Is there anyone else out there who has never topped? Total bottoms?

[whiteasianlvr]

I'm curious if any other guys have never topped? Most statistics show the majority out there are versatile, but I've never had the desire to top. It's not that I'm fem but think I am just wired to receive. I never imagine myself playing that role but always identify with the bottom in stories, etc., since I first realized my sexual identity. I realize that for many, sexuality is fluid but mine has never changed. I'd love to hear from you all!!

 

[AddyB]

I'm curious if any other guys have never topped? Most statistics show the majority out there are versatile, but I've never had the desire to top. It's not that I'm fem but think I am just wired to receive. I never imagine myself playing that role but always identify with the bottom in stories, etc., since I first realized my sexual identity. I realize that for many, sexuality is fluid but mine has never changed. I'd love to hear from you all!!

I too have never topped, although I am more submissive when I'm with a man! I love being the fem one in the relationship even though I don't look fem at all. My last Daddy liked me in cotton panties so that's what I wore to make him happy. I just wish he had a little bit longer cock.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

I'm curious if any other guys have never topped? Most statistics show the majority out there are versatile, but I've never had the desire to top. It's not that I'm fem but think I am just wired to receive. I never imagine myself playing that role but always identify with the bottom in stories, etc., since I first realized my sexual identity. I realize that for many, sexuality is fluid but mine has never changed. I'd love to hear from you all!!

I too have never topped, always been a bottom. Like the OP, I don't think I am wired to be a top. Part of it for me is mental, as I am small in the cock department, and would feel inferior trying to top some guy. Therapy taught me I am a "people pleaser" so I guess my happy place is on my knees or on my back!!!

 

[CambridgeBi]

With men 100% bottom, I'm only the 'male' with a woman.

 

[saintcero]

Never have Topped a guy and never will. It took me long enough to figure out that I was a submissive bottom; now I want t live it

 

[Busy54]

Total bottom here never topped and zero desire to top….. love being a bottom. Been a bottom for 45 years

 

[xdresssissytoes]

All bottom here....born this way.......

 

[easyoff]

I have only topped once, I am a total bottom

 

[saintcero]

All bottom here....born this way.......

Don’t fight the feeling, just look over your shoulder and tell him, “Now make me your bitch!”

 

[xdresssissytoes]

Don’t fight the feeling, just look over your shoulder and tell him, “Now make me your bitch!”

Face down...ass up.....fuck hole spread and wanting.....needing Daddy to fuck his bitch.....balls deep .........

 

[saintcero]

Face down...ass up.....fuck hole spread and wanting.....needing Daddy to fuck his bitch.....balls deep .........

Balls slapping against you is the best feeling/the best sound ever.

 

[Busy54]

Balls slapping against you is the best feeling/the best sound ever.

The BEST feeling is when they initially press into you……. Mmmmmmm

 

[xdresssissytoes]

Balls slapping against you is the best feeling/the best sound ever.

Uhhhhhh......uhhhhhh.....uhhhhhhhh........yessssss,........

 

[Swuck]

I have never topped a guy. I have probably been with 50-60 men and have enjoyed riding their hard cocks.

For me submitting myself to a top and having him use me for his pleasure provides balance to my daily life where I am an alpha type.

 

[OldGoodPup]

Cannot even imagine topping a Miss. Who would dare? They have all the power.

 

[Missmister]

I'm curious if any other guys have never topped? Most statistics show the majority out there are versatile, but I've never had the desire to top. It's not that I'm fem but think I am just wired to receive. I never imagine myself playing that role but always identify with the bottom in stories, etc., since I first realized my sexual identity. I realize that for many, sexuality is fluid but mine has never changed. I'd love to hear from you all!!

i have topped only once in my life, and that was enough.

 

[Septembersun]

I tried topping once the very first time I was with a guy. Whether it was from the condom or my nerves or some other reason, I could not stay hard enough to fuck him. I did not want to let the opportunity go to waste though, so I asked him if he wanted to try fucking me instead.

It turned out be one of the best decisions I ever made and I have not felt the desire to try topping ever again.

And strangely enough, my cock had no problem getting and staying rock hard once his cock was buried in my ass. I guess the small head knew what it wanted before the big head did lol.

 

[Escierto]

In our five years together I have never topped my girlfriend but she has fucked me hundreds of times. We are both very happy with that arrangement. It seems to suit our sexual identities - her dominating and penetrating - me submissive and receptive.

 

[Biguy77578]

No I've always been an equal opportunity fucker. I like to top and bottom.

 

[CdKimMajick]

I've done both but by far prefer to be a bottom. Even if I am not dressed and in normal clothes and getting fucked i'm the bottom.

 

[starfish71]

Total bottom when it comes to M/M play… no interest in topping a guy… conversely, no interest at all in being pegged by a woman…

 

[bobb64]

I've topped once and it was'nt what i needed so i'm total bottom now.

 

[Britva415]

Almost all my experience is bottoming with men and topping with women, but:

I've been pegged by women and dominated by women in other ways. I like it.

And I topped a man I was in a LTR with like maybe once. Maybe twice

The main reason I have so little topping experience with guys is that the only one I've had sex with more than just a couple of times was someone who didn't want to bottom, himself. Which is a little funny because he's very passive as a top, which always worked well for me because I'm a power bottom. But I suspect that he may not have been a strongly natural top at all, he just didn't have experience bottoming and I was really one of his very first ever male partners.

When he wanted to try out bottoming, it didn't go well - he hadn't learned to relax. We were very young and even though I could relax, it never occurred to me to "work him" and help him learn. Today I would probably be more patient and proactive about helping with that instead of just letting it go.

Lately I've been feeling like exploring topping with new guys, but I haven't done it yet. I don't know how it would go.

I honestly feel like my most natural and unrestrained sexual expression is as a switch. But I haven't had, or made, the opportunity to explore that with men. With women? Yes!

 

[Shyfunone]

I tried topping once the very first time I was with a guy. Whether it was from the condom or my nerves or some other reason, I could not stay hard enough to fuck him. I did not want to let the opportunity go to waste though, so I asked him if he wanted to try fucking me instead.

It turned out be one of the best decisions I ever made and I have not felt the desire to try topping ever again.

And strangely enough, my cock had no problem getting and staying rock hard once his cock was buried in my ass. I guess the small head knew what it wanted before the big head did lol.

I tried topping once too he was tight and I was too thick for him and kept going soft, so he started sucking me and rimming my asshole and I was in heaven after about 10 minutes after his tongue was in my ass I was bent over taking him balls deep. He was not usually a top and it was my first time either way and found I love being fucked in the ass, I was riding him til he exploded deep in my ass and I was hooked, only problem is can’t find another taker,

 

[Luv2ReadKinkyStories]

I'm curious if any other guys have never topped? Most statistics show the majority out there are versatile, but I've never had the desire to top. It's not that I'm fem but think I am just wired to receive. I never imagine myself playing that role but always identify with the bottom in stories, etc., since I first realized my sexual identity. I realize that for many, sexuality is fluid but mine has never changed. I'd love to hear from you all!!

Never topped... my nature, my fantasies tend to run submissive and receptive... Just never had the overwhelming desire to be a "top"