that role and she took to it easy. I took to my role surprisingly easy too, boo.

A x

 

[lowcollar]

I've known a few women who preferred to be dominant. I have known more who prefer the submissive role or just vanilla.

 

[subdudeme13]

I have a dominant owner who's female. Think I put her into that role and she took to it easy. I took to my role surprisingly easy too, boo.

A x

We are what we are. Enjoy the ride.

 

[subdudeme13]

From my experience with Dominant men, it's far from a chore. They take as much pleasure from my submission as I do.

I attempted the Domme role once, thinking I was a switch. Nope. I felt uncomfortable and awkward. I felt like a lot was expected of me. As a sub, a lot is expected of me but it's only uncomfortable or awkward when I am having my submission tested, which is something I enjoy.
Maybe you found it a chore because the submissive parts of your character are to strong.

I desire to have my limits pushed. It is a pleasure and pain cocktail. Sweet words, soft lips as a come hither temptation into more punishment. One thing I cannot resist is temptation. I have switched and submitted to a switch. Switches on the dominant side know what the submissive wants, they have been there. My main concern being on top is maybe going too hard. Lucky for me all my tops have been smarter than me.

 

[kathyisgr65]

Maybe a part of the appeal for Dominant women is turning typical gender roles on their heads.

Exactly

 

[subdudeme13]

Exactly

YOU would say that!

 

[kathyisgr65]

YOU would say that!

Of course I would..

 

[SPARTAN047]

I think they do sometimes for ideas or to discuss men like they do over drinks, also, some dominant women will get submissive women to do other nasty stuff with their own submissives, or even Dom men.

 

[Escierto]

I think, it is a question of probability:

1. Women sexually dominant by nature are rare.
2. Lesbian or bisexual or heteroflexible women are also rare.
3. The combination of 1. and 2. is obviously extremly rare

As noted by RobynDominique, maybe a trans woman. My girlfriend is naturally sexual dominant and even though she is ultra feminine, in bed she is the man.

 

[subdudeme13]

Of course I would..

I have trouble standing on my head! You know. The big one!