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My heart goes out to ya. Had the same issue for the last 5 yrs of my marriage. Its hard. Yall need to sit down and figure which way it needs to goglad to know i am not alone though mine doesnt even like it when i touch her, which sucks cause i love her and want to love on her sex or no sex and everything going in the world isnt helping as it causes lots of stress
i wish she would but its not going to happen, just taking things one day at a timeMy heart goes out to ya. Had the same issue for the last 5 yrs of my marriage. Its hard. Yall need to sit down and figure which way it needs to go
thats how i feel all the time now, granted since before covid and during i gained some weight i wont lie, but it just feels like the love isnt really there any more even know we tell each other 'i love you'Been in sexless marriage for 10 yrs. The main thing is not feeling desired anymore. That's the worst.
im not going to go into full detail but that is easier said than donePassion and sex is the glue that keep relationships thriving and growing and commication flowing. It's both people's responsibility to to find their playful self again and continue to stay open...
If two people can commit to that, then sex becomes an extension of the dance of the love you share. If your relationship has become boring, look at how you have become the boring one... (hard truth)
Remember what excited you both in beginning and instead of resenting them choose to either work on yourself and bring your best self back, or leave the marriage if you are unhappy and unsatisfied...
Life is so short and enjoy the body your soul has chosen to live in...![]()
Corollary, the only person you can actually change is yourselfPassion and sex is the glue that keep relationships thriving and growing and commication flowing. It's both people's responsibility to to find their playful self again and continue to stay open...
If two people can commit to that, then sex becomes an extension of the dance of the love you share. If your relationship has become boring, look at how you have become the boring one... (hard truth)
Remember what excited you both in beginning and instead of resenting them choose to either work on yourself and bring your best self back, or leave the marriage if you are unhappy and unsatisfied...
Life is so short and enjoy the body your soul has chosen to live in...![]()
To leave or to change? Which is easier said.... just curious.im not going to go into full detail but that is easier said than done
I am RIGHT where you are. Still love her but her body has betrayed her. We're not "roommates" but I've learned to put my physical attraction to her in a mental shoe box and push it way back on the shelf at the top of my closet.Back on Lit after a prolonged absence. Seems like not much has changed. I’m one of many in a sexless marriage as my wife has some health issues that make sex painful for her.
honestly truly, both, but i am trying to change myself by loosing weight but thats a challenge in and of itselfTo leave or to change? Which is easier said.... just curious.
Dont blame you a bit.Some great comments here. In a sexless marriage. Between depression and menopause my wife has flat out told me she doesnt think about or even desire sex. Both of us are healthy, in nice shape. I feel like im going to waste... I find i mss just deep kissing, good foreplay and the closeness . The after glow? She just wont even talk about it.It just goes into a pissing match if i just try and talk about it.. So i come to Lit , but i miss the touch , smell, taste of her body
Very well said.Some great comments here. In a sexless marriage. Between depression and menopause my wife has flat out told me she doesnt think about or even desire sex. Both of us are healthy, in nice shape. I feel like im going to waste... I find i mss just deep kissing, good foreplay and the closeness . The after glow? She just wont even talk about it.It just goes into a pissing match if i just try and talk about it.. So i come to Lit , but i miss the touch , smell, taste of her body
The feminine actually desires to be penetrated by action and presence...if you're into books... check out. "the way of the superior man, David deida." Such a powerful practice. If you really desire closeness find playful ways to ignite her without talking about what's not there...Yea i just cant get her to listen and understand what it does to me. How it works on my mental health. No i dont want to get a divorce , just want to be close again
If more mature women would take younger men under their tutelage, society would benefit greatly.The feminine actually desires to be penetrated by action and presence...if you're into books... check out. "the way of the superior man, David deida." Such a powerful practice. If you really desire closeness find playful ways to ignite her without talking about what's not there...
Her mind has betrayed her... there are things us as woman can do to get back our sexual desire, but she has to WANT to change her mind and seek medical help/ hypnosis/ therapy and desire for her beautiful body to become an expression of love, intimacy and connection once again!I am RIGHT where you are. Still love her but her body has betrayed her. We're not "roommates" but I've learned to put my physical attraction to her in a mental shoe box and push it way back on the shelf at the top of my closet.
My sweet granny had no sex for 30 years, all he did was smack her around. When I treated her right, I found a sexual animal.Her mind has betrayed her... there are things us as woman can do to get back our sexual desire, but she has to WANT to change her mind and seek medical help/ hypnosis/ therapy and desire for her beautiful body to become an expression of love, intimacy and connection once again!
I don't buy the fact that her body betrayed her. Menopause is a natural occurance but the MIND Body connection revived can be achieved...![]()
Oh it wasn't The Change. It was cancer.Her mind has betrayed her... there are things us as woman can do to get back our sexual desire, but she has to WANT to change her mind and seek medical help/ hypnosis/ therapy and desire for her beautiful body to become an expression of love, intimacy and connection once again!
I don't buy the fact that her body betrayed her. Menopause is a natural occurance but the MIND Body connection revived can be achieved...![]()
Oh, I see... that's so hard. My dad has cancer, I get it.Oh it wasn't The Change. It was cancer.