Sex & Shenanigans

With all the people abandoning their dating apps, it's the latest trend. 😀
My kid keeps trying to get me to sign up for dating apps. (Her best friend's father had been in four relationships the first year after his divorce, amidst a lot of dating. She thinks that at zero dates, I am way off baseline...) She somehow got my ex thinking I was signing up for both Tinder and Grindr, which confused her to no end...
 
My kid keeps trying to get me to sign up for dating apps. (Her best friend's father had been in four relationships the first year after his divorce, amidst a lot of dating. She thinks that at zero dates, I am way off baseline...) She somehow got my ex thinking I was signing up for both Tinder and Grindr, which confused her to no end...
Need to tell her that you are exploring jello wrestling as a hobby. All the hawt babes are into it.
 
I wish Lucas had thought of something that cool...
I mean he's clearly seen using force-jumps, jedi mind tricks, and other force-related skills during the film! It's undeniable. DarthDarth was the plan, with 120% certainty. Nay. 130%.

YES! Love this theory and have supported it for a whilr
There are dozens of us! DOZENS!
 
YES! Love this theory and have supported it for a whilr
I love the idea of Darth Darth, but I have no illusions that that was even a glimmer in Lucas's mind. Remember, I am old, so I saw the original trilogy as it came out, including "oh, no, I meant for Luke and Leia to be siblings the whole time." Dude, I watched the other movies. If that's true, you are way freakier than I believed.
 
First heard of that in Fargo. Their accents are eerily familiar, lots of nordic influence there, ja? Oh ja.
The accent was exaggerated but this is where most of the Norse immigrants settled. But Minnesota nice is definitely a thing
 
I was reading a blog post about someone who is a switch to themselves.

I got very confused.
I think I get it. I never thought about it in those terms, but, I'm a switch in my partnered life and thinking about it I can see those tendencies when playing by myself too. Some times I'll force myself to go further than what I really want to, and some times it's all lovey-dovey. I don't really plan on going whichever way, but it just sorta happens.
 
As someone with an inner voice I could see how this works. Your inner voice is the Dom and your body is the Sub.

In your head you're like "Yea! Do those dishes you dirty little thing, use those hands. When you're done I'll tell us to play with ourselves for a bit. No cumming!"

That's just my normal inner monologue....
Just over a year ago, I read something that totally blew my mind: apparently less than half of people have an inner monologue?! I do and I always assumed everyone else did too. Apparently some people have only visual thoughts, and/or process information like a computer that directly outputs them. I have both an inner monologue and visual thoughts, but my computer brain has my inner monologue preview its findings before printing, so to speak. I tend to overthink evvvvverything.

I can’t imagine how peaceful it must be to not hear that inner critic all the time, or not get anxiety-brain while trying to sleep, or not have their brains constantly self-correcting every word they’re about to say or write. 🤯

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...monologues-what-are-they-and-whos-having-them

This is SO spot on! Also I don't think I've ever heard it called Minnesota nice but it fits. I made this l meme to note the Midwestern face:

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Just over a year ago, I read something that totally blew my mind: apparently less than half of people have an inner monologue?! I do and I always assumed everyone else did too. Apparently some people have only visual thoughts, and/or process information like a computer that directly outputs them. I have both an inner monologue and visual thoughts, but my computer brain has my inner monologue preview its findings before printing, so to speak. I tend to overthink evvvvverything.

I can’t imagine how peaceful it must be to not hear that inner critic all the time, or not get anxiety-brain while trying to sleep, or not have their brains constantly self-correcting every word they’re about to say or write. 🤯

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...monologues-what-are-they-and-whos-having-them


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my inner monologue is constant. :rolleyes:
 
Just over a year ago, I read something that totally blew my mind: apparently less than half of people have an inner monologue?! I do and I always assumed everyone else did too. Apparently some people have only visual thoughts, and/or process information like a computer that directly outputs them. I have both an inner monologue and visual thoughts, but my computer brain has my inner monologue preview its findings before printing, so to speak. I tend to overthink evvvvverything.

I can’t imagine how peaceful it must be to not hear that inner critic all the time, or not get anxiety-brain while trying to sleep, or not have their brains constantly self-correcting every word they’re about to say or write. 🤯

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...monologues-what-are-they-and-whos-having-them


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I’m the same way I can’t comprehend the idea that someone can exist without thoughts bombarding their every moment
 
I can’t imagine how peaceful it must be to not hear that inner critic all the time, or not get anxiety-brain while trying to sleep, or not have their brains constantly self-correcting every word they’re about to say or write. 🤯
The new meds I'm on have actually quieted my inner monologue a good bit and it's so fucking peaceful some times. I can't believe some people get to go through life without 1000000 worries, invasive thoughts, or other nonsense constantly pressing for your attention.

I however don't have a minds eye and struggle to visualize anything with my eyes closed. I mostly just see black and if I try REALLY hard I can sort of see a shape. I whish I could see images like some other people can.
 
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