Sex & Shenanigans

Ok so here’s something I’m curious about …


If you were suddenly single and back out in the dating world ..,

Would you date someone who is transgender… would it matter if they were pre- or post-op?
What are we considering as dating?

Going to dinner and a movie?
Dancing?
All of that ^ plus smooching, groping, and sex?
Meet the parents?

Trans people need love like everyone else. I'm probably not anywhere near the first choice for a trans person to date. I feel like I prefer the women to have a vag rather than a penis. Though to be fair, never have I sought any other gender, or wanted to. I like being friends with anyone though, and will love a person for their humanity and good fellowship.

Are we talking about trans people as though they are some exotic specimen? Fetishizing perhaps? People that identify as trans are people. Human. It is my experience that all people whether they look similar as me, different skin tone, build, sexual identity, are at their core, human, with hopes, dreams, sadness, laughter, anger, hunger, thirst, lust, whatever, and share similar enough human experience to earn that minimal amount respect. Hopefully they are not psychopaths, but I think you get what I'm saying. Not sure where I was going with that, I had 6 breaks in the midst of composing this post. Fuck.

In a world where cruelty, bullying, callousness, hatred seem to make news or even sitcoms so often, we can do better. Be excellent to one another.
 
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