Is there anyone else out there who has never topped? Total bottoms?

I'm curious if any other guys have never topped? Most statistics show the majority out there are versatile, but I've never had the desire to top. It's not that I'm fem but think I am just wired to receive. I never imagine myself playing that role but always identify with the bottom in stories, etc., since I first realized my sexual identity. I realize that for many, sexuality is fluid but mine has never changed. I'd love to hear from you all!!
I've never topped a guy
 
I bottomed before I topped. I've always liked things up my ass but I love shoving my cock in ass, male and female. In my case it's about sex and getting off not just being fucked.
 
never topped here never bottomed either. odd i know but i find gay anal to be disgusting. odd like i said because i have enjoyed playing with toys and fingers but recieve only.
 
Yes I did. But it's so warm and tight that I couldn't last longer than a minute. With woman I can go 15 minutes rock hard.
 
I prefer to bottom, but have no problem topping if that's what my partner desires. One of my current fwb's has never bottomed, so we were made for each other. Many times when we're together I don't even cum. I do love it when he strokes my cock while fucking me though, and he will occasionally give me a blowjob.
 
I prefer to bottom, but have no problem topping if that's what my partner desires. One of my current fwb's has never bottomed, so we were made for each other. Many times when we're together I don't even cum. I do love it when he strokes my cock while fucking me though, and he will occasionally give me a blowjob.
That's what I always think about my girl: we were made for each other. There's a nut for every bolt!
 
Sadly, around the time that I realized that I had an interest in sex with men, I developed severe ED. While I enjoy having a cock in my ass, I do periodically wonder what it would be like to fuck a guy.
 
While I would prefer to be a bottom, if I can get a hard cock buried in me by offering up my hard cock, I would be happy to do it. Anything that I need to do to get a cock in my mouth and ass is a fair trade🤣
 
I’ve never fucked a man, as I enjoy being the bottom. The guys I’be been with have all been tops.

Not saying that I wouldn’t if things lined up right, but as a bottom I just don’t seek out, or find myself attracted to other bottoms or even solid verse guys.

Although I’m drawn to masculine and straight men, I’d really like to try a total top TS.
 
With men... Total bottom. I topped my first male partner, but after gaining some experience and understanding what I like in a male partner, it's not for me. I attempted years later with a fairly fem guy I thought would just be oral and hand stuff... He begged me to fuck him and I just couldn't.
 
I never have topped a guy. I love being a submissive bottom. I can`t say I wouldn`t top a man
but he would have to be mighty pretty.
 
I wish, but I've kind of topped, just not very well due to my clitty size so I couldn't really penetrate anyone TBH.
 
I just like to please a man’s cock but sometimes I don’t mind a sultry 69 moment. I love to also get rimmed
 
I’ve only topped other crossdressers and would do the same for an interested transgender girl. I want all my guys to penetrate me.
 
Most of the time all I want is to perform oral sex on a guy. However a few times their masculinity overwhelmed me, and when they ask if they could fuck me I said "yes". I never had the desire to be the top. A few guys have asked if I could top them. I always declined.
 
I have never topped....another man. Going back over 50 years I have only bottomed. I have had anal sex with my wife but we'd never say I "topped" her. Of course, and with my proclivity for wanting anal penetration, she has pegged me or fucked my ass with a multitude of toys many more times than I've ass fucked her.
 
Most of the time all I want is to perform oral sex on a guy. However a few times their masculinity overwhelmed me, and when they ask if they could fuck me I said "yes". I never had the desire to be the top. A few guys have asked if I could top them. I always declined.
“their masculinity overwhelmed me”. Never experienced that but I feel I know exactly what you mean. You surrendered to their cock and balls and their domination. You knew your place in their world. You accepted it and I suspect you flourished in it. They left you barebacked, butt fucked, gapping and dribbling their cum.
 
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