Husbands - How many men is too many?

[screwher]

Question for the husbands here. Everybody has a past. And some people’s sexual past can be a bit off putting to their spouses. Most men would prefer that their wives have had limited experiences with other men before him. While some actually like that their wives were promiscuous before they met.

So husbands - how many past lovers is too many? Or is there no such thing as too many? Do you maybe wish your wife threw it around more than she did? Or maybe less?

Now that you’re married, is your wife having too much extras marital sex? Or none at all and you’d like for her to take that plunge?

 

[Sgts19]

I'd say it depends on how old your wife was when she got married, in our case it was 22. She had a boyfriend for 3 years prior to us getting married so unless she was giving it up to every single guy her count was low, only 6 before me but I'd say it was maybe one or two more. If the numbers were high she would have forgotten most so what she told me she remembers, instant hardon when she tells me. 6 after we were married

 

[Justfantasies]

My first wife was 25 when married and started early. She eventually confessed to about 70. I never thought that was too many and enjoyed her experience

 

[WonderPonder]

To many isn't an issue for me as I took her virginity in 1988. She had only sucked off 2 guys before we started dating with one regularly for a few months. I've fantasized about her being more slutty before we started going out though. I was the only man she had intercourse with until this year. Our neighbor is her 3rd and this is a permanent situation now so not sure if they'll be a fourth.

 

[JR284]

I'm definitely in the there's no such thing as too many camp. For me it was the opposite. Learning how high her body count was actually a huge turn-on and if I'm being honest was a big reason why I asked her to marry me.

 

[Swuq]

My wife had a decent body count prior to marriage and has continued to grow as she finds he inner slut.

 

[magicalmoments]

This question tells you something about the mentality of men in the western world, (although it is probably enlightened compared to the non western part of it). I don't give a flying fuck how many men my wife has been with in the past, or in the future for that matter, it's none of my damn business.

But from a fetish point of view, I love knowing she is experienced and hearing her stories.

 

[gtnlynn]

Although we loved each other as teenagers and in college, my wife was free to date others the first three years of college while I was at another university and only saw her once or twice a month. I wasn't aware of the fact that she had sex with 10 or 12 guys during that time, but I did suspect that she was being fucked regularly. She confessed after we married. The number did not matter to me since she always dumped them if they got romantically serious. It was just fun for her. The number didn't matter. It could have been 20, 30 or more and I was okay with it by the time I found out.

 

[BiDrew42]

According to my ex-wife, she had sex with four men before me, including two different men in one night. I wouldn't have minded if the number had been far higher. Unfortunately, she had sex with at least two men (that I am aware of) during our marriage. One I forgave her for, and even offered to open up our marriage if that was what she wanted as long as she wasn't doing it behind my back. After her second affair, I divorced her.

After my divorce, I began a relationship with my long-time secretary. We were both in our forties at that time and she claimed to have had sex with over 500 men before we got together. During the five years we were together, I think she matched or exceeded her prior body count. She was definitely the most experienced woman I have ever been with and we had many great adventures together. I loved watching her getting fucked by other men.

 

[phil1955]

My wife had about 20 men before we married and 3 more while we were married. She never gave me a head count until a few years ago. We are in our 60's now. I did not think the numbers were unusual as we did not get married until she was 25 so she had 4 years of college and 3 years of being on her own. Even the 3 during our marriage was not a surprise as I traveled a lot on business and sometimes for a couple of weeks at a time. I suspected that she might have needed a little attention while I was away and so did I. I do not think her numbers were unusual and it does not matter to me at all. After we retired we got into swinging and her numbers have doubled in the last 4 years. Whatever she can handle is up to her and I consider it her right to fuck as many as she would like. Plus I really enjoy watching or just hearing about it.

 

[magic_rat]

I met my partner on the swinging scene and her numbers were very high. I love that. I don't want to spend time with a prude, I like to be with a woman who knows what she likes and isn't afraid to explore.

 

[Justfantasies]

I met my partner on the swinging scene and her numbers were very high. I love that. I don't want to spend time with a prude, I like to be with a woman who knows what she likes and isn't afraid to explore.

Not afraid to explore and treats sex as a bit of a giggle

 

[Paguy8641]

My wife was a virgin when we met. I am her 1 and only. I wish she would have been more promiscuous. I have told her that she is free to fine and fuck whoever she wants but she doesn’t want anyone else.

 

[magic_rat]

Not afraid to explore and treats sex as a bit of a giggle

Exactly. Sex is fun, not a chore. We both love to fuck, and both find the idea of never fucking anyone else ever again abhorrent. Last weekend she went off to fuck a friend of hers while I stayed home with our favourite ladyfriend. When my partner came home she was still buzzing and horny so our ladyfriend helped her out with a dildo and fingers.

I fucking love my life.

 

[Justfantasies]

Exactly. Sex is fun, not a chore. We both love to fuck, and both find the idea of never fucking anyone else ever again abhorrent. Last weekend she went off to fuck a friend of hers while I stayed home with our favourite ladyfriend. When my partner came home she was still buzzing and horny so our ladyfriend helped her out with a dildo and fingers.

I fucking love my life.

Girls who know what they are doing are doing are great. When they confess after, that's the very best.

 

[TheVegasMark]

Leave all your inhibition's at your inter minds door.....Share with me all your most erotic sexual experiences....I am with you now and don't care where these experiences came from....Let's Play.....!!!

 

[Anononly1992]

Don't know my wife's number, I'd imagine it's higher than mine! She used to say that someone once told her she should put cock sucking on her resume! I have to agree, so she didn't learn that from nowhere! She sucks great cock, so must have had a few to perfect her technique! I know she loved to go out and if she fancied a shag, as a woman, she'd get it! I met her when she was 28, so she had a few years of playing around before me! Don't need to know her number though!

 

[marf2200]

I don't care, 1, 50, 500. It does not matter

 

[TwoHeadsBald]

Question for the husbands here. Everybody has a past. And some people’s sexual past can be a bit off putting to their spouses. Most men would prefer that their wives have had limited experiences with other men before him. While some actually like that their wives were promiscuous before they met.

So husbands - how many past lovers is too many? Or is there no such thing as too many? Do you maybe wish your wife threw it around more than she did? Or maybe less?

Now that you’re married, is your wife having too much extras marital sex? Or none at all and you’d like for her to take that plunge?

Speaking for myself. I find promiscuous ladies to be hot. Especialy if they are open and honest about it.
I am single but my best affairs have been with promiscuous ladies.

 

[VDrago_1369]

I honestly don't care,

 

[shinybikiniwife]

i did not expect these responses to this thread topic!

 

[TwoHeadsBald]

i did not expect these responses to this thread topic!

For me the naughter the better. I had a lady tell my friends she stopped counting after 28. I fucked the shit out her that night.

 

[lc69hunter]

Question for the husbands here. Everybody has a past. And some people’s sexual past can be a bit off putting to their spouses. Most men would prefer that their wives have had limited experiences with other men before him. While some actually like that their wives were promiscuous before they met.

So husbands - how many past lovers is too many? Or is there no such thing as too many? Do you maybe wish your wife threw it around more than she did? Or maybe less?

Now that you’re married, is your wife having too much extras marital sex? Or none at all and you’d like for her to take that plunge?

For me, not a relevant question

 

[TwoHeadsBald]

Speaking for myself. I find promiscuous ladiez to be hot. Especialy if they are open and honest about it.
I am single but my best affairs have been with promiscuous ladies.

 

[hotcpu]

As long we are great together ... Past is past